Quick question.

I have a question to all the crabs out there.

I'm a Virgo, and I recently heard that the Virgo/Cancer relationship has a good probability of working out.

What I would like to know is, how do I spot one? xD

Haaaa!

I see what you did thar. Lmao.

Also, I don't mean to be rude...

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Yes, I have also heard that Cancer women don't like to be criticized, and with me being a Virgo... You get the picture.

But, I have something to add on to that, with me being a Virgo, that means that I do not like confrontation, nor do I like seeing people get hurt, angry, or upset. This leads me to doing the criticism to a minimum, and I would word it carefully as to not get that hot temper to come out. That or I could just simply coax that person into not over reacting about it, and acting calm, rational, and just thinking of it as me trying to help them.

I forgot to mention I'm a nerd and often visit memecenter, lol.

You can usually find them anywhere...just look for the ones curled up in the corner crying their eyes out :p
If they get moody and then happy then moody again all in a 20 sec time ...then you know they are a cancer :p.

Ohhh, so they're the ones with the mood swings? No offense.

In any case that it helps, I'll let you guys know a little bit about myself;

I was born Sept. 19, 1990, making me 22(for those who don't want to count). I am currently going to college for Graphic Design and have had more than 8 years experience with the programs I am using. I am a straight up perfectionist. Anything out of place, or wrong, then I have to do something about it. I LOOOOOOVE to help people with their problems. It honestly makes my day knowing that I made somebody happy, it's a real self-esteem booster. I'm not very judgmental, so I tend to keep it simple on the criticism anyways, just to not offend anybody and come off as rude. I am horrible at talking to women, especially those that I like. Super shy. I do respect each and every person that I meet, and treat them all equally, unless they get on my bad side. That's when they don't exist to me. I am often depressed, because I feel lonely and used all the time. I feel that there have been tons of wrong things happen in my life. I hide my true self from everyone because I don't trust anybody. Period. I haven't met a single person that influenced me enough to gain that much trust.

Anyways, I feel I rambled on a little too much, so my apologies.

Aha, that one slipped by me. 😉

To be fair ...us virgos have mood swings too. Im sure everyone does actually lol.

Whats your chart like?

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Posted by LostinmyMind11
You can usually find them anywhere...just look for the ones curled up in the corner crying their eyes out :p
If they get moody and then happy then moody again all in a 20 sec time ...then you know they are a cancer :p.

Hahahaha perfect, you got it 😄

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Hehehe :p. Atleast thats how I find the cancer men :p

Lol, I'm not sure I fit the standards of an english teacher, but I do know a good amount of how to use grammar correctly. It's a pet peeve of mine to see typos and whatnot without the Grammar Nazi kicking in.

As for my chart:
Rising Sun: Virgo
Sun: Virgo
Moon: Libra
Mercury: Virgo
Venus: Virgo
Mars: Gemini
Jupiter: Leo
Saturn: Capricorn
Uranus: Capricorn
Neptune: Capricorn
Pluto: Scorpio
N. Node: Aquarius

I'm not really sure what it means, I just know that I am like.... Super Virgo. xD

Yikes...that is a lot of virgo lol
I'm not an expert in charts but I was just curious about yours.

Yeah... No matter what I do, the Virgo in me always takes over in relationships and everyday things. 😢

It's a curse, yet it can be a blessing at the same time...

I hear ya....even though I don't have a lot of Virgo (just my sun and MC) but it seems to take over a lot too...but im sure not as much as yours

It's terrible for me sometimes. I'll see something disgusting at work, and will drop whatever I'm doing just to get that spot. Very precise about everything. Everything has to be calculated. From how much I spend a week to how much I spend per hour(yes, it's that bad). Everything has to involve some sort of math problem for me. Never understood why, I just feel reassured when I see actual facts and whatnot. Plus with all the numbers, it makes me fairly good at managing my money.

I'm a true Cancer, and one of the best relationships I've ever had was with a Virgo. However, I was younger then, and didn't care much or know about astrology. I had to learn the hard way. LOL

The Cancer's I know are the quiet ones, generally not the flamboyant type, but will not shy from the spotlight should it happen to shine on them. Polite, patient, always willing to help others. You will find Cancer's by the water, for sure, be it an ocean, lake, pool or puddle. We are crabs and we love the water. Creative, usually, they will hang at museums (we love history), art galleries, etc. Lots of crabs go into the helping fields--nursing, teaching, etc. (I work at a mental institution, lol).

I lost my Virgo guy by trying to always make him jealous (as I was insecure back then). I found out the hard way, Virgo will not go chasing. And not to say he didn't give me lots of chances, when it ended, it ended. NO chance for a second chance. When it's over, it's over with a Virgo. They don't look back.

It was after that relationship I became interested in astrology and by now, I can almost tell by observation what someone's sign might be. I am right a lot. LOL

Cancer and Virgo sure can work, if both know how to handle the other. If my Virgo guy complimented me a bit, or took notice in my likes/dislikes, maybe I wouldn't have felt the need to get other guys' attention all the time to feed my insecurities. I treated him royally--which Cancer women will do when in love--but if not reciprocated, at least sometimes, it can be ugly. LOL Find your Cancer girl gazing at the moonlight. 🙂

Posted by LostinmyMind11
You can usually find them anywhere...just look for the ones curled up in the corner crying their eyes out :p
If they get moody and then happy then moody again all in a 20 sec time ...then you know they are a cancer :p.

HAHAHAHAHAH

also TheUltra: that describes me to an uncanny degree! I am the grumpy class clown who will gnaw your ear off about all three of those subjects while making some really weirdo faces.

True story.

I love Cancer women. One of my best friends is a Cancer. She's like a sunflower—. In high school when everyone had their cliques she was the person who was friends with everyone no matter who they were. The Cancer females in my life have a type of steel strength to them. My friend will cry easily over something touching she'd see in a movie or if I told her about a sad story her eyes will start to water. However when it comes to painful times in her own life she's very tough. No one would ever guess she's going through something if they didn't know her really really well. If you fuck with her and she decides she's had enough she'll just switch off all her feelings for you and be out leaving you dumbfounded lol

You'd probably find your Cancer dream girl in some kind of activist organization or volunteering for the SPCA or something. My friend is always trying to save the world.

Restaurants, gagaing over babies, kleenex's in the movie theater, the first one to take a dare because deep down they think they hate to be proven wrong or told they wont do something! 🙂 .. Karaoke.. I Am a cancer and i am at karaoke every saturday night, and i have 3 cancer friends that do the same, and the KJ is also a cancer. Hmmmmmmmmmm......

I Don't see why they could not get along. My dad was a Virgo, born September,1. When he died i felt like someone cut off my arm. When i am depressed i drink a little and look at the stars and talk as if i were talking to him. Growing up in the house with a Virgo dad and Pisces mom, i learned when to be sensitive but i was a daddy's girl and i never take too much too serious, everything was always a smart azz comment or prank in our house and made me the total pain in the smart azz i am today, i just laugh. So i don't know how other Cancers are, i guess if they weren't raised around it and had alot of water in their chart they may take the criticism pretty bad! and go scattering far far away, sharp claws in tow ready to attack a foot if they see it following too close on their trail lol

Omg my Cancer friend is a karaoke freak! I didn't know that was a Cancer thing.

Cancer girls can be awesome or potentially have some serious issues hiding. Just make sure you know the girl before you go after her

Posted by virgodreamz
Omg my Cancer friend is a karaoke freak! I didn't know that was a Cancer thing.

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Hmmm I never met a Virgo who liked that much criticism. Cancer nor a Virgo is open to criticism and hates to be corrected.

Virgo and Cancer both relate to the digestive system. The stomach for instant gratification and the intestines for storage of nutrition for future usage. They both are worrier signs and like to please other people.

Virgos lay on the criticism. Cancer kills with the guilt trips.

When they come together they both feel as though they can nurture the other. There poisons become each others tonics. Cancer has a way of making Virgo feel important and raise their confidence. Virgo helps Cancer see the practical side of life.

Posted by CancerianGoddess
Restaurants, gagaing over babies, kleenex's in the movie theater, the first one to take a dare because deep down they think they hate to be proven wrong or told they wont do something! 🙂 .. Karaoke.. I Am a cancer and i am at karaoke every saturday night, and i have 3 cancer friends that do the same, and the KJ is also a cancer. Hmmmmmmmmmm......

I LOVE KARAOKE!!!!

Posted by AllanBeau
Hmmm I never met a Virgo who liked that much criticism. Cancer nor a Virgo is open to criticism and hates to be corrected.

Virgo and Cancer both relate to the digestive system. The stomach for instant gratification and the intestines for storage of nutrition for future usage. They both are worrier signs and like to please other people.

Virgos lay on the criticism. Cancer kills with the guilt trips.

When they come together they both feel as though they can nurture the other. There poisons become each others tonics. Cancer has a way of making Virgo feel important and raise their confidence. Virgo helps Cancer see the practical side of life.

+1...ridiculous how spot on this is lol