Mixed signals from my crab guy

So after a break up with my crab guy, after I was pretty devastated, I started slowly to let it go and get over it. But recently he began messaging me and we met and he said a lot of cute things, like "I swear someday I will marry you" or "God, you make me so calm" or "I could never get bored with you" which is awesome and makes me feel good. He also told me that he really enjoyed our get-together's.
I learned from my own experience that pressuring a crab guy is NEVER a good thing to do so I just let him be and let him come to me, if he wanted to.

BUT at the same time, after every time we meet, he seems to disappear into thin air, not contacting me for a couple of days. I somehow get this feeling that he's really unsure if he wants me back, out of fear of being hurt again (I kind of hurt him before the breakup, without me knowing it, and no, I didn't cheat).

So what do you cancer people believe? I mean I really care about him and I'm going to wait for him without pressure but at the same time I don't know what to understand from all those mixed signals. He says he feels so good with me but after that, he completely disappears. Is it normal?

He could be afraid and keeping his distance or actually keeping his distance so that he doesn't try too hard, and get hurt again. If this is after a break up give him some time to feel totally comfortable again to open up completely and give you all of his attention! 🙂

He's not disappearing on you if you don't hear from him for a couple days. He's obviously still interested in you or he wouldn't be coming back around. But it surely doesn't sound like you're in a committed relationship either. You gotta choice. Go with the flow here and see if it works out the 2nd time or either sabotage it or cut bait. In any case, don't make him this big of a priority precisely since you don't know where things are going. It might not work out the 2nd time around regardless of what you do. Keep living your life and just see where things go realizing it's really not the end of the world if it doesn't work out. You ultimately make yourself happy.

Este8 is right, he just needs time to process everything you know. He probably wants to make sure he can trust you. Just be you & live your life like Este8 says. If he wants you, he will find you. If it becomes too long & you still don't hear anything from him, it's best to end things then. Go by his actions, & that should give you many clues about his behavior & what you should do next. Like another Cancer lady named Arielle said here, words are meaningless without actions. So don't worry ok, he already knows how you feel. Considering this is round 2, you should give it time & see what his actions are like. I wish you the best 🙂

Thank you for your wonderful answers. I really feel better now 🙂 I will just enjoy my life as it is and if he wants something, he'll know where I will be.

Another question that crossed my mind today and I'd really appreciate the input, does a cancer guy has to have some sort of attachment in order to get sexually with someone? I don't really know how to ask this. Is sex JUST SEX for them? or is it something more about it?

First sentence there is a word and it is: someday. That is what he is saying and it doesn't matter what his actions are. Gotta learn how to speak Man..

Well some Cancer Guys are different, so i can't speak for them all. I know for me, there has to be some kind emotional or love connection before i can have sex with a woman. I don't wanna fuq a Crazy psycho woman lol. I think it's more than just sex for us Cancers. We will do it all for you & leave you breathless if possible. I think because we are caring & nurturing, that carrys over into the bedroom. Cancers can get down too lol even we cover it up real well by being classy haha. We wanna make sure our partner enjoys every aspect of Sex. Lots & Lots of kissing/cuddling, & really just everything lol. If you got a Crab that cares about you, he'll make sure you are taken care of 😄. I know it's like that for me. So don't worry. Make sure you can trust the Cancer first & that you mean a lot to him as a person 1st before you have sex ok. Glad your feeling better!

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Well some Cancer Guys are different, so i can't speak for them all. I know for me, there has to be some kind emotional or love connection before i can have sex with a woman. I don't wanna fuq a Crazy psycho woman lol. I think it's more than just sex for us Cancers. We will do it all for you & leave you breathless if possible. I think because we are caring & nurturing, that carrys over into the bedroom. Cancers can get down too lol even we cover it up real well by being classy haha. We wanna make sure our partner enjoys every aspect of Sex. Lots & Lots of kissing/cuddling, & really just everything lol. If you got a Crab that cares about you, he'll make sure you are taken care of 😄. I know it's like that for me. So don't worry. Make sure you can trust the Cancer first & that you mean a lot to him as a person 1st before you have sex ok. Glad your feeling better!

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Homie. U speak the truth.