ok cancers...... we broke up after two years because of long distance we are now back together i said for this to work we need to at least live in the same town he thought about it and he said he wanted for me to move in as he has just bought his new house.
I suggested getting a house share to start with but he insisted with what would be the point of that if we want to spend time together. He has a lot on at the moment with work etc also starting study as this certificate is important to him.
We plan for me to move in a week after he starts. now the thing is he hasn't really mentioned much about me moving in i have asked him if he is still happy about it and he replies with a yes and thats about it. I realise cancers are very closed people but damb this is hard. I just want to get excited about it . Do you think he does really want this?
if you truly connect with him again after that first break up then go for it. 2-3 years and you should temporary move in and see if your compatible...if he moves into his house and you don't go right away would that be a problem?
Cause once you move in. Everything you own is gone assuming you have your own place of your own right now.
Congratulations go for it. It seems you both are nervous, but remember it takes two now..and the idea for a guy to tell you move in with me means alot...its a huge adjustment for both of you. Especially if this is your first time moving in together after the long distance purpose...do you have a job lined up?
I moved in with my Cancer ex after dating for about two months...?ish? (lasted 5yrs)
He was very low key about the whole thing, no fuss, no housewarming, no excitement BUT he was 110% hands on with helping me get stuff there and I think a Cancer male is a really wonderful housemate! They love to cook, clean and chip in for everything.
Loved every minute of our time together =) You'll be fine, have fun and good luck
OK so a while ago we were chatting and he mentioned he did not want to be in a relationship for convenience which I totally agreed with him.
I mentioned that I'm looking forward to hanging out with my cancer man as we will living together doing normal things together like dinners,movies,cooking,drinking etc he comes back with cooking will be good though since I always make loads and just end up eating it all. You liking cleaning is a good thing for me cos I like my place to be kept in a fairly good order (unless people are round for drinks etc) with my OCD of things sitting in the right place, the right way round. Actual products i`m not too sure on but i`d like to think I had the right kit somewhere to clean up spills etc when they happen.
Is these not convenient things ?? or am i looking way to much into this?
You've been given some great advice from everyone, in my opinion. Stop thinking too much into it. If he seems a bit closed off, it's because there's a lot on his mind. Nothing to do with you. Just work and school. Go for it!!
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I suggested getting a house share to start with but he insisted with what would be the point of that if we want to spend time together. He has a lot on at the moment with work etc also starting study as this certificate is important to him.
We plan for me to move in a week after he starts. now the thing is he hasn't really mentioned much about me moving in i have asked him if he is still happy about it and he replies with a yes and thats about it. I realise cancers are very closed people but damb this is hard.
I just want to get excited about it . Do you think he does really want this?