ATTENTION ALL CANCER MEN... Please help me.

I'm a Capricorn and I've been seeing this Cancer man for about two months. I read that Cancers and Capricorns are exact opposite so they match perfectly. Everything started perfect... A classic fairytale. But now he's acting funny he doesn't want to spend time like he used to and we can never have a positive moment is always negative. When I try to have a serious conversation with him he never wants to talk about his feelings. He acts as if he doesn't care but honestly I feel like he dose. I'm normally good at this but I can't read him for anything in the world. And recently I saw a message from his ex she said she loves him he said he loved her back and I'm wondering if I should just leave them alone or go for what I want. And it's emotionally stressful but I really want to make a future with this guy...He's everything I pictured in a man. Please help me I'm confused and I don't know what to do.

Posted by CluelessCancer
Uhmmmmm the ex...red flag,sorry we're very nostalgic and if we tell an ex we love them, we usually mean it, who broke up with who?

sounds like your the rebound chick, sorry to say it.

Yep...

Even more so if a Cancer really cared for someone and they would think... "we where so good together..." Cancers want to believe in love... So their for if he loved her... he may try to go back... but once a cancer is fallen... they become clingy... which some types of people are ok and it will work out perfect... that is why it is so important to look at the bigger picture... but often they focus on the love and not the practicalities of life that must be in place and reinforced by a person that realistically cares... As anything that is not going in a positive direction over all should be ended... Cancers are beautiful people and you would be hard pressed to find a more caring and thought full person... but if you don't have there attention or love... then they will back off as they will not feel right about the relation ship... and chase what they feel for another... and the comfort they once had...

I would say if he wants you... he will have to proof it... I would eject before you get to emotionally involved... but based on what you are saying... I am going to bet you are emotionally involved already or you would not be posting...

Best of luck

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Im sorry but theyre right. Get out and try to detach yourself asap

This might be one of those things where you're going to have to let go a little and see what happens.
The ex thing is problematic.
Don't know enough to know if he was saying he loved back to be polite or if he's still carrying a torch.
He may be trying to sort things out. Don't press him.

Who cares if he is a Cancer or a Capricorn you are checking his phone... and found a text from an ex and he is telling her "i love you" do you really need advice on what to do—? Run as fast as you can...

Posted by Dafna79
Who cares if he is a Cancer or a Capricorn you are checking his phone... and found a text from an ex and he is telling her "i love you" do you really need advice on what to do—? Run as fast as you can...

+10000000 ditto to that....Learn to protect yourself hun. Get away from that ASAP. Why fight for a man's attention when he's onto someone else. Find someone who's devoted to you and ONLY you.

Crapricorn, you were wrong to go through his phone like some kind of psycho. He is having some emotional trouble due to his last relationship, so like many othershave said, just let him alone to be with the person he still loves. Crapricorns are notorious for stupidly trying to ram a square shaped object through a circular shaped entry point, but in this case, do not ram your agenda through his life anyway.

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Posted by Dafna79
Who cares if he is a Cancer or a Capricorn you are checking his phone... and found a text from an ex and he is telling her "i love you" do you really need advice on what to do—? Run as fast as you can...

+10000000 ditto to that....Learn to protect yourself hun. Get away from that ASAP. Why fight for a man's attention when he's onto someone else. Find someone who's devoted to you and ONLY you.

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Yeah, surely there is some fat, old rich guy with stacks of money she could chase after.

Point is...don't chase anyone.. Just let them come to you and if there's someone else in the picture then definitely don't chase. Never fight for someone's attention. If he wants her over you, great, let him go. Good riddance. How is he even everything you pictured in a man while he's a man who's telling another woman that he loves her? Is that your version of a perfect man? A man who's not really yours or is fully there or would make you fight for him? Don't play that silly game hun. No man's worth that.

Most Cancers don't like Crapricorns.... so you're likely to be the only in love in this type of match. If the EX is still ANYwhere in the picture with a Cancer it's NOT over.

Posted by Jey101

And recently I saw a message from his ex she said she loves him he said he loved her back and I'm wondering if I should just leave them alone or go for what I want. And it's emotionally stressful but I really want to make a future with this guy...He's everything I pictured in a man. Please help me I'm confused and I don't know what to do.

Don't push him and let him to be with her..He still has feelings to his ex and will always think about if he dosen't try..He just need to know it's over with her ex and he can't understand it unless he gave another chance..After he understand his mistake, he'll come back to you if you want to..