Twin flame runner/chaser and cancer

I've read a bunch of articles over the last few days about twin flames and the runner/chaser dynamic, as I believe this is what I am going through. All the details are in the 'should I send this email' thread.

Almost every article I have read says that the male is the runner twin (or the one who flees the connection) and the female is the chaser. The reason given is that females are more emotionally intuitive and have a greater understanding of the connection's depth, while the male doesn't understand what is going on and fears the connection.

My situation with the virgo is the exact opposite. I was the one who was aware, almost from the beginning. She is the one who ran, unable to process the connection or handle the depth of emotions. I'm trying to make sense of the role reversal.

Cancer is the emotionally intuitive sign. Virgo is rationalization. My emotional depth led me to understand what was going on, her mind overthought the situation and couldn't process the emotion.

There's really nothing else we can tell you man lol. The more you hold on to her dead weight azz, the longer your going to feel hurt, anger, sadness, & ultimately depression. She isn't worth all that. Loosen up those Crab claws before your health becomes affected. I'm serious because it happened to me. But it's whatever you wanna do. I tried lol

You need to quit reading. Go out and socialize. Or go somewhere positive to get out of your head. Seriously.

I am too tired to expand but just remember most of the time these TF connections aren't meant to be a regular kind of relationship... The TF is about teaching us about ourselves, waking us up, making us change, think about life differently and grow! It is a love that is rare that both are ready at the same time! If one or the other is on a commited relationship when you meet, you have to honor that and let life " play out" you have karmic lessons to learn... You have to chill and let what will he, BE!

Sorry for typos.. Goodnight!

@Oceanofemotion-Check her videos out homie. Pretty interesting.

She sounds like a little ass girl. You are too emotionally mature for her.