unhappy why?

Hi,
I just found this site and iam a cancer born on the 7th of july.

I have everything in the world i could ever want but there is allways something missing iam never really happy why is this? and is it normal or what?

I often feel the same way. I think its just in our nature to feel that something is missing in our lives. Maybe someone else can give us some insight. I'll check back.

I feel to same way I was born June 30th and I feel there is something
missing. I am in a relationship with a person born December 3.
I really care a lot for him but he is very lazy. Please help me
fellow cancers dump him or love him.

Dump him, i recently went out with the same star sign as you, when someone shows you their true colours believe it. the first glimpse is always the most accurate.

I was also born on the 7th of July-I married libra and have been very unhappy for a long time. I have finaly (almost 2months ago)let him know that it isn't going to get any better for either of us and need a divorce. I finally feel like a hundred pound weight has been lifted and that I can take control of my life again. Mabey have a chance at true happiness,mabey not-but at least it's a chance. Life is so short-do what needs to be done-dont hide in your shell waiting for something to happen-make it happen. It's hard-but it's worth it.

Owen - I was born July 7th also and I noticed the date you've sent this in - I bet you you've been through many changes by now haven't - I'm feeling the same way - always something missing whether I'm in love or not - I suppose it depends on our backgrounds - we have to get in touch with ourselves and make our lives happy before we try to make anyone else happy. Good Luck

maybe u just need love. if u look at someone thats in love they almost always have a smile on their face. ive suffered 2 heartbreaks in the past 8 months and am now looking for sum1 2 love who'll love me back. if u need a chat im here. caitlin(caz)xxx

Posted by WaterboyCancepio
I'm feeling nostalgic today. I wish it was 2000 again with all my mistakes ahead of me. I felt nostalgic yesterday too. Maybe i'm permanently nostalgic. Maybe that's why i'm always unhappy.


Anyone else feels like they are always unhappy ?

My crab's almost always unhappy and living in the past - rehashing mistakes and regrets. I'm the opposite. I always try to think positive and live in the present looking towards the future.

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Posted by WaterboyCancepio
I'm feeling nostalgic today. I wish it was 2000 again with all my mistakes ahead of me. I felt nostalgic yesterday too. Maybe i'm permanently nostalgic. Maybe that's why i'm always unhappy.


Anyone else feels like they are always unhappy ?

My crab's almost always unhappy and living in the past - rehashing mistakes and regrets. I'm the opposite. I always try to think positive and live in the present looking towards the future.

you really like/love him don't you? I don't know anything about your situation.. just seen you around this board a lot. General impression is that you really do like him. Not sure why I feel surprised.. I don't know either of you. Probably cause I never thought I would see an Aries woman so interested in a cancer man.. Tell him Waterboy said you're a lucky bastard.

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Thanks Waterboy. I do love him. I don't really fit the description of most Aries. Maybe it's because overall Fire isn't actually dominant in my chart.

I am generally upbeat and sunny. But I have my moments of melancholy, due to career and romantic frustrations.

My unhappiness comes in waves, it comes on unexpectedly and I sometimes have a hard time controlling it. It almost feels like I am sinking in quicksand. The best thing that I do is to keep my mind occupied on other stuff to get myself out of that funk before I get in too deep. Lately reading and posting on these threads have been helping. its good to know that I am not the only one dealing with crazy emotions

lol ty 🙂

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Posted by WaterboyCancepio
I'm feeling nostalgic today. I wish it was 2000 again with all my mistakes ahead of me. I felt nostalgic yesterday too. Maybe i'm permanently nostalgic. Maybe that's why i'm always unhappy.


Anyone else feels like they are always unhappy ?

My crab's almost always unhappy and living in the past - rehashing mistakes and regrets. I'm the opposite. I always try to think positive and live in the present looking towards the future.

you really like/love him don't you? I don't know anything about your situation.. just seen you around this board a lot. General impression is that you really do like him. Not sure why I feel surprised.. I don't know either of you. Probably cause I never thought I would see an Aries woman so interested in a cancer man.. Tell him Waterboy said you're a lucky bastard.

Thanks Waterboy. I do love him. I don't really fit the description of most Aries. Maybe it's because overall Fire isn't actually dominant in my chart.

I agree, your boyfriend is one lucky man.

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Thanks. It's not always easy with him though. He actually recently told me (again) how unhappy he is and literally cried in my lap thanking me for being so patient with him and that he's lucky to have me in his life. We both know I can't make him happy but I so wish that I could. I have no problem with a man who shows his vulnerability and cries. But his sadness doesn't usually manifest in tears. Instead, he has adopted a wild, tough persona as a defence mechanism. This is what he usually showcases...and this is sometimes really hard for me. He knows it too.

Welcome to DXP, Cancer Guest!

This place is pretty cool for our fellow water signs, so enjoy it and ask for support anytime via PM if you are having trouble with the opposite sex.

Glad to provide advice anytime.

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Posted by SwimmingLioness
Do Cancers isolate themselves, in any way?

Why would you think that ?

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