her- "I bought a purity ring...." me - "but your not totally pure.. you've kissed guys before.. and me" her - "yeah..." me - "so you dont even want to kiss until your married??" her - "..yeah...." *long silence* me - "heh that'd be too damn hard for me"........... she confuses me again, why does she do this stuff? ladies? what am I supposed to do now? heh heh this is dumb but i love her.
well i kinda know what you are going through i am a scorpio female who is crazy about a cancer male who acts the same way as your g/f they seem to like to keep us confused i think this is there way of testing us to see if we really care... my guy goes a couple of weeks without calling (this is a long distance thing) but then sometimes i get showered with attention from him then he backs off a while i find this very crazy because he also says crazy things to make me think he isnt as serious about me as i would like him to be this i come to understand is a cancers way of protecting themselves from hurt i know it is fustrating for you because i go days without knowing if my sweetheart is going to call again but i try to keep in mind that cancers are ruled by the moon and they have crazy mood swings but they alway comes back if they care about u so keep ur head up and in a day or two your g/f will change again this is very exciting isnt it? lol
yeah she's a cancer, one day everything's perfect, than the next she says she's having doubts and just seems distant, then later she's practically ripping my clothes off, she confuses me a lot, but me and her have been through so much, I love her to death, but sometimes I forget that that's just the way she is, and i take some of her actions personally, which usuallyaren't because of me. I'm a taurus,and I relate with her like no ther, we just have this understanding of each other, and we do have our differences, and we never ever fight, we just can't do it. today she was saying that she just has this feeling that me and her won't last, just ebcause she's feeling pressured by her family and friends, because apparently both her friends and family love me and she feels like if anything happened between us, people would make a big deal out of it, but yet she says I';m the only guy she's ever been comfortable around, and there's just something about me she says that she sees in NO other guy. so i know she has a lot of mixed up feelings, but i think things will be just fine, I'd go through hell for her.
Maybe they are not protecting themselves but are just being funny or suddenly need some space when they say and do things like this. Everyone needs their space, but cancers rarely get it at the right time cos everyone takes them for granted.
I find it funny... the amount of times people say stuff like this about cancerians.
whoahhhhhh dude, or "cwab",I could have said soooo much more, and i hardly went into detail, well i was just stating how damn confusing things can get... but ahh well
On a Golden Autumn day returning where the moon never is the same; and if your joy sometimes becomes in patient, when Im waiting on the waiting game. Must be a reason for all this inaction; doesnt mean that everything must change; sometimes Im lookin for perfection, when Im waiting on the waiting game. I am the observer whos observing; I am the sister of the snake; I am the serpent filled with venem; The god of love, and the god of hate. There is a presence deep within you; some people call it higher power; When all the leaves have fallen, remember Ill still be waiting on the waiting game.
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me - "but your not totally pure.. you've kissed guys before.. and me"
her - "yeah..."
me - "so you dont even want to kiss until your married??"
her - "..yeah...."
*long silence*
me - "heh that'd be too damn hard for me"........... she confuses me again, why does she do this stuff? ladies? what am I supposed to do now? heh heh this is dumb but i love her.