Want to get back with a taurus girl..

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tomcancer
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16 Years

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lately my gf broke up with me a couple days ago and told me she wanted someone mature and still wanted to be friends, I of course approached this thinking but hesitantly said yes. A day after breaking up she contacted me with a smiley face wanting to hang. I said I couldn't then I told her a day after that Being friends would only complicate things And that I wanted her as a gf not a friend and i wish the best for her. she said "fine." I have not heard anything else, And I am trying to hold back from texting. I don't know where to go from this but I need some Taurus Woman help please I am a cancer. And I would also need cancer advice too. I posted it on taurus but they said post here since things are slow there.

I want to get back with her
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jamesbond
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"I posted it on taurus but they said post here since things are slow there" FUNNY🙂))))))))

I am cancer thats why i know how badly you want to text her but do not do it stay cool ! You only push her away.
I was in similar situation but with a pisces girl well i only texted her a good bye letter "I enjoyed your company bla bla bla...wish you good luck"
and involved myself with different tasks so that not to contact her. After 5,6 days we both were online and chatted like friends, then she gave in asking me
Her: "I think you are totally OK with our being separate? You did not feel even bad ? "
Me : "Sweaty, thats what you wanted" bla bla ba and she is back!


In your case i think you have made a mistake when she called you and asked to hang out as friends. thats from where it begins
you hang out as friens and end up being bf and gf again. For example, If you want sex you do not say it openly to a girl "come to my place i want to sleep w you" she ll say NO. But if you say that you want to watch TV or smth w her then you ll sleep with her.

My advice (i know cancers hate advice): Basically, do not be desperate, if you get the chance of getting together as friends be FUN and natural not desperate and depressed. She will suggest it top you herself.


If it all does not work, let it go ! let her remember you as cool cancer dude not clingy one.
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xangelfishx
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If it's only been a couple days NOW is the time to tell her you want to get back together. You said she broke up with you.... so that could complicate things... I won't ask you to detail why she broke up with you, but the important thing is if there's any chance of you getting back together you need to act fast because once we make up our minds to move on that's it - we don't go back. I am a taurus woman and every guy I've ever dated or even showed an interest in and wasn't interested at the time has come back at LEAST once asking [no begging] for another chance. Once it's too late, it's too late. So you need to tell her how you feel now and don't be coy about it.
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The-Dream
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Posted by xangelfishx
If it's only been a couple days NOW is the time to tell her you want to get back together. You said she broke up with you.... so that could complicate things... I won't ask you to detail why she broke up with you, but the important thing is if there's any chance of you getting back together you need to act fast because once we make up our minds to move on that's it - we don't go back. I am a taurus woman and every guy I've ever dated or even showed an interest in and wasn't interested at the time has come back at LEAST once asking [no begging] for another chance. Once it's too late, it's too late. So you need to tell her how you feel now and don't be coy about it.



I think i was too late on my Taurus too! 😢
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hey there...the whole give her time doesnt really work with taurus..at least not with me,
if she broke up cause she considered u immature, chances are that if u keep quiet she will think u dont really know what u want or are not willing to fight for her...i am a taurus, and sometimes i break up when things arent clear just to test of the guy is into me or if he will just let me go...so if i was u i would go with what Xangel said.... your silence will only make her move on for good and once we make up our minds.... u can be bleeding on the side of the road but we wont be back with you!!!

thats just me...a very messed up taurus!!!
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TaurusBull1977
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If she said she brushed you off because she finds you immature, then my advice would be to step your game up if you want her back!

Taurus women seek financial security in a man. A man we can be proud of! We tend to be drawn to much older, mature men, We are 'old souls.' We're excellent nurturers (which is a perfect asset for cancer males), but we do not want our nurturing to be mistaken for CO-DEPENDENCY!. If this happen, then we will lose all respect for you. If you text her to just say 'Hello' then you are wasting your time.

(1) Call her to tell her you would like to cook her dinner. This woman loves to eat! Don't let her know what your intentions are. This woman is STUBBORN. I am a Taurus, I know!

(2) Tell her about your dreams and ambitions. Make the necessary actions to do so as well. This woman will need to see tangible proof of this. This will allow her to take you seriously.

(3) Be very supportive of her dreams....and she will LOVE you to death!

(4) If she says that she needs more time...give her time and space to ponder. Remember, NO PRESSURE! This bull hates being rushed...and she is very picky!

(5) If you feel that she is beginning to fall in love with you all over again, bring her daisies,tulips, or sunflowers. This woman is an Earth/Spring sign, send her love notes. Do not make them to emotional, or intense, but instead make them FUNNY! This woman may appear serious and cool on the outside, but this woman has a FUNNY bone!
Then take her to an art or music festival. I guarantee she will enjoy it. We are artisitc by nature!

😈 The Cancer/Taurus compatibility is a strong one that works! Both signs are comfort-loving signs! Just allow her some freedom to do as she chooses. Love her unconditionally....but not too much. This woman does not like to be smothered!