CANCER GIRL SO SICK OF THIS CANCER MAN!!!!

Will he ever change his attitude and take me seriously—
( quick rundown)

*we met in 2013
* never been officially just fwb's
* he disappeared on me 4 times so far
* I'm very hurt and tired of his behavior

He recently popped out of nowhere... Again..and I'm not sure what to do this time.I'm so tired if him doing this I don't even care anymore and I don't waste my time with people u don't care for.I don't know if hes serious this time or not... I'm just tired.

Is he ever gonna take me serious...he just turned 26 so mabey he's to immature to commit but I'm 25 and that's all I ever wanted was commitment... The evil side of me is suggesting I curse him out as revenge for all the heartache and the other side of me is saying mabey he will change or be serious this time...— What am I going to do I can't continue to live like this I'm getting too old for these games ¢¢¢

This is no way to start the new year... 

What i've gathered from others/reading up about Cancer men (men in general), if you started out as fwb with them, and especially since it's gone on for so long, it will most likely stay at this level. I would think that if he truly had feelings for you, he wouldve at least made it known by now, and want to become more as in bf/gf right? I say move on love, not worth the heartache.

I do have respect for myself...thanks for the advice u are truly awesome

Well said Jkats I think Its time break this embarrassing cycle.

I can empathize, i'm going through shit with my Cancer man as well. I want to let go, but it's so hard because I still have hope for us. Feelings/love sucks sometimes.

Tell me about it

Let us know how it goes for you sweetie, good luck!

I sure will

***update***
Now he's asking me to have a baby with him...according to him he's getting old and wants to start a family...It just seems weird now...I'm wondering if this is his sorry attempt to not get cut off or is he trying to get serious now...

Lol @ lala1393 ....all sorts of stuff is running through my head..we going out to eat tomorrow night n I'm wondering if I should cancel on him or not lol

I didn't agree to...but I definitely wouldn't want him to think he has to resort to knocking me up to start fresh and have a real relationship...