Questions to cancers, Help please relationship with a cancer

That's not a lot to go off.

When I start to get indifferent, when I stop dedicating time to the relationship and start being distant and irritable then it's about three to twelve because at that point I'm already trying to figure out how to best break up with someone. But that's just me.

Once I see red flags or loose trust is when I'm done. And when I'm done, I'm done. But I have very high standards as my parents are still very very happily married after 50 years and still greet each other at the door with a hug, kiss and "honey how was your day". I've actually been the one to end all of my relationships. Perhaps once I find someone who can love me as much as my dad loves my mom is when I'll stay.

Posted by peo
That's not a lot to go off.

When I start to get indifferent, when I stop dedicating time to the relationship and start being distant and irritable then it's about three to twelve because at that point I'm already trying to figure out how to best break up with someone. But that's just me.

That's me too...

What are you guys placements?

Posted by peo
That's not a lot to go off.

When I start to get indifferent, when I stop dedicating time to the relationship and start being distant and irritable then it's about three to twelve because at that point I'm already trying to figure out how to best break up with someone. But that's just me.

Please read my previous comment, I think he's trying to end up and maintain friendship

Well, if you're telling yourself it's not going to work out, then it's not going to work out.

Cancer love is a bit odd because there probably isn't any sign with the capacity to love unconditionally like a crab, but they are also the most conservative with it. It's not given easily, but when it is, it's like "WHOA!" Their love can also be seen as foolish, because once in love, good God the crap they will take over and over again is just uncanny! Also, crabs will often fall for those who don't love them back, thus giving that seemingly limitless love to the wrong person.

Probably doesn't answer your question, but not a whole lot to go off of.

Posted by Pinkmoon0

Posted by peo
That's not a lot to go off.

When I start to get indifferent, when I stop dedicating time to the relationship and start being distant and irritable then it's about three to twelve because at that point I'm already trying to figure out how to best break up with someone. But that's just me.

Please read my previous comment, I think he's trying to end up and maintain friendship

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If he's anything like me or my Dad (cancer sun, Scorpio rising) then remain a friendly distance for a little bit. When I'm unsure and overwhelmed with someone's pursuit I easily pull back. My Dad always said that my Aquarius mom drew him on because she was so independent. I've caught myself falling for Sagittarians or Virgos a lot because of them being so independent and grounded.

When you show signs of disloyalty. Or has huge red flag