taurusgoddess
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Miscommunication & the Cancerboy
You spelled our your plans to him during the week Taurusgoddess.
He wasn't listening properly and so misunderstood.
Now, he's gone all huffy puffy hurt.
You sent him a nice e-mail trying to explain.
You got a curt, snappy answer back.
Even though you are hurt to the core, you must not let him see or know this.
Such a short, curt answer, deserves an equally snappy one back and quickly!!...us ladies must ALWAYS have the last word....so my advice, for what it's worth.....
You e-mail him back straightaway with something along the lines....."Well with that attitude Mister!, I certainly intend to have a good weekend"! Ciao!
We have a saying over here - it goes - make it short, make it snappy, make it up!!!:-) and it works a treat where guys are concerned:-)
I wouldn't give it a second thought.....you're too nice Taurusgoddess sometimes for your own good.......hey, you are the Goddess!!!...act accordingly:-)
A x
PS. - and do not ring him if he doens't ring about tonite - let him do the chasin'!
It's hard - but you will get thru this weekend and he'll think more or you - no-one likes to be the only available source.
He wasn't listening properly and so misunderstood.
Now, he's gone all huffy puffy hurt.
You sent him a nice e-mail trying to explain.
You got a curt, snappy answer back.
Even though you are hurt to the core, you must not let him see or know this.
Such a short, curt answer, deserves an equally snappy one back and quickly!!...us ladies must ALWAYS have the last word....so my advice, for what it's worth.....
You e-mail him back straightaway with something along the lines....."Well with that attitude Mister!, I certainly intend to have a good weekend"! Ciao!
We have a saying over here - it goes - make it short, make it snappy, make it up!!!:-) and it works a treat where guys are concerned:-)
I wouldn't give it a second thought.....you're too nice Taurusgoddess sometimes for your own good.......hey, you are the Goddess!!!...act accordingly:-)
A x
PS. - and do not ring him if he doens't ring about tonite - let him do the chasin'!
It's hard - but you will get thru this weekend and he'll think more or you - no-one likes to be the only available source.
Yeah TaurusGoddess, I agree with Alana (just be sure you don't imply cheating)
We Cancers are prone to pouting when we don't get our way. But you seem prone to hysteria relating to this guy....CHILL OUT!
Girl if he cooked for you, he isn't going anywhere anytime soon. You are VERY beautiful and seem like a good person. Don't worry so much, okay? I understand the confusing part, but the things that you have said about him leads me to thing you are in a good place with him.
CL
We Cancers are prone to pouting when we don't get our way. But you seem prone to hysteria relating to this guy....CHILL OUT!
Girl if he cooked for you, he isn't going anywhere anytime soon. You are VERY beautiful and seem like a good person. Don't worry so much, okay? I understand the confusing part, but the things that you have said about him leads me to thing you are in a good place with him.
CL
Thanks guys, I really do need to get away this weekend! Time with family & nature always brings me back to myself. I'm just a straightforward person & this stuff makes me hysterical or annoyed easily. It's tough to react any other way when that's how you really feel.
Yeah...Understandable.
I didn't mean to be harsh, I just noticed that you seem to worry alot about whether he is going to leave you or not and there really aren't any signs of that. You being earth are of course going to want to ALWAYS know where you stand...BUT
Dating a water sign is all about stabilizing the water but allowing it to flow freely. Ya know? You better be glad though...in my 26 years I have only gotten a dozen roses ONCE let alone any other type of "Just Because" gift. But then again I tend to subconsciously attract needy people...so
HAVE FUN THIS WEEKEND!
CL
I didn't mean to be harsh, I just noticed that you seem to worry alot about whether he is going to leave you or not and there really aren't any signs of that. You being earth are of course going to want to ALWAYS know where you stand...BUT
Dating a water sign is all about stabilizing the water but allowing it to flow freely. Ya know? You better be glad though...in my 26 years I have only gotten a dozen roses ONCE let alone any other type of "Just Because" gift. But then again I tend to subconsciously attract needy people...so
HAVE FUN THIS WEEKEND!
CL
MMMMMMM, camping out ,mmmmm,foooooddd,lol. TAuressGoddess u have any spare space,cancer man here from trinidad,Cancerlady how u doin ma? Hope u and junior doin good.
Hello boyz & girlz! My weekend was awesome, & cancerboy sure missed me, hehe
But holy shite there was the scariest storm at the campground (lightning stuck a tree down 1 site over!) tornado watches too. I thought we were going to die!!!
Anyways, just figured I'd say hi. I really realized I should put people & things in the importance that they deserve & not get uptight like I was last week. Nature does put me in the right train of thinking that's for sure.
*and yes, I ate like any taurean would for the camping event! lol
But holy shite there was the scariest storm at the campground (lightning stuck a tree down 1 site over!) tornado watches too. I thought we were going to die!!!
Anyways, just figured I'd say hi. I really realized I should put people & things in the importance that they deserve & not get uptight like I was last week. Nature does put me in the right train of thinking that's for sure.
*and yes, I ate like any taurean would for the camping event! lol
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Dan,
I hate leaving things off bad. I'm sorry I was so grumpy this morning. You greeted me with a kiss and I did wrong. I was really sure you knew about this weekend. I guess with no phone calls and hardly seeing you we miscommunicated our plans. I really didn't want to screw up your weekend. Please go and have a good time, we'll trade our good/bad weekends off, I guess. I really do want to see you tonight, but I'd rather you evjoy your whole weekend.
Call me at work (633-2500) if you want to get together tonight, or I will call you when I get back on sunday.
later babe,
Gwen
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