What I've noticed about our 'clingyness'

All my life I've read that cancer people are clingy and I always thought it was silly because I am so far from clingy. I give people their space and don't pay any mind when they need it because I need my space as well. I'm okay with my friends having other friends and I tend to not get 'that jealous' if you're close to other friends .

What I've noticed is that however while I'm not clingy, I do get very very attached to those I love....and it will be very hard for me to let go of you completely. If I love you nw... I love you for life. (Sounds heavy I know)
Maybe that's what they meant by clingy....as in ... We 'cling' on to those we love?
What do you guys think.... You agree or disagree?

yes, we are clingy in love. This tends to work with jealous signs.

I can't place a number on it.....I know its really deep , I'm just not very good at showing it.
At the same time I know it isn't 10 because I don't think I've ever given anyone (besides family) a 10 yet. Tend to hold back on that

I'm so sorry to be the person who says that, but cancers male when feel insecure or out of the league are so much Suckers! They won't even exercise a bit of the opportunity because it seems sth to them. I gave up any hope for cancers. They're not reasonable. They can talk at once about getting closer, kissing, being a couple without even knowing the person. And when you tell them you'd like to know them they swich on their favourite GONE MODE.
It sucks, guys.

Posted by Arielle83

Posted by TaurusMarine
I'm so sorry to be the person who says that, but cancers male when feel insecure or out of the league are so much Suckers! They won't even exercise a bit of the opportunity because it seems sth to them. I gave up any hope for cancers. They're not reasonable. They can talk at once about getting closer, kissing, being a couple without even knowing the person. And when you tell them you'd like to know them they swich on their favourite GONE MODE.
It sucks, guys.

Ya they are testing if you are a crazy clinger.

Ppl who fall for that shit are needy already.

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So they're into the person and want to check if the person is there or WTF?))

Posted by Arielle83

Posted by TaurusMarine

Posted by Arielle83

Posted by TaurusMarine
I'm so sorry to be the person who says that, but cancers male when feel insecure or out of the league are so much Suckers! They won't even exercise a bit of the opportunity because it seems sth to them. I gave up any hope for cancers. They're not reasonable. They can talk at once about getting closer, kissing, being a couple without even knowing the person. And when you tell them you'd like to know them they swich on their favourite GONE MODE.
It sucks, guys.

Ya they are testing if you are a crazy clinger.

Ppl who fall for that shit are needy already.

So they're into the person and want to check if the person is there or WTF?))

It's about testing boundaries. If your boundaries are easy to break, you come off as easy, desperate, possible clinger etc

It's like testing.

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Ah I see 🙂

Posted by Rihanna22
All my life I've read that cancer people are clingy and I always thought it was silly because I am so far from clingy. I give people their space and don't pay any mind when they need it because I need my space as well. I'm okay with my friends having other friends and I tend to not get 'that jealous' if you're close to other friends .

What I've noticed is that however while I'm not clingy, I do get very very attached to those I love....and it will be very hard for me to let go of you completely. If I love you nw... I love you for life. (Sounds heavy I know)
Maybe that's what they meant by clingy....as in ... We 'cling' on to those we love?
What do you guys think.... You agree or disagree?

I can totally relate to " I love you for life."
To me that feels totally natural, but I'm a scorpio.

> So if a man wants to hold your hand, make promises, don't always believe it's real. Question his reasons.


For sure it's unbelievable... just thought either he's a creep or sth... these cancer men are really hard to get. HAVEN'T encountered the one before.