So are any othe cancers tired of being so caring??

Gaaaah, I hate how I care about everyone and everything so much. People are so selfish these days and don't care about anything. Why must we cancers care so much? Why must we be so sensitive? And why must we always have to be in love to feel whole? 😢

When you evolve a little more you will learn to be more selective and who is worthy of your love or care. It isn't good to give too much of yourself like that it can be draining.

Posted by Izzyvgo
Gaaaah, I hate how I care about everyone and everything so much. People are so selfish these days and don't care about anything. Why must we cancers care so much? Why must we be so sensitive? And why must we always have to be in love to feel whole? 😢

i feel the same way i was just talking to someone about this i hate being so caring, sweet, nice and compassionate because in the end i always get f-ked over

My cancer venus sympathizes with you. I fall in love so easily. Not with just anyone, of course, but when I meet the one....I love...deeply. And when it ends, I hurt....deeply.

It just is....

PS I know your guy is a scorpio. Mine was too. 😢

My ex in cancer. and leo venus.
He wants attention but a great lover. he gives all. but if you're unemotional, he will put his emotions inside and then bursts!! very sensitive. when i just talk to my girl friends, he was like dont u have time for me? i want us only. no one else. but he will not say it, he will put it into actions by being very quiet, awkward, stubborn.

i feel you. it's overwhelming and draining with such emotions. i have air for my sun sign, but my moon in cancer overwhelms me that i have to look where my air sign went! what's your moon sign?

Posted by BigGirlPanties
My cancer venus sympathizes with you. I fall in love so easily. Not with just anyone, of course, but when I meet the one....I love...deeply. And when it ends, I hurt....deeply.

It just is....

PS I know your guy is a scorpio. Mine was too. 😢

I feel like my cancer venus makes me SO vulnerable for this exact reason. I try to keep it in check, but somehow if I have to show even a small amount of interest or affection, everything comes gushing out and so STRONG. @BigGirlPAnties: Have you figured out a way to deal with this?

Yes, and before anyone starts pointing the finger saying "but you are an Aries" let me explain that I blame my Cancer Moon and Asc for being the reason people are always coming to me with their problems and why I am always so quick to leap to their aid.

Final straw has been a guy (frickin Aries would you believe) who reached out to me for support when he was suicidal.
So now he is fine and his life is grand. Tables are turned and I have reached out to him for a hand (not a handout - a hand up.) He has the ability to help but won't. No reason, just "Yes I could help, but I'm not gonna."

Nice little lesson in karma there. I just can't believe it. I am speechless. I have no speech.

So caring? Hah. It's not caring enough that's the problem... if at all.

Posted by PurrrrHissss
I'm so tired of all the fucking emotions, hypersensitivity, mood swings, and depressing nostalgia.

^^ No. But my moon is.

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Posted by SnowAngelsBurial
^^ No. But my moon is.

Yeah, but it's not the same. I noticed that you're one of those Capricorn stellium kids from the late 80s...so is my Pisces sister. In fact, you two have the exact same DOB, and she also has a Cancer Moon. But she acts MUCH more like a Cap. Do you feel more like a Capricorn?

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IDK. Depends. How would a Cap normally feel like, or act like?

.....and in order that I may continue to beat myself up

today:

Moon sextile Jupiter.....

You make it clear to those around you that you are concerned for their welfare and that you will help them out if they ever need it. And the chances are that they feel the same way about you.
This influence denotes a time when you and your friends support each other and feel that you belong together.

Fucking management...

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I'm so tired of all the fucking emotions, hypersensitivity, mood swings, and depressing nostalgia.

I've always been moody PH and emotional, especially this last week extremly moody. Sometimes for no reason I get all emotional and it pisses me of when ppl keep asking me why I feel that way. I can't explain it, I just like being alone when I'm that way.
Hang in there honey. 😉

Thank you, sweets. It sucks when you're feeling terrible and people expect you to give them a legitimate reason for it. Then, when you say you don't know why you're upset, they're like, "Well, I don't know why you would be. You have this and this and that going for you, blah, blah, blah." It's hard for some people to understand that our mood swings really can and do come out of the blue. :-/

It does suck. Today I had to work, my supervisor kept on pushing, I didn't feel well, not in the mood but they wanted details so they can gossip about it. It pissed me of even more that they didn't understand. I didn't feel like talking or explaining anything to anyone. It's not their business.

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So you can't take the day off and come back tomorrow when you are feeling better and less likely to screw something up because you aren't feeling 100% ?

Makes sense. Not.