Don't identify with moon sign

I seriously don't identify with my moon sign which is aries moon and my Cancer Man has a libra moon and that doesn't seem like him at all. The moon sign is suppose to be how your emotions are but these two moons couldn't be more opposite of how we are. ? so then what?

That is the exact issue. I don't hold my emotions in. I will communicate exactly how I am feeling immediately. Libra moon says they will communicate and avoid argument which is not like him. He is the opposite. He acts more like his sun sign (Cancer ) and crawls into a hole and avoids talking about emotion at all. He will even shut down me expressing how I feel by saying he needs to go to bed. Etc

Posted by TaurusGirlRas
It can also signify how you go about avoiding emotion. An Aries moon might seek to start arguements on the sly or go into work mode or something else. Libra moon is s little weird I've never understood it...they overanalyze n try to find balance in their emotions more than express it outwardly

Posted by Geminihope
I don't hold my emotions in. I will communicate exactly how I am feeling immediately.

This is very Aries of you!

Posted by Geminihope
Libra moon says they will communicate and avoid argument which is not like him. He is the opposite. He acts more like his sun sign (Cancer ) and crawls into a hole and avoids talking about emotion at all. He will even shut down me expressing how I feel by saying he needs to go to bed. Etc

Very Libra diplomatic indeed. A Pisces moon (for example) would say STFU, I feel overwhelmed.

al problems arise, Libra wants to discuss them with a counselor or friend, is open to suggestions and others' opinions, and wants to negotiate a fair, equitable solution. Aries is less likely to seek outside help and may have little patience for talking and airing the problem, unless some clear, concrete change results."

I dunno rhis just doesn't sound like either of us. ?

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Posted by Geminihope
I don't hold my emotions in. I will communicate exactly how I am feeling immediately.

This is very Aries of you!

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se it could be seen as diplomatic. To me it feels like he doesn't want to discuss emotion or anything that bothers me. He just wants to pretend there isn't a problem.

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Posted by Geminihope
Libra moon says they will communicate and avoid argument which is not like him. He is the opposite. He acts more like his sun sign (Cancer ) and crawls into a hole and avoids talking about emotion at all. He will even shut down me expressing how I feel by saying he needs to go to bed. Etc

Very Libra diplomatic indeed. A Pisces moon (for example) would say STFU, I feel overwhelmed.

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You actually are describing some of the classic traits of those Moon signs in your/his behavior though...

For further insight, take a look at the natal aspects your Moons are making.

Yep everything you're saying is spot in. Aries wants to rage, and because of that, can't "hear" the other person...push push push, irrational emotion.

The Libra (I myself am Libra moon) need time to sort my thoughts and feelings....I can rage too, its the bull in me, but the Libra moon needs logic and balance and I know I won't get that by flipping out...nor do I respond to anybody who doesn't get that.

Its the cancer in him that makes him want to pretend like nothing happened... And that's being supported by his Libra need for balance and control. That's not to say he won't be ready to talk abt it after some time...he will, trust me (my guy is cancer, I go thru this too). But nothing will be resolved thru the Aries aggression. You could learn from him abt giving some time to clear heads. You need to find that balance/compromise. 😉

Oh gees. Of course it takes a 3rd party to show me that my need to communicate my feelings is Aries behavior, lol. I know it's definitely my gemini nature. I didn't see it as pushing but I guess it is. _

Posted by phEnyxBull876
Yep everything you're saying is spot in. Aries wants to rage, and because of that, can't "hear" the other person...push push push, irrational emotion.

The Libra (I myself am Libra moon) need time to sort my thoughts and feelings....I can rage too, its the bull in me, but the Libra moon needs logic and balance and I know I won't get that by flipping out...nor do I respond to anybody who doesn't get that.

Its the cancer in him that makes him want to pretend like nothing happened... And that's being supported by his Libra need for balance and control. That's not to say he won't be ready to talk abt it after some time...he will, trust me (my guy is cancer, I go thru this too). But nothing will be resolved thru the Aries aggression. You could learn from him abt giving some time to clear heads. You need to find that balance/compromise. 😉

Posted by Geminihope
That is the exact issue. I don't hold my emotions in. I will communicate exactly how I am feeling immediately. Libra moon says they will communicate and avoid argument which is not like him. He is the opposite. He acts more like his sun sign (Cancer ) and crawls into a hole and avoids talking about emotion at all. He will even shut down me expressing how I feel by saying he needs to go to bed. Etc

Posted by TaurusGirlRas
It can also signify how you go about avoiding emotion. An Aries moon might seek to start arguements on the sly or go into work mode or something else. Libra moon is s little weird I've never understood it...they overanalyze n try to find balance in their emotions more than express it outwardly

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Posted by Geminihope
That is the exact issue. I don't hold my emotions in. I will communicate exactly how I am feeling immediately. Libra moon says they will communicate and avoid argument which is not like him. He is the opposite. He acts more like his sun sign (Cancer ) and crawls into a hole and avoids talking about emotion at all. He will even shut down me expressing how I feel by saying he needs to go to bed. Etc

Posted by TaurusGirlRas
It can also signify how you go about avoiding emotion. An Aries moon might seek to start arguements on the sly or go into work mode or something else. Libra moon is s little weird I've never understood it...they overanalyze n try to find balance in their emotions more than express it outwardly

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*We are air signs.

@roam lol oh gees so I debunked my own theory and we are EXACTLY like our moon signs.

Posted by Geminihope
@roam lol oh gees so I debunked my own theory and we are EXACTLY like our moon signs. ?

Yup, case closed lol

Posted by tiziani
The thing about modetn astrology, you can't trust 98.999999 percent of what is written out there about Air Moons period. Most of what is writren is based on a completely flawed understanding of emotion.

interesting