love

This topic was created in the Cancer forum by Guest on Sunday, July 23, 2000 and has 10 replies.

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i'm only 15, so whether or not you choose to take my advice into consideration is optional, lol. but i just wanted to let you know that i am a typical cancer, i look for love all the time from guys, sometimes i feel i look for too much love , and expect too much from them. maybe we should just chill, and deal with what we have? any ideas?

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I have spent 27 years looking for love and I have learned two things:
1. You do have to learn to love yourself (good and bad) and to nurture
yourself to be able to get involved in a healthy relationship. Easier
said than done, I know!
2. There is nothing wrong with needing another person to share our lives
with. Sometimes I get the impression from the public, media, etc.,
that there is something wrong with wanting this.

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Everyone's just in love with being in love, I'm 14 I go through a lot of boyfriends and i still haven't found the right one. Ppl say that you have to love yourself before you can love any1 else wot's that suppose to mean, that doesn't help you find a new bf. Lots love,Sweetie, there will be someone perfect for you your young remember that. Just don't die a virgin.

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hi...I am Cancer and this his been one cosmic year for me. Anyone else totally change their life? life style ? physically mentally and emotionally?
I cant be the only one out there
and btw Jane. your getting it right, the rest of the world is wrong 😉

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And i twelve years, just ended another one, with none other than a fellow cancer. the stars are telling us right now that its time to look within and move into those areas we've been afraid to look for some time. there are brighter stars out there than the little one you can barely see any more.

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yeh my life has been one big roller coaster in the last twelve months, mostly up, but presently one big down. But that's all balance and energy and you just have to keep believing that everything is as it should be at this very second of existence

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Yes!! This has most certainly been a year of upheaval for me. I just ended my marriage of 6 years and it has completely changed my life. He is a Libra and although I knew the differences between the signs, like most of us, I thought all he needed was a good Cancer to take care of him, hA! Cancer women are much too nuturing for Libra men.. and when we feel they aren't returning the love and affection that we show them, we feel useless and unwanted. Don't get me wrong, I didn't end my marriage because of this.. there were many other factors, I'm just looking back now and noticing the changes I could have made I guess. But what it all boils down to is the fact that we just weren't compatible from the start. -sigh.. o well, I guess I need to find me a good Taurus man...

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but what if uve done all that and still dont know what or who u want. i get alot of offers but something always seems wrong, like their wrong 4 me 4 various reasons.