question for cancer girls

if you have an interest in a guy how would you express that?

i have this cancer friend, that i did make some moves litle while back but she retreated in her shell.....it was my fault i was to bold and forward with it
so we jsut stayed friends
but lately she is coming on to me i think ( not that i have anything against it) but need to make sure
she invites me for dinners to her house ( she just moved back in with her parents , personal reasons) she sends me sweet e-card via email, she calls me sweet names, asks me to go on vqcation with her and her sister andher boyfriend
is she just being friendly or she starting to come out of her shell?

when i made moves on her she was still going thorugh her divorce but was seperated almostr 2 years, and now they are ready to sing the papers any day.....
dont know what to do .....

Well if it has been two years, you know for sure she has had some time to recover so you won't be consider a rebound.

hmmm duno show up naked at my door with cold beer? hahaha lol

When I like a guy I go right for it, he won't wonder if Im interested, he'll know....but then I have a Sag rising and my moon is in Aries!

hmmm, i don't make it obvious at first that i am interested in a guy. in fact, i am VERY distant at first and i do not act interested at all!!! i guess it's a big front, but i think i do it to protect myself...it must be that hard outer shell!!!

A Cancer female is never a girl..always a womanhood in full bloom. All the above answers hold good.

I have a Sag rising and my moon is in Aries!wat does that mean? i just started gettin into zodiac signs. wat im i?

i am so0o0 shy! leos deffinatly mastered the art of flirting. i like this leo n when he flirts with me i dont know wat say cuz for some reason i dont want him 2 know how i feel.stupid huh? theres times i do know wat 2 say back but i dont. im such a scardy cat! i get way to nervous n he has so0o0 much confidence.i wish i was like that!

"Slow, steady, consistent...that's best, I think. I like when a guy is able to ease me into a relationship"

yea with this leo i feel intimidated instead of at ease. i think its cuz i really like him n he is so confident. i rather take it slow,steady, n consistent 🙂
he is very forward. a true leo i think?

you gals sound like my cancer friend, she wants to be eased into a relation ship and she made a statement not directed at me just in general that she lives in her own world until someone poisons her with their own hmmmm i dont know i dont want to impose my life and life style on anyone and to poison someone with it? everyone needs to have their own world to some extent
so im an aries and she is a cancer, i made few bold moves on her an it was cool for few days but i could sense that she was nervous and not completely comfortable , than she shut me out and put up a wall, so i backed off way off cauze i kind of knew i scared her away, i took her over 6months to start just a little bit to be showing her head out of her shell and its only because i kept in touch all this time and was a friend to her when she need it one....but in these 6 months lots of things happened, i got involved with a girl and than broke off with her and developed an interest in another lucky gal and now my cancer friend is making her presence know...i dont think she will be anymore forward than this ...i mean she is asking me every few days when we gong to grab a dinner and go to zoo or catch a movie which i think is pretty bold fro a cancer after i made my intentions clear to her few months ago but at the same time im very interested in a gemini girl and the aries in me is having a moral crisis becuase juggling two woman at the same time is not my thing and even if i wanted to i dont have the time for it..........im gone for 2-3 weeks at a time to get back for few days and gone again..year round

w0w sounds difficult!
if u tell her 2 open up she wont. its very hard 2 open up 2 the other sex. me on the other hand if my friend was to tell me to open up to u i probaly do it n if the guy told me to i wouldnt. mayb shes the same? right now im tring to b more open bcuz i never knew i was like that till now.i feel like if express my feelings they r goin 2 b like "yea she likes me i got her" n i feel embrassed bout it.that is why i hold back. also no matter how many times they tell me they like me in the back of my mine i have a little feeling they really dont, but i know they do. if that even makes any sense.i just think how can they like me there probaly just spiting game n there a big player.maybe i think like that cuz the guys in my family r like that?
maybe thats y i never been in love n im 20yrs old! i runawy wen i start 2 like a guy 2 much i dont want 2 get hurt! love is scary how u can get so attached n then the other person could be playin u. let me tell u this horrible story.my cuzin went out with 3 girls at the same time one for 3yrs, one for 1yr, n the other for like 2 months. i was really young when i heard him tell my other cuzin n i havent been able 2 give my heart away cuz i feel their not worth it."true story"

it might not seem like juggling two at the same time but i kind of feel that it is, even if it makes me cool in the eyes of my buddies i have a hard time with...i do want both of them but my focus is little more towards the gemini because she is playing along the the cat and mouse game lol, she and i know what is going on here and be both (i think) get great feeling out of this....
now im supposed to go to dinner with my cancer friend next week and im little worried that she
might want to get little closer and i wont know what to do.....i mean i do want to kiss her and get close with her but at the same time i want the same with the gemin maybe little more....and i dont want to turn down the cancer one cauze she'll get embarrassed and feel rejected...aghhh.....
damn it ...first time in my life i have two very hot girls being all about me and i dotn know what to do,lol,.....seems like every man fantasy and im having a moral crisis...damn it!

Cancer like things slow hmm that's what I wonder. May I ask my own question to professionals cancer girls (ie in a working enviroment) if I may ?

I'm a weird :p aqua broke up from a relationship with a cancer (who btw was quite straightforward and not so slow) and seems I'm doomed to meet another cancer at work this time. Obviously at work you can't be so open so I'm looking for ways to express my feelings to her open up her shell. Anyone has any experience/ideas ?

So far she seems like a typical cancer ie cute, caring but also insisting, with an ego and in the shell ! Yesterday at work we had been exchanging emails with her about work and at some point, when I left my pc for a min, the person next to me, probably thinking I like her, she emailed her under my name with "i luv u". I'm thinking of using this. Thinking of messaging her at facebook saying sthg like "I didn't do that but I do feel that way" and give her the option to respond or ignore it like it hasn't happened. Hmm...

Cancers do move really slow. Especially the Cancer men. You can put a Cancer at ease by not rushing into things fast. If you are consistent with your acts of interest and they can see that you will be there for them, then the males will usually come out of their shells. You just have to understand them and pay attention to their feelings without taking those mood swings to heart.