since ia barely ever ask for their sign I tend to not know waht sign a person I don't get along with is. I am ususal more interested in knowing the birthdays of people I like. But yeah I found even with those I am closest too I tend to butt head with leos, scorpios, picies and Aries but I still love them all.
the scorp gets offended at everything! we fight and make up at least 3 times a day. ofcourse we both like to have the last word so most of the time I get it because she gets tired of my yapping.
the leo, as long as we are both in a good mood and he does not try to boss me around we actually get along well all the tiem, but, when we fight its definetly the fireworks your mom told you to stay away from.
the pisces in my life just are plain annoying. they nitpick everything I do and are suprise when I react to them in an unfavorable manner. I think I like them better when they are in lala land (which is most of the time thank god)so that they can get out of my head.
The aries and i dissagree on many things and argue like you won't believe, but the make part is the msot fun. I think that we purposly get on each othe rnerve so that we can make up.. He is childish, always need to be the boss, jealous, uncompromising ( although I have done a good job getting him to compromise, you know just make him think it's his idea) and oblivious to othrs needs.
i was born smack dab in the middle of july and I do feel alpha female. heck some may call me "alpha male" when i am on top of my game. I am playful and childlike but when in business i am in business. passive agressive is my thing but I can feel agressive-agressive.
kris you are such a cute kitten I like how you keep praticing your roar it'll get better.
"Well let's see now...fearful, cautious, paranoid, insecure, negative, moody, sensitive, defensive, mean, blamer, self denial, self absorbed...shall I go on? I can"
umm this pretty much not me fearful? yeah mice and rats are nasty and the devil.
cautious? about not jumping in front of an oncoming bus? sure.
insecure? sure I am not to happy about my profile, because it does not do me face forward justice.
negative? I live to look at the glass as half full plus I believe the grass is greener on my side hence my cows are happier.
moody? sure everyone's mood changes throughout the day.
sensitive? yeah I cried watching the lion king. trying to hurt me with words? good luck, physically? bad luck.
defensive? so in other words you want me to seat there nice and quiet while you butter on my face? fat chance.
Mean? yeah, i guess lending my book to the girl who spent an entire year bad mouthing me to the point that it ended her friendship to one of my close friend, an landing her my book after she made snide remarks when though I wasn't aware, sure that is pretty mean.
blamer? you mean like that semester I blamed myself for not studying enough and ending up with an 3.8 gpa? yeah I do play the blame game.
self denial ? you mean passing up the chance to get on that big roller coaster at six flags? yeah what a thrill to not have my heart drop to my stomach.
self absorb? well I will admit i am quiet the conceited cookiemonster? and yeah I could go on but my head will only get a bigger head from tooting my own horn.
nooo not serious about the total domination, but I do like to take charge. but yeah I have been making him think that he is in charge of everything that is about the only manupulation I have done, you know I just like things my way at times. we are very different yet very similarnow he made a joke about me being a worthy adversary and that not too many girlfriend challenged him before. I think it is more because we both like a challenge. we are both opinoinated, headstrong, love a good argument, of course naturally we always find our selves on opposite end of these. which I also like. the thing is I never let my guard down with anyone this fast and that sacres the crap out of me. I like to be in control of my emotions. plus he thinks anyplace is the right place to get extremely affectionate which is my pet peeve. I let him get away with until we were in the train and I ended up with a huge hickey by the end of the ride which I still sport. Then once I went home and saw him the next day I pretty much had a list of what he could and could not do in public. He thinks it is not fair but oh well.
well since we are trying to figure out how to be transformed into ann aries, my question is how to control one well not control but be the one in charge. here are my facts...
-I love to be the pants wearer in life and relationships, of course in public i allow my man to wear my pants but once away from the public i take it back.
-I have to be adored 24/7 by the boyfriend (sucks that we leave about 1 hour car ride away. so I can't have that much power over him.)but i like to have myspace, he is way too touchy feely in public.
-I have to have the last word
-I like to baby people ( this one is turning into quite the independent child)
now so far in about 2 weeks I succeeded in getting him to come around a littlte more often. I will admit I love to be chased as much he likes to chase. ignoring him does the trick at least in public. I think that is why he is getting so public with his display of affection.
...so how do I assume tottal domination or turn him into a fish? we may need depthy for this too.