feeling a lil bit unaapreciated

This topic was created in the Cancer forum by SensualCancerChika on Tuesday, December 18, 2012 and has 10 replies.

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@SensualCancerChika
14 Years

ok so just stray off the subject of cnacer men dissapointing many women..

Lately I feel like people just don't appreciate the things I do for them. I give give give and I think im being taken for granted. I have a big heart and a simple thank you would be nice but no I don't even get that 😒
yea I am in one of those moods I am sure some of you can relate..

hope you all have a good day.

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@minata
13 Years

Posted by SensualCancerChika
ok so just stray off the subject of cnacer men dissapointing many women..

Lately I feel like people just don't appreciate the things I do for them. I give give give and I think im being taken for granted. I have a big heart and a simple thank you would be nice but no I don't even get that 😒
yea I am in one of those moods I am sure some of you can relate..

hope you all have a good day.

Get used to it...dont expect much from anyone in terms of real appreciation..think you'll be most fulfilled as a mother...nothing as beautiful and pure as that love...mothers never expect anything in return and are still fulfilled in just giving.

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@minata
13 Years

Posted by Craabmoon
But isn't this what people expect from us?
Be nice, kind, caring blah blah blah... Always helping people for free, nothing in return, and if we get mad and react, they will label us as insensitive crabs.

I've seen lots of people here acting like this lately, imagine in RL.

How can you not be supportive and caring?
Ohh yea is because I'm human cookmonster, and tired of that crab bullshit of being always nice.
Not happy? Go treetrunk yourself cookmonster.

Be strong and put yourself first.

Hope you'll feel better soon crab πŸ™‚

LOL!!!!

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@SensualCancerChika
14 Years

I think the spa thing is a really good idea...lol big smiles here thats one thing people can't take away from me. I have to say that us cancers have some magnificent smiles πŸ˜„ one of our best features..people can't resist.

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@incandescentcancer
14 Years1,000+ Posts

Posted by Craabmoon

Be nice, kind, caring blah blah blah... Always helping people for free, nothing in return, and if we get mad and react, they will label us as insensitive crabs.

I've seen lots of people here acting like this lately, imagine in RL.

How can you not be supportive and caring?
Ohh yea is because I'm human cookmonster, and tired of that crab bullshit of being always nice.

LOL...it's unbecoming of you to be bitter. Don't be that way, there are plenty of men who appreciate the beauty of being with a cancer woman. Find yourself the right guy, don't waste time on takers spend it on givers.

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@incandescentcancer
14 Years1,000+ Posts

^^LOL...I just extrapolated a little bit to include a guy into the picture πŸ˜„. But yeah...generally speaking, surround yourself with people who want to give not just take. I learnt that and I am very happy for being that way now. I appreciate those who call me and ask me how I am doing if they haven't heard from me in a couple of weeks. Those are the kind of people who are my friends now πŸ˜„.