things i read in my cancer crush, r they true?

hey guys my name is saba and i am new to this site. hope you people will guide me to understand a cancer male i am in love with.
first with the observation i did.
1.i love him , he knows it . he didn't made any move.
2. he cares. ( e.g he normally leave the things i have prob with.i.e some girls who are after him. i used to make him sleep over phone and some day he noticed it, and since that day he made me sleep.)
3.he told me when he starts loving some one he show physical signs.. e.g laying in her lap, hugging her for hours.etc.. ( he told this 2 years back.. and now he is dong same thing.

ACTUAL PROBLEM

there is a cellphone signal drop in my country for 2 dayz. (sat-sun) on Friday i hugged him over text and he asked me to *control*. i found it offending and embarrassing and i slept without informing him. the reason i didnot told was because he mostly don't care..

now that night there were calls and msgz..

last night ( Saturday) he called again, and AGAIN i was asleep ( even i don't know y ) around 3 i woke up and texted him. he was angry and even said that i have time to text my ex, but don't bother to see that he texted or called. guys i dont know y he is upset over texting my ex, when in real i replied to my ex only once. my cancer guy know i love him, still why he has insecurities?
we couldn't sort out our prob as the signals dropped again.

wait a minute...you're in love with someone you've never even met? and p.s. the word 'hugs' sent via text does not count as physical contact.