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What is this test I heaar cancer guys do?
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Posted by ilove2dream
Im not a cancer but im pretty sure they say things just to see how you will react. And they like to play hide and seek I guess to see if you will stick around and run off with someone else and break their hears.
Thanks for answering... was beginning to think I was shouting into cyber space with not even an echo... lol... jeez: tough crowd! and "Hrmmm..." to your answer! I was about to change my tactics... I will ponder on this for a while.
Unless some cancer boys care to enlighten us!!! Come on!!! Spill the beans brothers!
Posted by ilove2dream
I think this is a good question tho, any cancer men out there aware of what kind of games you play when dating?
First, We come off as sweet and loving to draw you in. Also we like to rock your world in the bedroom as an incentive to keep getting to know us.
Then we begin the emotional tricks to see how you will react in a various amount of situations. If you don't eventually show your most vulnerable side to us, the one you don't show other people, then we will just toy with you until you figure it out what we want. As gross as this sounds, you literally have to be willing to take an actual shit on a Cancer man if he asks you to or at least be open to it down the line.We get off at you doing things you wouldn't do for other people and only for us. We like the secrets just between the two of us. We feel it brings us closer together and builds a trusting bond in that we can both show each other our best and worst sides and not be embarrassed. Once the woman figures this out, she might feel liberated that she can let it all hang out in front of a Cancer Man.
Finally,once you have past the tests, we begin to act like our normal true selves and start to do anything for you to show our love and the emotional drama will be cut to a bare minimum. You will get out absolute best side for a long time unless u start trying to pay us back for the game we played, which were just to make sure you really wanted to be with us at our best and worst. You can't hold resentment for the games we played or it would have been all in vain the trouble you went through.
I think you basically nailed it when you said.....
I get it tho, since they can be moody, they need to know your not going to freak out when they have their ups and doowns and if they can ever completely relax around you. And since they need solitude from time to time they need to know you will still be there when they get back.
The Cancer man wants a woman to be able to see us at our worst emotionally and not end up scaring them and yet still somehow understand where we are coming from in all this. We also want to see your darkest side- through our petty games- so ours doesn't scare you. We like having it over your head in case you question our dark side. We also basically want to see the best and worst a person is capable of so we don't end up emotionally devastated down the line if it doesn't work out. We can say "Well this person showed they do this type of stuff, its my fault for ever getting involved".
Basically in all this, a Cancer man doesn't want to be embarrassed. So he has to pull these little games to gauge potential reactions a person might have in certain situations. Cancer men will frame alot of hypothetical statements to see how you treated you ex, if your a prude or not, if your a drama queen for no real reason, how you react to certain statements. The potentials are endless in what we will say, and this depends on the individual personality of the Cancer man and what traits he holds the highest in his mind.
I get it tho, since they can be moody, they need to know your not going to freak out when they have their ups and doowns and if they can ever completely relax around you. And since they need solitude from time to time they need to know you will still be there when they get back.
The Cancer man wants a woman to be able to see us at our worst emotionally and not end up scaring them and yet still somehow understand where we are coming from in all this. We also want to see your darkest side- through our petty games- so ours doesn't scare you. We like having it over your head in case you question our dark side. We also basically want to see the best and worst a person is capable of so we don't end up emotionally devastated down the line if it doesn't work out. We can say "Well this person showed they do this type of stuff, its my fault for ever getting involved".
Basically in all this, a Cancer man doesn't want to be embarrassed. So he has to pull these little games to gauge potential reactions a person might have in certain situations. Cancer men will frame alot of hypothetical statements to see how you treated you ex, if your a prude or not, if your a drama queen for no real reason, how you react to certain statements. The potentials are endless in what we will say, and this depends on the individual personality of the Cancer man and what traits he holds the highest in his mind.
and also you can't give us a politically correct answer to everything. We have to know what "you" personally think about something.Even if we just met you 2 hours ago.It may seem vulgar at times, but if we feel you can give honest answer on tricky things, then we know you will tell the truth on the small things.
This is kinda crude, but this is an example of how far we hard hitting we can be to get to the bottom of something. We are all grown ups here
Do you like a man to lick your butt during sex.....
Do not say....
That is totally gross, I can't believe you would even ask me that. I am a lady!. That is a totally PC answer in our eyes and it embarrasses us. Normally we won't ask type of question in front of other people and if someone does, then that answer is totally fine.You can also give that answer to other people or family members.
If you don't like it and if we are talking alone, then say.....
Its not really my cup of tea, Never tried it as it seems sorta seems a little invasive to me, but I might be down for it if I trusted the person enough. You gotta show your open minded to stuff you might not like right now. You can be against something but you gotta show you can answer any type of question to us
If your a good sport and actually like it use a humor angle about it.....
That is the first thing I like when my pants are off and I am in doggy style !
wow hightide....
i think i am being tested right now then...
i think i am being tested right now then...
he doesn't say crazy stuff
but he does disappear
and then get kindof suspicious and snappy with me...
he's been retreating and then poking in every once in a while for the past couple of months after a big fight we had
but he does disappear
and then get kindof suspicious and snappy with me...
he's been retreating and then poking in every once in a while for the past couple of months after a big fight we had
First time reading HT's feed back.....wow!
Posted by missscorps
First time reading HT's feed back.....wow!
OK! lol
I mean a challenge is exciting but, chileeeee lol!
Posted by HighTide
and also you can't give us a politically correct answer to everything. We have to know what "you" personally think about something.Even if we just met you 2 hours ago.It may seem vulgar at times, but if we feel you can give honest answer on tricky things, then we know you will tell the truth on the small things.
This is kinda crude, but this is an example of how far we hard hitting we can be to get to the bottom of something. We are all grown ups here
Do you like a man to lick your butt during sex.....
Do not say....
That is totally gross, I can't believe you would even ask me that. I am a lady!. That is a totally PC answer in our eyes and it embarrasses us. Normally we won't ask type of question in front of other people and if someone does, then that answer is totally fine.You can also give that answer to other people or family members.
If you don't like it and if we are talking alone, then say.....
Its not really my cup of tea, Never tried it as it seems sorta seems a little invasive to me, but I might be down for it if I trusted the person enough. You gotta show your open minded to stuff you might not like right now. You can be against something but you gotta show you can answer any type of question to us
If your a good sport and actually like it use a humor angle about it.....
That is the first thing I like when my pants are off and I am in doggy style !
OMG
Hightide......around
I know im late to this but High Tide is just 5 star. totally hits with my cancer man lol... nd the butt lick thing i dont know it actually sounds sexy than growse...so weird 5years with this cancer guy and i feel like an alien. LOL (im a scorpio by the way)
high tide has covered a major chunk of it... but there are other tests i do too... like see if shes too reserved or cant flirt properly---i need a great flirt ( atleast with me :p)..can she understand the sexual inuendos..will she sextext—
whats her background? is she hung up still on her ex... lets test it!
basically i criticise a girl badly if she is at her lowest to see if she can take my worst and come back sunny to me the next day...if she dosent well! then she was just a drama queen.
the most important test atleast for me: how intellectual is she? can she have an engaging conversation with me about anything in the world? lets test. some women are just very reserved and closed off to topics , they have a good life force inside but fail to recognise it. some women just think they are to be chased hard because they are miss universes when they have got an IQ of 10. :p such are straight to the dump!
so you want a dick of a cancer man— not so easy. :p
whats her background? is she hung up still on her ex... lets test it!
basically i criticise a girl badly if she is at her lowest to see if she can take my worst and come back sunny to me the next day...if she dosent well! then she was just a drama queen.
the most important test atleast for me: how intellectual is she? can she have an engaging conversation with me about anything in the world? lets test. some women are just very reserved and closed off to topics , they have a good life force inside but fail to recognise it. some women just think they are to be chased hard because they are miss universes when they have got an IQ of 10. :p such are straight to the dump!
so you want a dick of a cancer man— not so easy. :p
Posted by silentkiller
It's funny, 'cause I think, scorpio (women?) do the same. I'm a scorpio, and I would totally do the same: act up just to see, if you still would want to be with me or be able to handle me. But the cancer guy failed it... Couldn't deal. But maybe a scorpio woman just takes. I didn't test him like asking weird questions just to get his answer. Didn't ask many questions, I just let it be up to him, how much he wanted to show me of himself, but I didn't wanted to show him too much of myself. Ha ha. Funny and sad at the same time. So the cancer test: you pass it with sincerity and honesty? Or by acting the same way as the cancer?
That's because that shit's boring, dawg. Couldn't deal, wouldn't deal, will not deal. Stop being afraid of being yourself, dawg!
Posted by silentkiller
Yo, I get that. But why can cancers do it, and it's okay, but not me??! It IS boring and stupid. I know. Only excuse is, that I'm new in the love game, 'cause I always run away first chance I get, it's too scary man!
You remind me of someone...
I don think it's OK or not OK, it's more like just a waste of time for everybody. I'd rather know where "we" stand right away. Someone can be complex, but I can't sift through all the made up stuff anymore. And that's why I stopped getting interested. 😄
Posted by silentkiller
That makes a lot of sence. Good answer. I probably remind you of some douche from your past😉
Nah, she was just too young for me.
Omg High tide you're telling all the goodies! Haha well i guess if it helps. I said i guess.
Only thing I will share is yes we do test you sooooo many times before we let you in. That good? Okay I'll share a little more. Anything to help my fellow crabs out if those dating Crabs want to run away.
High tide is on the money. I have a warped sense of humor and i believe humor is key to a relationship. There is this one question i ask potential shell shackers.. "Has anyone ever reminded you of an animal before" or "Is booty supposed to stank" If she looks at me like wattt— She isn't my type of girl. If she laughs or calmly answers, checkmate! !
Only thing I will share is yes we do test you sooooo many times before we let you in. That good? Okay I'll share a little more. Anything to help my fellow crabs out if those dating Crabs want to run away.
High tide is on the money. I have a warped sense of humor and i believe humor is key to a relationship. There is this one question i ask potential shell shackers.. "Has anyone ever reminded you of an animal before" or "Is booty supposed to stank" If she looks at me like wattt— She isn't my type of girl. If she laughs or calmly answers, checkmate! !
i know...i understand that. its like being romantic and seductive at the same time...bending over a bit but still maintaining a man's respect.i have not actually found a woman after my first to be able to do that again.
maybe...but if the girl is easy she is bending over not me. anyways i love the chase and it brings out my creativity in romancing someone.
We testing you to see if your out soul mate, were no trying to waste time on the wrong person, after you pass, love you for life easily.
The tests of emotion, likes/dislikes, friendship, honesty, and most of all loyalty.
The tests of emotion, likes/dislikes, friendship, honesty, and most of all loyalty.
right on the money
But why the hide and seek, I don't get it? And don't say it's because they're not that into you, because I see this happening on the Cancer board A LOT, even with people years into a relationship with one.
Posted by JkatsSo true....same for me personally. If the cancer man is not interested why keep coming back? There are a million other women around. So this is interesting.
But why the hide and seek, I don't get it? And don't say it's because they're not that into you, because I see this happening on the Cancer board A LOT, even with people years into a relationship with one.
Hmm, old thread. Oh well.
What I didn't see mentioned is the Cancer test has to do with the insecurity aspect. Even years into a relationship a crab can pull it on you, and if they do, it's because they are not feeling secure in the relationship. This is when it is really bad, because the Cancer should be communicating.
The profound memories of Cancerians is a double-edged sword. When it comes to matters of the heart, we remember EVERYTHING. It's not that we don't let things like pain and disappointment go, it's just that we remember it. When someone repeats the behaviour that led to us getting hurt us in the past, even if they aren't the ones that caused it, it brings it back. So let's say a crab was abandoned by his/her partner, but prior to that happening their partner's emotional availability was steadily decreasing. If a Cancerian senses this in a new partner, it's going to cause issues. The Cancerian places a lot of faith on their intuition, and is highly involved in the decision making process.
The negative aspects of a sign/personality need to be brought to the surface so it can be dealt with. Because it's basically hard-wired, not much can be done to stop a person from processing things a certain way, but we can change the way those interpretations cause us to act.
What I didn't see mentioned is the Cancer test has to do with the insecurity aspect. Even years into a relationship a crab can pull it on you, and if they do, it's because they are not feeling secure in the relationship. This is when it is really bad, because the Cancer should be communicating.
The profound memories of Cancerians is a double-edged sword. When it comes to matters of the heart, we remember EVERYTHING. It's not that we don't let things like pain and disappointment go, it's just that we remember it. When someone repeats the behaviour that led to us getting hurt us in the past, even if they aren't the ones that caused it, it brings it back. So let's say a crab was abandoned by his/her partner, but prior to that happening their partner's emotional availability was steadily decreasing. If a Cancerian senses this in a new partner, it's going to cause issues. The Cancerian places a lot of faith on their intuition, and is highly involved in the decision making process.
The negative aspects of a sign/personality need to be brought to the surface so it can be dealt with. Because it's basically hard-wired, not much can be done to stop a person from processing things a certain way, but we can change the way those interpretations cause us to act.
Posted by DonnaElvira77Heeey Donna! 😉 Actually things between my Cancerian and I are going quite well!!! Nobody but a few dxp members (and bff's/family) know my whole story, but I think that most of his past behavior was procured because of how I was unable to handle things in a mature manner. Of course i'm not letting him off the hook for running away, but I need to put that shit in the past. I always love reading your comments/posts, I hope you have a great weekend! 🙂Posted by britneybabe26You two are in completely different situations by the way. Brit he is coming back because he can. Whereas with JKats he is hiding from his responsibilities and the consequences of his behaviors.Posted by JkatsSo true....same for me personally. If the cancer man is not interested why keep coming back? There are a million other women around. So this is interesting.
But why the hide and seek, I don't get it? And don't say it's because they're not that into you, because I see this happening on the Cancer board A LOT, even with people years into a relationship with one.
Neither of these men are good people.click to expand
Posted by CrabraThis is very informative, thank you Crabra! (I know you're not a girl, even if you have bra in your name lmao!!!!)
Hmm, old thread. Oh well.
What I didn't see mentioned is the Cancer test has to do with the insecurity aspect. Even years into a relationship a crab can pull it on you, and if they do, it's because they are not feeling secure in the relationship. This is when it is really bad, because the Cancer should be communicating.
The profound memories of Cancerians is a double-edged sword. When it comes to matters of the heart, we remember EVERYTHING. It's not that we don't let things like pain and disappointment go, it's just that we remember it. When someone repeats the behaviour that led to us getting hurt us in the past, even if they aren't the ones that caused it, it brings it back. So let's say a crab was abandoned by his/her partner, but prior to that happening their partner's emotional availability was steadily decreasing. If a Cancerian senses this in a new partner, it's going to cause issues. The Cancerian places a lot of faith on their intuition, and is highly involved in the decision making process.
The negative aspects of a sign/personality need to be brought to the surface so it can be dealt with. Because it's basically hard-wired, not much can be done to stop a person from processing things a certain way, but we can change the way those interpretations cause us to act.
But don't you think that it's unhealthy to compare the old with the new? Just saying this, because every situation/relationship/person is different, so the outcome may not be what they think it will be (talking about Cancer), but because of their behavior, could cause an unhappy ending. Life happens ya know, it makes people act in ways they normally wouldn't, but if they are being "tested" during these times of stress, it could push them to the point of no return. Just my pov. And this is why COMMUNICATION is key!
And i've seen the worst side of my Cancerian (and him mine), and I still love him with all of my heart.
Posted by JkatsNo comparisons are being made, but you are right. The outcome can be completely different with the new person. But good luck convincing a Cancer of that. The good news is the heart of a Cancerian is resilient, which is why an opportunity with the new person even exists. The true issue is when the Cancer retreats, leaving his/her partner in the dark; expecting them to know why they retreated and what to do to get them to come back out. The Cancer DOES need to communicate, but their partner still needs to understand the crab's behaviour when he/she is being less so. The lover of a Cancerian needs to have a heart as resilient as theirs. The retreating and claw snappPosted by CrabraThis is very informative, thank you Crabra! (I know you're not a girl, even if you have bra in your name lmao!!!!)
Hmm, old thread. Oh well.
What I didn't see mentioned is the Cancer test has to do with the insecurity aspect. Even years into a relationship a crab can pull it on you, and if they do, it's because they are not feeling secure in the relationship. This is when it is really bad, because the Cancer should be communicating.
The profound memories of Cancerians is a double-edged sword. When it comes to matters of the heart, we remember EVERYTHING. It's not that we don't let things like pain and disappointment go, it's just that we remember it. When someone repeats the behaviour that led to us getting hurt us in the past, even if they aren't the ones that caused it, it brings it back. So let's say a crab was abandoned by his/her partner, but prior to that happening their partner's emotional availability was steadily decreasing. If a Cancerian senses this in a new partner, it's going to cause issues. The Cancerian places a lot of faith on their intuition, and is highly involved in the decision making process.
The negative aspects of a sign/personality need to be brought to the surface so it can be dealt with. Because it's basically hard-wired, not much can be done to stop a person from processing things a certain way, but we can change the way those interpretations cause us to act.
But don't you think that it's unhealthy to compare the old with the new? Just saying this, because every situation/relationship/person is different, so the outcome may not be what they think it will be (talking about Cancer), but because of their behavior, could cause an unhappy ending. Life happens ya know, it makes people act in ways they normally wouldn't, but if they are being "tested" during these times of stress, it could push them to the point of no return. Just my pov. And this is why COMMUNICATION is key!
And i've seen the worst side of my Cancerian (and him mine), and I still love him with all of my heart.click to expand
Posted by JkatsSo there's hope for me hahaPosted by DonnaElvira77Heeey Donna! 😉 Actually things between my Cancerian and I are going quite well!!! Nobody but a few dxp members (and bff's/family) know my whole story, but I think that most of his past behavior was procured because of how I was unable to handle things in a mature manner. Of course i'm not letting him off the hook for running away, but I need to put that shit inPosted by britneybabe26You two are in completely different situations by the way. Brit he is coming back because he can. Whereas with JKats he is hiding from his responsibilities and the consequences of his behaviorsPosted by JkatsSo true....same for me personally. If the cancer man is not interested why keep coming back? There are a million other women around. So this is interesting.
But why the hide and seek, I don't get it? And don't say it's because they're not that into you, because I see this happening on the Cancer board A LOT, even with people years into a relationship with one.
.
Neither of these men are good people.
the past. I always love reading your comments/posts, I hope you have a great weekend! 🙂click to expand
Posted by CrabraPosted by JkatsNo comparisons are being made, but you are right. The outcome can be completely different with the new person. But good luck convincing a Cancer of that. The good news is the heart of a Cancerian is resilient, which is why an opportunity with the new person even exists. The true issue is when the Cancer retreats, leaving his/her partner in the dark; expecting them to know why they retreated and what to do to get them to come back out. The Cancer DOES need to communicate, but their partner still needs to understand the crab's behaviour when he/she is being less so.Posted by CrabraThis is very informative, thank you Crabra! (I know you're not a girl, even if you have bra in your name lmao!!!!)
Hmm, old thread. Oh well.
What I didn't see mentioned is the Cancer test has to do with the insecurity aspect. Even years into a relationship a crab can pull it on you, and if they do, it's because they are not feeling secure in the relationship. This is when it is really bad, because the Cancer should be communicating.
The profound memories of Cancerians is a double-edged sword. When it comes to matters of the heart, we remember EVERYTHING. It's not that we don't let things like pain and disappointment go, it's just that we remember it. When someone repeats the behaviour that led to us getting hurt us in the past, even if they aren't the ones that caused it, it brings it back. So let's say a crab was abandoned by his/her partner, but prior to that happening their partner's emotional availability was steadily decreasing. If a Cancerian senses this in a new partner, it's going to cause issues. The Cancerian places a lot of faith on their intuition, and is highly involved in the decision making process.
The negative aspects of a sign/personality need to be brought to the surface so it can be dealt with. Because it's basically hard-wired, not much can be done to stop a person from processing things a certain way, but we can change the way those interpretations cause us to act.
But don't you think that it's unhealthy to compare the old with the new? Just saying this, because every situation/relationship/person is different, so the outcome may not be what they think it will be (talking about Cancer), but because of their behavior, could cause an unhappy ending. Life happens ya know, it makes people act in ways they normally wouldn't, but if they are being "tested" during these times of stress, it could push them to the point of no return. Just my pov. And this is why COMMUNICATION is key!
And i've seen the worst side of my Cancerian (and him mine), and I still love him with all of my heart.click to expand
I still get privates message about this thread so you bumping it gives me an opportunity to ad a further dynamic to it that you have helped further develop on the boards.
The thing I have seen in the last 5 years is the Cancer disappearing act and women being totally taken aback by it. They don't why we just basically become a different person than we had been up until that point. I wanted to add a hard edge line to this.
Listen,Cancers are bigger on looks than people think. That is what needed to be said in the thread 5 years ago but I felt it would be taken as us being shallow when we really are not. By me not saying it basically made us fellow Cancers beat around the bush hoping someone would figure it out but that never happened...
A Cancer Man is known to date women below his league in looks or in mental fortitude. He doesn't do this because he thinks he is superior but he wants a safe bet. i have dated alot of women who were either obese or had some serious mental problem because I knew it would be easier to get exactly what I wanted from that type of woman because they are low on options to begin with so why would they reject me? After a Cancer man is rejected enough he can seep to this level because he doesn't want to feel that is unlovable and has nothing to offer. The biggest insult to a Cancer is telling then that you don't need them. We are constantly raging an internal war with ourselves in asking "What kind of person would need me but can bring me up and put up with my emotional behavior and not be judgmental".
While I give off a feminine energy I am very demanding when it comes to sex. I want a woman to submit to me totally without me having to even ask nicely and i've notice women in that category do so rather easily. Its a Cancer Man fault for engaging in this type of behavior when he knows he is going to have to be a dick when he is no longer interest in that person but he feels guilty as he shouldn't have used that person to begin with. Its all in the name of that we don't like to see suffering in the world we can't bring ourselves to tell the person to their face. We wanted a thrill as because we are such passive people we rely on that thrill for our mental health. Feeling wanted by someone, even if the wrong person is better than not having it at all.
My basic feeling is that some of these women were never giving the attention by a guy quite like a Cancer and they don't want it to end either. However at a certain point in our lives we want to be with someone we can be proud of and that we really want. If your being giving this cold treatment by a Cancer man its probably these 2 things.
-You are unattactive physically not just to us but to other zodiac men as well .Not just a stretch mark or some thickness. You have a serious weight issue and it too big a difference in what we look like compared to you.
-You scare him mentally, to the point where the sex part doesnt even matter anymore.
The thing I have seen in the last 5 years is the Cancer disappearing act and women being totally taken aback by it. They don't why we just basically become a different person than we had been up until that point. I wanted to add a hard edge line to this.
Listen,Cancers are bigger on looks than people think. That is what needed to be said in the thread 5 years ago but I felt it would be taken as us being shallow when we really are not. By me not saying it basically made us fellow Cancers beat around the bush hoping someone would figure it out but that never happened...
A Cancer Man is known to date women below his league in looks or in mental fortitude. He doesn't do this because he thinks he is superior but he wants a safe bet. i have dated alot of women who were either obese or had some serious mental problem because I knew it would be easier to get exactly what I wanted from that type of woman because they are low on options to begin with so why would they reject me? After a Cancer man is rejected enough he can seep to this level because he doesn't want to feel that is unlovable and has nothing to offer. The biggest insult to a Cancer is telling then that you don't need them. We are constantly raging an internal war with ourselves in asking "What kind of person would need me but can bring me up and put up with my emotional behavior and not be judgmental".
While I give off a feminine energy I am very demanding when it comes to sex. I want a woman to submit to me totally without me having to even ask nicely and i've notice women in that category do so rather easily. Its a Cancer Man fault for engaging in this type of behavior when he knows he is going to have to be a dick when he is no longer interest in that person but he feels guilty as he shouldn't have used that person to begin with. Its all in the name of that we don't like to see suffering in the world we can't bring ourselves to tell the person to their face. We wanted a thrill as because we are such passive people we rely on that thrill for our mental health. Feeling wanted by someone, even if the wrong person is better than not having it at all.
My basic feeling is that some of these women were never giving the attention by a guy quite like a Cancer and they don't want it to end either. However at a certain point in our lives we want to be with someone we can be proud of and that we really want. If your being giving this cold treatment by a Cancer man its probably these 2 things.
-You are unattactive physically not just to us but to other zodiac men as well .Not just a stretch mark or some thickness. You have a serious weight issue and it too big a difference in what we look like compared to you.
-You scare him mentally, to the point where the sex part doesnt even matter anymore.
Posted by YourFavoriteDXPMemberShe is actually pregnant with a Capricorn man's child right now. This will be her 2nd child. It is a guy she left before and got back with so I am not sure how it will play out.
Interesting post, HighTide.
Are you currently corresponding with your former Pisces girlfriend and your child you had together?
Posted by MissGemmiCapricorn Ascendant
Interesting HighTide
But who does a Cancer eventually end up with?
Scorpio Sun
Taurus Moon
Aries Mercury
Pisces Venus
Virgo Mars
Posted by HighTidePosted by MissGemmiCapricorn Ascendant
Interesting HighTide
But who does a Cancer eventually end up with?
Scorpio Sun
Taurus Moon
Aries Mercury
Pisces Venus
Virgo Marsclick to expand
Posted by DonnaElvira77Yes on the bolded part.Posted by HighTideI can't even...............
snippeed out part.
Basically the above description is when Cancer men ...or anyone behaves like a total prick....and has serious emotional issues...and perhaps even a distorted perception of reality ...click to expand
Has nothing to do with Sun sign, and with all due respect to this High Tide person, it is presumptuous to extrapolate his behavior and speak on behalf of all Cancer men..
But I did notice the one usual suspect jumping on this thread.
Must between secret agent missions or revising the theory of relatvity or foiling another Lex Luthor plot or something.
Highttide that's a load of BS. I'm not even what you described physically. And the Cancer guy I know is very handsome.. He only dates attractive women BUT with a brain! So I don't get the part where you say they date unnatractive types.
Plus women with no intelligence..I disagree
Posted by KoniuchaYou wouldn't feel that way behind closed doors. Scorpio is just as secretive and complicated as Cancer. We also will take up for you when everyone else talks shit about you and mean it, insert what Khole said today about Lamar
Yikes. The more I read about these men, the happier I am to stay far away.
"His demons are overshadowing what a great heart he has"
However you might be the kind of person who needs more air in their sign. You did say you like Libra Men. My best friend is a Libra Man and I find him charming myself so I am not offended being picked over them.
Posted by PEITHOYour Venus is in Pisces so obviously should would work well with a Cancer except you would be better served with us having you Moon in Taurus than your Sun sign.
I wouldn't trust a Cancer man doing a "test" it's already hard enough to trust them to begin with no thank you.
Posted by britneybabe26If a Cancer has the self confidence built up from early on he usually won't have to go down a road of women less attractive or intelligent than he is.
Highttide that's a load of BS. I'm not even what you described physically. And the Cancer guy I know is very handsome.. He only dates attractive women BUT with a brain! So I don't get the part where you say they date unnatractive types.
A Cancer Man wants a woman who is physically attractive and doesnt mind the woman being smarter than him.
Dead on some of the response i do like ppl that r very open minded show me ur not a square. But be precise put emotion in it. Also i do test ppl i also have scorpio rising. Also i do aks questions ans scenarios to see if ur fit for me like to know how ppl handle things and thats me seeing if i want b bithered kn rel or friendzone u i dont like wasting time
Posted by HighTideGot itPosted by britneybabe26If a Cancer has the self confidence built up from early on he usually won't have to go down a road of women less attractive or intelligent than he is.
Highttide that's a load of BS. I'm not even what you described physically. And the Cancer guy I know is very handsome.. He only dates attractive women BUT with a brain! So I don't get the part where you say they date unnatractive types.
A Cancer Man wants a woman who is physically attractive and doesnt mind the woman being smarter than him.click to expand
Posted by PEITHOYou shouldn't with ANY man. You hear about it so much here, and I despise this "test" concept that so many stupid fuck women here accept, like it's perfectly okay.
I wouldn't trust a Cancer man doing a "test" it's already hard enough to trust them to begin with no thank you.
"oh he's TESTING meeee!"
Freaking morons, that is NOT okay. Why do they keep excusing this as if it's normal?? Why the hell would you want to be with some dipshit always playing games to get a reaction to make his pathetic ego feel good about himself? That is borderline psychotic, yet women are flocking to this shit and trying to prove their worth to these asshats.
Baffles the hell out of me. I get SO turned off by guys who do this shit. The only reaction they're getting out of me is irritation or flat out not even reacting at all to nip that crap in the bud.
Don't react, don't acknowledge, and hell, don't DATE assholes like this. Women stick around with guys like this and all it does is enable manipulative behavior on their part. "I can be a total prick to those around me and it's okay because nobody has knocked me on my ass for doing so!"
Posted by HighTideThe Cancer guy that I was seeing told me the same thing a few months ago and I chose to ignore it hoping that he would just follow his heart and step up and be the man that I needed him to be and put insecurities aside. Instead he chose the easy route. Within 2 months of dating a woman that he claimed was easy, desperate, stupid, and ugly, they moved in together and now she is turning her paychecks over to him. Even though I know I deserve better, it hurts like you couldn't believe. Especially since he continues to send mixed messages and demands that we remain best friends.
A Cancer Man is known to date women below his league in looks or in mental fortitude. He doesn't do this because he thinks he is superior but he wants a safe bet. i have dated alot of women who were either obese or had some serious mental problem because I knew it would be easier to get exactly what I wanted from that type of woman because they are low on option
@HighTide you have no clue how much this thread and your responses have helped me? I'm so
Emotionally exhausted I about to pull the plug on this cancer man. Every date we've been on he alows his friends to hit on me. Though I've mentioned it, what I notice is it'll be different friend the next time. Then we were outside the club in his car and him and his friends kept talking about women walking by like I didn't even exist but I laughed it off. Then he invited so homegirls to one of our outings and everytime I would reach for my phone they would text someone but be looking at my phone as well... like they corresponding with someone about me. I posted another thread about the tests cause I was about to give up and even declined another date for yesterday cause I mentally need a break cause I'm like if he likes me why is he doing this? Every date he pays but this date he wanted me to pay part of the bottle (not half but everyone chips in). I started feeling like I'm a Taurus! I'm too honest not to be trusted. He said he wanted to move slooooow and I thought I love slow but boy is he a snail and this is taking me for a ride! He's cancer sun Virgo moon, Gemini Venus.
Emotionally exhausted I about to pull the plug on this cancer man. Every date we've been on he alows his friends to hit on me. Though I've mentioned it, what I notice is it'll be different friend the next time. Then we were outside the club in his car and him and his friends kept talking about women walking by like I didn't even exist but I laughed it off. Then he invited so homegirls to one of our outings and everytime I would reach for my phone they would text someone but be looking at my phone as well... like they corresponding with someone about me. I posted another thread about the tests cause I was about to give up and even declined another date for yesterday cause I mentally need a break cause I'm like if he likes me why is he doing this? Every date he pays but this date he wanted me to pay part of the bottle (not half but everyone chips in). I started feeling like I'm a Taurus! I'm too honest not to be trusted. He said he wanted to move slooooow and I thought I love slow but boy is he a snail and this is taking me for a ride! He's cancer sun Virgo moon, Gemini Venus.
Posted by notsosureNo honey you taking it wrong cause that's was the third date. We are both in the entertainment industry... Females will ALWAYS FLOCK! And so will men... You don't think he thinks someone will swoop me up as well? In this business you tread lightly on a love interest until you're sure. Please take your negativity and shove it up a nice closed hole. Thanks.Posted by ShaniajamHomegirl, it´s not a test. He´s not into you for more than fun. You´re entertainment. How can you even think yourself to be into this boy, when he is how he is? Girls, make no sense. You´re nowhere near ready for a relationship. That´s why you keep meeting these kind of boys. Just enjoy it instead.
@HighTide you have no clue how much this thread and your responses have helped me? I'm so
Emotionally exhausted I about to pull the plug on this cancer man. Every date we've been on he alows his friends to hit on me. Though I've mentioned it, what I notice is it'll be different friend the next time. Then we were outside the club in his car and him and his friends kept talking about women walking by like I didn't even exist but I laughed it off. Then he invited so homegirls to one of our outings and everytime I would reach for my phone they would text someone but be looking at my phone as well... like they corresponding with someone about me. I posted another thread about the tests cause I was about to give up and even declined another date for yesterday cause I mentally need a break cause I'm like if he likes me why is he doing this? Every date he pays but this date he wanted me to pay part of the bottle (not half but everyone chips in). I started feeling like I'm a Taurus! I'm too honest not to be trusted. He said he wanted to move slooooow and I thought I love slow but boy is he a snail and this is taking me for a ride! He's cancer sun Virgo moon, Gemini Venus.
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Interested to know...
How does a Cancer man feel about a woman who has more money / younger / more attractive than he is?
How does a Cancer man feel about a woman who has more money / younger / more attractive than he is?
Lmao the bull came out hahahaha anywhose... I'm on a very higher scale than these so called men that's been in my life and one thing I have learnt once they realize that it takes a lot more than a little date to hold me or some scheme... They leave on their own. It's a learning experience and I spot it more quickly now. So I'm happy for my lessons, you can take your half ass comments elsewhere while I try to maneuver my life thanks.
Posted by MondayMorningWould love to hear the comments on this as well cause it's seems to become a problem for me too.
Interested to know...
How does a Cancer man feel about a woman who has more money / younger / more attractive than he is?
Posted by notsosureLmao. Ok so it's time to change the game. Lol.... A bull waits for no one hehehePosted by Shaniajam😄Posted by notsosureNo honey you taking it wrong cause that's was the third date. We are both in the entertainment industry... Females will ALWAYS FLOCK! And so will men... You don't think he thinks someone will swoop me up as well? In this business you tread lightly on a love interest until you're sure. Please take your negativity and shove it up a nice closed hole. Thanks.Posted by ShaniajamHomegirl, it´s not a test. He´s not into you for more than fun. You´re entertainment. How can you even think yourself to be into this boy, when he is how he is? Girls, make no sense. You´re nowhere near ready for a relationship. That´s why you keep meeting these kind of boys. Just enjoy it instead.
@HighTide you have no clue how much this thread and your responses have helped me? I'm so
Emotionally exhausted I about to pull the plug on this cancer man. Every date we've been on he alows his friends to hit on me. Though I've mentioned it, what I notice is it'll be different friend the next time. Then we were outside the club in his car and him and his friends kept talking about women walking by like I didn't even exist but I laughed it off. Then he invited so homegirls to one of our outings and everytime I would reach for my phone they would text someone but be looking at my phone as well... like they corresponding with someone about me. I posted another thread about the tests cause I was about to give up and even declined another date for yesterday cause I mentally need a break cause I'm like if he likes me why is he doing this? Every date he pays but this date he wanted me to pay part of the bottle (not half but everyone chips in). I started feeling like I'm a Taurus! I'm too honest not to be trusted. He said he wanted to move slooooow and I thought I love slow but boy is he a snail and this is taking me for a ride! He's cancer sun Virgo moon, Gemini Venus.
Okay.
To answer your question: no, I do truly not think he thinks someone will swoop you up as well. He´s got you entirely 😄
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Mmmm @Shaniajam I dated a Taurus for a very long time and he was fine with his friends hitting on me - he felt quite proud people wanted his woman actually. Was only after we broke up that he got jealous and actually threatened to hit a guy who was trying to ask me out.
Also dated an Aquarius who seemed almost oblivious if people hit on me, so lost was he in his world. Dated a Scorpio (the allegedly most jealous sign) and whole he was possessive he was pretty cool about y male friends and whatever.
My Crab is a totally different. That guy is seriously crazy jealous. I mean, he seriously imagines these situations and the mail man was friendly to me and he said he wanted to kill the guy. I have never seen jealousy like it. It's all in his head completely but I can't imagine a situation where he would go around allowing his friends to hit on me. He'd go nuts in that situation
Also dated an Aquarius who seemed almost oblivious if people hit on me, so lost was he in his world. Dated a Scorpio (the allegedly most jealous sign) and whole he was possessive he was pretty cool about y male friends and whatever.
My Crab is a totally different. That guy is seriously crazy jealous. I mean, he seriously imagines these situations and the mail man was friendly to me and he said he wanted to kill the guy. I have never seen jealousy like it. It's all in his head completely but I can't imagine a situation where he would go around allowing his friends to hit on me. He'd go nuts in that situation
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