@Darling
11 Years
*** update** Cancer/Cancer fwb's
Im so not in the mood for this... It was really out of the blue
Yeah, he doesn't want a baby. Happened to me, too. Guess if he's still around? Don't do it!
If you look into our forecasts for the month you'll find the planets are really centering around our relationships, causing us to reevaluate our needs and desires, and really look at what we want out of life, especially from those we're close to.
I didn't say anything even remotely close to that. I said we're reevaluating our relationships and life choices. Many of us are separating from others and the outside world to focus on ourselves and our needs. We're looking at what is working and what isn't working for us, what needs to change, and who is useful in our life versus who would we be better off discarding. We're being asked to transform our relationships, look at our values and what truly matters to us. Our time alone is not easy for others to deal with, but it's absolutely necessary for us to take time out for ourselves to think about things without outside influence.
Posted by Darling
Cancer man Fwb of 3years wants to now have a baby with me...Is this his way of saying we wants a serious relationship with me
Or
He desperately trying to salvage our arrangement" sensing" that Ive gotten tired of his crap
What do you want?
Posted by Darling
Cancer man Fwb of 3years wants to now have a baby with me...Is this his way of saying we wants a serious relationship with me
Or
He desperately trying to salvage our arrangement" sensing" that Ive gotten tired of his crap
I'm confused.. "his crap' ...? I thought FWB meant no strings attached. Sounds like there's some strings attached.
People are often confusing fwb with fuck buddies. Fuck buddies are in a no-strings-attached relationship. Fwb are what it sounds like: FRIENDS with benefits. You do what friends do: talk, hang out, whatever, but with the added benefit of a sexual relationship.
Posted by Darling
Cancer man Fwb of 3years wants to now have a baby with me...Is this his way of saying we wants a serious relationship with me
Or
He desperately trying to salvage our arrangement" sensing" that Ive gotten tired of his crapI'm confused.. "his crap' ...? I thought FWB meant no strings attached. Sounds like there's some strings attached.
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... potentially an umbilical cord, by the sound of it. 😱
Posted by thinktoomuch
Fine🙂 All I´m saying is, if I was madly enfatuated with someone and had somehow convinced myself, that he was mad about me too, and I came here asking for advice, and I read your other post, I´d totally believe, that say for instance a cance guy asking to cum in me without really being with me, must mean he was totally in love with me. 😄
People are generally going to believe what they want anyway, especially when emotions are involved. They hear what they want to hear and ignore what they don't. I only give advice when asked, otherwise my posts are nothing more than an outside perspective to be considered. How it's taken is out of my control. That part is up to those seeking said advice or perspective.
Posted by thinktoomuch
Uh gawd, all the denitions, which are never the same....It´s all bullshit. And even a married couple can fuck other people and one can screw over the other. Ain´t no guarantees in life.
Fuckbuddies also imply, that they are buddies. Friends, buddies?!?! What the hell is this world coming to?!?
Hahaha, you chose your username very well.
Posted by Darling
Cancer man Fwb of 3years wants to now have a baby with me...Is this his way of saying we wants a serious relationship with me
Or
He desperately trying to salvage our arrangement" sensing" that Ive gotten tired of his crapI'm confused.. "his crap' ...? I thought FWB meant no strings attached. Sounds like there's some strings attached.
... potentially an umbilical cord, by the sound of it. 😱
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😆
OP, just make sure you let the cord pulse for at least 10 minutes or so before cutting. I'm a huge advocate for delayed cord-cutting. SO incredibly beneficial for the baby.
Posted by thinktoomuch
Fine🙂 All I´m saying is, if I was madly enfatuated with someone and had somehow convinced myself, that he was mad about me too, and I came here asking for advice, and I read your other post, I´d totally believe, that say for instance a cance guy asking to cum in me without really being with me, must mean he was totally in love with me. 😄
I want to enjoy the rest of my early 20's without a child of course lol
Posted by M00Nchild
If you look into our forecasts for the month you'll find the planets are really centering around our relationships, causing us to reevaluate our needs and desires, and really look at what we want out of life, especially from those we're close to.Uh child, you walked right into that one! Now everybody here will think, that yes, "their" cancer boy really really loves them and wants to be with them forever, despite of him not responding and acting like a deuche forever.....
Oh well, I´d still like to know the cultural background though🙂
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He's from Jamaica
Posted by Darling
Cancer man Fwb of 3years wants to now have a baby with me...Is this his way of saying we wants a serious relationship with me
Or
He desperately trying to salvage our arrangement" sensing" that Ive gotten tired of his crapI'm confused.. "his crap' ...? I thought FWB meant no strings attached. Sounds like there's some strings attached.
... potentially an umbilical cord, by the sound of it. 😱
😆
OP, just make sure you let the cord pulse for at least 10 minutes or so before cutting. I'm a huge advocate for delayed cord-cutting. SO incredibly beneficial for the baby.
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Lol
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Cancer man Fwb of 3years wants to now have a baby with me...
Is this his way of saying we wants a serious relationship with me
Or
He desperately trying to salvage our arrangement" sensing" that Ive gotten tired of his crap