toxic in the end between Cancer and Pisces

It is just me or are Cancer men, quite cutting/defensive and nasty with words when they are feeling defensive, upset and insecure possible? as mine was and I had to leave him for it...he became disprespectful, hurtful and made me go into my shell,I became cold and non emotional with him.....It took many time to get him out my flat when he was living with me, only for him not to see how nasty he was with his words, the respect was gone and I felt a mug, more fool me for taking him back one after the other and wished I had done it earlier not 8 months later...., but us pisces are nice, well we try and treat people with respect etc, but I have never met anyone so obnoxious and nasty that made me reduce myself to tears......I am a feb born pisces, moon in virgo, cap rising, so its pretty black and white and you get what you see basically. (anyone astrologers out there lol) he was a cancer, moon in pisces (oh dear), leo rising, his bullying tactics were horrific in the end....he was very much out for himself....16th July cancer, he was only happy when he got what he wanted, then he was nice and charming, otherwise selfish and self centred....

any pisces or anyone else had an experience with someone like this, he is still picking up the rest of his things from my flat and yet I feel hurt, and when I reply with blunt replies he wants me to be nice, I cant. So he gets angry and starts being nasty again.... When a pisces is hurt we are blunt and elusive and very cold, its our defensive ways...

rant over...phew, breathe!!!!

So he was an asshole to you and he lived in your place?

Wow, that is pretty fouled up.

😢

Also, sister Pisces...

What was his birthday? Which Decan of Cancer are we talking about?

Posted by ScorpioFish
Also, sister Pisces...

What was his birthday? Which Decan of Cancer are we talking about?

He was 16th July 1976 (if that helps)....more Leo perhaps??

No, July 16 is the Pisces Decan of Cancer.

Strange that he would be a dick to you.

Most Decan III Crabs I have met and gotten to know are usually the more low-key and thoughtful types.

thank you, very strange I know....He was v nasty in the end, which I cant get over to be honest as its really hurting me....but will never take him back after what he said even though its hurting like crazy!!!

Yeah, we tend to be warm blooded for the most part. Except for our Decan II brothers and sisters, I don't really know of too many nasty fish out there.

For the most part, I am a thoughtful guy. Until the assholes appear, then it's game on.

Anyway, I am really sorry that he hurt you. Sometimes people say things they don't mean, but it sounds to me like he really did hurt you and it's terrible.

Does he apologize and make a concerted effort to make things right? Like buy you something nice or that kind of thing?

I'm only nasty if someone really... I mean REALLY peeved me off and hurt me. Usually I leave and don't even contact the person. I disappear. But I'm July 9 so who knows why he's really being nasty. I think he's hiding his hurt. But still to heck with him. If you can't be an adult go away. Some people just pitch a fit like a toddler then wonder why everyone is staring in horror.

Dude, you Decan II folks give me a hard time, and I am one of our own people!

I can only imagine how crazy it is for other signs to mix with you guys.

No offense, but what's up with the cold nature toward people?

Seriously.

I was in Afghanistan with this one guy for about 6 months of my tour. He was kind of cold during the tour, but the killer was I sent him a FB friend request and he turned it down.

Whatever, dude.

@ JoJo35 -

Sorry to hear that happened. The Cancer man I am dating isn't doing exactly that but he kids around with me to where I question if he eve likes me. He said it was his job to pick on me. I am a pisces too (March 19) very tail end I know, but Iam very Pisces. I have done all I can to make him feel secure. I called him yesterday and left a Voicemail message and haven't heard one word back. That is just rude. He is 42, and Im 39 we are adults and should act like such.
I haven't seen him in 2 weeks, and he will say things like we should do that.. It's a date. Then no date or time to when we will go. I just refuse to push this guy.

Posted by woodenmeow
@ JoJo35 -

Sorry to hear that happened. The Cancer man I am dating isn't doing exactly that but he kids around with me to where I question if he eve likes me. He said it was his job to pick on me. I am a pisces too (March 19) very tail end I know, but Iam very Pisces. I have done all I can to make him feel secure. I called him yesterday and left a Voicemail message and haven't heard one word back. That is just rude. He is 42, and Im 39 we are adults and should act like such.
I haven't seen him in 2 weeks, and he will say things like we should do that.. It's a date. Then no date or time to when we will go. I just refuse to push this guy.

Hi there, thank you....they are jokey and always like to take things tongue and cheek alot of the times but us pisces take this very personally too which is really hard for us...and some dont understand I feel. I think when he gets like that to pull away like the previous posts say, it does work and they are sorry if they feel they have done something wrong they then feel guilty.

If I were you not to answer any messages at all, give him the silent treatment and make him beg for you now....so he cant live without you..it will be very powerful and he knows he needs to treat you better....

Posted by ScorpioFish
Yeah, we tend to be warm blooded for the most part. Except for our Decan II brothers and sisters, I don't really know of too many nasty fish out there.

For the most part, I am a thoughtful guy. Until the assholes appear, then it's game on.

Anyway, I am really sorry that he hurt you. Sometimes people say things they don't mean, but it sounds to me like he really did hurt you and it's terrible.

Does he apologize and make a concerted effort to make things right? Like buy you something nice or that kind of thing?

When he is upset he gets so angry its untrue, he did apologise yes whenever he did something wrong and he did use to give me presants, gifts etc, but now I feel I have to open up as he is now wanting this for me to and that is something I struggle with....really badly infact...

My ex of 6 years was a Cancer, his birthday is July 19th. I'm an aqua on the cusp of pisces (Feb. 18th). His words were like daggers and he had very little patience with me or anything really. I have never experienced anyone so selfish. I remember I had saved up my money to go home for my birthday, he told me I couldn't we were tight on cash and it was best to save it just in case for other things. I said ok, but a week later he told me he was going on a week long ski trip with the guys. There are a billion other things, but I don't want to bash the guy.

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@SCORPioFish

you're such a cry bebo. toughen up like a II decan. (jk ) hehehe 😄

Yo, shall we take this outside with a set of boxing gloves?

🙂

I have a cancer friend whom I've posted things about on here, he is by far the most caring male friend...BUT he can get a little out of hand at times , and I have to remind him whom I am and I will NOT listen to the bull( teach people how I teach you) ! anyhow funny we met when he was so egotistical , vain etc and Rude , and it took me a while to see the real him , but yes he is agressive ( like he was pissed when my phone hung up on him on accident , and told me make sure this doesn't happen again. He says other stuff to imply he is possessive and when I say something he laughs to make light of the situation/or comment he stated but reality is he is so serious...it's scary lol