Please help me understand this cancer man

Honey, I am sorry that you are unable to let go. His lack of response is sending you a message LOUD and CLEAR. He is no longer interested. Please, PLEASE stop humiliating yourself by baraging him with messages. I am also a Leo sun and I know the need to feel like you;ve got to continue to reach out, but your denial is so intense you cannot see that he has given his answer inhis silence.

Nobody you closure, so don't expect it. Sometimes we have to process it thru on our own and with friends. For whatever reason, he has moved away from you and no amount of repeated contact will make him want to change that. I would think that he may view you as very clingy hence he has not replied. Again, I am sorry for the loss of this reltionship and that he did not have the ability to end it verbally and with proper closure.

*Nobody OWES you closure

Lady Sephora, after six months of virtual acquaintance with this man, I applaud your PATIENCE. You must have really liked him, but for what? Was there any depth in your conversations with him? You say one thing to him that (I suppose) offended him and he gets a wad in his bloomers and doesn't want to talk to you anymore? It is HIS loss. BGP is right, don't contact him anymore. You have done enough grovelling and he is enjoying it. Crabs find it hard to let go, so continue on with your search. He will return sooner or later to test the waters and at that time you can tell him (or not, if you don't want to) that you have moved on.

It sounds to me like you need to do a little damage control. From my experience with cancer men , they like to do things on their own terms. The more you badger him the more he will withdraw. you probably freaked him out a little too much. Stop initiating contact & if he is still interested I guarantee that he will contact you, if not assuage your pride & move on.

damn, they gotta pay us to read all this, and top of receiving some half baked truth?

BGP, pathfinder, aquariusgyal, kittyknitter - Thank you all for being so supportive. I was feeling very helpless and your responses have given me a different perspective and drilled some sense into 'stubborn' me to cut him loose and move on.
I guess I am in denial since I had felt a connection with him that I felt with no other. Even though our emails were very generic, I kind of felt that we could sense each others moods and feelings. Maybe I was just being delusional and idealizing the relationship.
I thought that if I have so much feelings, he would have some too. And I was probably trying to re-kindle that.
And I dont know if it is easy for a man/ cancer man to let go of a relationship (albeit a short & virtual one), if he had felt something too, based on just one mistake.
Anyways, I will stop all contact, since the emotions are draining me out. You are all right - if he had cared, he would have somehow initiated contact. I should not be losing my self respect and self esteem over a man who cannot even show respect to someone who has genuinely apologized from the heart.

moonman - Thanks for your comments too. I will keep ur advice in mind about the 'enter' key. It is just that when emotions are high and you are feeling helpless, paragraphs are the last thing on your mind

(((shephora)))

You will be ok. Im a recent heartbreak recipient myself. Hang in there, come back here and post often. It helps. I;ll even lend ya a pair of my extra panties 😉

2012 will be better, sephora. shine on...