Mixed signals from my Cancer man

My crab and I have an extensive history. In his time of need, I stood by him, but we eventually drifted apart because of his temperament. I thought that we truly loved each other, but he quickly moved on and now has a child with another woman. I recently reconnected with my crab, and realized that I never stopped loving him. Since the day that I saw him, he would e-mail, me and occasionally call me. But now he has gotten cold and distant making me confused and giving me an urge to chase after him, when in fact I know that I shouldn't. I don't understand how it is that we can share tender moments one day, and then he ends up telling me about an encounter with another woman. Any advice as to how I should proceed?

Are you still in contact with your cancer ex? It seems like they will never go away, and sometimes I wish he would stay out of my life forever.

Forget what this guy tells you and look at his actions. You can't weigh a child with another women against a few emails and calls. Why would you chase after him?
Also as far as not understanding how you can share "tender" moments one day and not the next:
It is because he doesn't care enough about you to be someone you can rely on. If he's in the mood for you he'll entertain you and feed you lines and when he has better things to do you're out.
I see a lot of women here dedicating everything to nothing because they think if they put in enough time the person they want to be with will slowly come around and give them what they want. If you don't like how things are with this guy right now then move on to someone else you can be happy with at the present time.
If you enjoy the limbo and being discarded regularly then chase away.

Virgo, as ridiculous as this sounds, it wasn't until after I read your response that I came to realize how ridiculous I'm being, fawning for a guy that is demonstrating the complete opposite. The answer as to how I should proceed is quite clear now. But as for dedicating everything to nothing, you are clearly mistaken. I had the urge to go after him to try to find a solution to non existing conflict, but I didn't. Now, I am aware that I should be weary of people such as yourself for being presumptuous, but most importantly people like him. Many thanks for your response.

Lol@presumptuous

Posted by virgodreamz

I see a lot of women here dedicating everything to nothing because they think if they put in enough time the person they want to be with will slowly come

Nowhere there ^ are you named in doing this. Its just what I've seen here repeatedly but for whatever reason it seems to have struck a nerve with you
*shrugs*