Are Cancer's in their Shell?

So what is up the past week or so with you Cancer's? Mine is gone...I call it the shell. Is this happening to all of you? It just trips me out. For months you can't get enough of us,you ring our phones 10 times a day...then you disappear for a while like we don't exsist. Then we get these crazy thoughts going on in our heads...your gone for good this time, your not coming back and you really never cared. And of course, I am stubborn and will not call. Do you want us to call, is it a game to see if we will or do you want to be left alone?

I just love these boards and the people here...ya'll are all SWEET as can be. And Cwab...your great! You keep me on edge all the time. You cancer are very hard to understand, as soon as I think I got ya...your gone again. It's driving me crazy...Cause I wish he would stay forever!

Temporarily! This one is! I have come down with the yukies! I have sore throat, fever, and feel very bad all over! I cannot afford to be down, but I don't think I can stay up either! HELP!

Hi, cwab! What going on big guy? I like your posts. Where the hell are ya?

There must be something going around because I too have the same cold!

I love Cwabs comments! I wish he would show himself more often. He's a real weirdo, like me, and I can really use some company! hehehe

Goodnight all you crustaceans!

Ohhhh....Come on now, I know there is more to it than just "SICK" You guys do this a lot. Do you want to be left alone when you go away or are you waiting to see if we will call and check on ya? Do you want to know we are concerned and worried that we haven't heard from you? WHICH ONE IS IT?

Come out...Come out Cwab🙂...where ever you are! Please don't go and cry...😢

My ex was a Cancer rising and he is the same way. They like their time alone. Yes, he would disappear for a time too, but he also liked feeling secure and that there was someone strong for him to lean on when the world outside was harsh. I think that is why he depended on me so much for his stability. I am a Scorpio woman. As far as leaving them alone, I think they will come around when they are ready. I would let them be. I also think they like to know you are there for them at all times(security)!! They are very, very loyal, and I never questioned whether he cared for me, not until the end of our marriage that is.

Getting back to the first post on this issue, I agree with what the person was saying. I wondered why too they can be distant all of a sudden. You feel close and then you don't as much. You wonder what has happened or whether they are stepping back a bit to see if you do really care.

I know...then if you say something they think your crazy for wondering. But, this is first time in 9 months we have not talked in over a week. I know the person has a lot going on...but it only takes a min. to pick up the phone. I'm not sure what is going on...but the longer time goes by with no call...the more distant it will make me. I have been involved with a Cancer before and they will just GO AWAY with no explanation. You think everything is fine, your getting very close, you start to trust them very much and BOOM....what the hell happened and where are they? I hate waitng and not knowing what is going on in the other persons head. It really is true about Cancer's...they do side step and go into the shell...I wish he would take me with him...

i am so glad i am not alone. i don't know if the cancer i'm going out with is really calling it quits. he told me that he will never see me again. and maybe never talk to me again - yet he still has me in his messenger list. i sent him e-mail all this week but he never answered.

is he really gone for good? i miss him so. i am head over hills for him - i care so much for him - but he does not seem to believe that. he thinks i only like him because of the sex thing. if i did, would i keep asking to do other things? yet he never once acknowledged that yes, he would like to do other things as well.

could you please explain cancer men to me? i am so confused - i really care for him.

he's said goodbye before, but in a week or two, he'd call - but i don't know if this is for keeps. he is following his priest's advice to not see me again because of the sex thing. it is not me who talks about sex all the time - everytime he messegas me, it is all this sex talk - when i continue on the different subject i want to talk about, he sulks and would not continue the conversation.

i want him back - without the sex thing if that is what he wants. do you think he'll come back?

I wish I could tell you 'yes'! But, the truth is...I don't know...