What Scorp women love about the Cancer man..

Hi, someone (and I shall respect his privacy) Pm'd me asking about why Scorp ladies love Cancer fellas. Thought I'd throw it open to the whole board...

We love...

1. The nurturing and warmth
2. Your feminine side
3. Your imagination
4. Instant unmistakeable immediate emotional understanding and connection
5. Your cardinal desire to make it to the top (makes us feel secure, starts us thinking "babies")
6. Tender and intuitive in bed
7. Ability to be quiet...we like that, too.


One thing, though, guys....*please* learn how to let go of grudges and past hurts, especially relating to our relationship...we Scorps actually let go a lot quicker than you...and it drives us nuts when you keep bringing up the past over and over and over and over and over...

thank you ladies!

What this scorpio likes about cancer men:

1) You are like magnets and I am like steel. I cannot help but get sucked in.
2) Your gentleness
3) The lack of overtly macho displays and other such silliness
4) Your humor
5) You have my back
6) Intelligence
7) The soft part underneath the shell - you don't fool me with the snapping pinchers
8) I like depth and you are deep and not superficial, except when you are trying to fool me with that whole shell thing.
9) Your manners and old-fashioned gentlemanlyness (Is that a real word?)
10) How you remember the little things about me and what I said
11) You totally focus on what I'm saying when I speak to you.
12) The eyes that stare right into me - no one else can get to me like that

There are many other things but I cannot think of them now.

I just wish you all would really say what you mean. How is a girl to know if you are saying the opposite of what you mean to test her or if you really mean that? I do find that you let some of the truth out in your humor though.

Oh, and you don't need to be so secretive, if anyone can keep your secret(s) a secret, it is a scorpio.

What this scorpio likes about cancer men:

1) You are like magnets and I am like steel. I cannot help but get sucked in.
2) Your gentleness
3) The lack of overtly macho displays and other such silliness
4) Your humor
5) You have my back
6) Intelligence
7) The soft part underneath the shell - you don't fool me with the snapping pinchers
8) I like depth and you are deep and not superficial, except when you are trying to fool me with that whole shell thing.
9) Your manners and old-fashioned gentlemanlyness (Is that a real word?)
10) How you remember the little things about me and what I said
11) You totally focus on what I'm saying when I speak to you.
12) The eyes that stare right into me - no one else can get to me like that

There are many other things but I cannot think of them now.

I just wish you all would really say what you mean. How is a girl to know if you are saying the opposite of what you mean to test her or if you really mean that? I do find that you let some of the truth out in your humor though.

Oh, and you don't need to be so secretive, if anyone can keep your secret(s) a secret, it is a scorpio.

I want you to know these are the reasons I love you.

1 You are like magnets and I am like steel. I cannot help but get sucked in.
2 Your gentleness
4 Your humor
5 You have my back and I have yours, your bestest friend ever
6 I love your different way of thinking it challenges mine, your intellectual
7 The soft part underneath the shell - you aren't fooling me with the snapping pinchers, they don't hurt as much excpet when u r in tight in that shell
8 I like depth and you are deep and not superficial, except when you are trying to fool me with that whole shell thing.
9 Your manners and old-fashioned gentlemanlyness
10 How you remember the little things about me and what I said
11 You totally focus on what I'm saying when I speak to you unless in shell
12 The eyes that stare right into me - no one else can get to me like that
13 Tender and intuitive in bed
14. The nurturing and warmth that makes me feel so secure.
15. Your cardinal desire to make it to the top I want to support you all the way there.

These are the reasons I am here with you and never , ever want to hurt you on purpose. Why I try so hard to be the best for you. Why I get so silly when you are tight in your shell and I don't now why and that that I cannot have what I desire most. Being and pleasing you in everyway, everyday.
I even try to accept the things that hurt cause you 98.9% all I could ever ask for.

1) You are like magnets and I am like steel. I cannot help but get sucked in.



"you Cancer men know how to turn that whatever it is that you have on and I swear I am like a piece of metal to a magnet when you do that." - What I posted before reading this thread and what was stated- conincidence... think not.

*coincidence*

Interesting... Glad I'm not the only one.

Ummm...mine2u?

Sweetheart, your list was a replica of Scorpiochick's and mine...

I mean, I don't really care...it just seems a little odd you would bother to repost...

yes" as I bow my head. I miffed. After I copy ideas and paste to notebook, sheer peotry i might add. In a very hard time of my life, your words lifted my insight. My oops press post to get back to list

........may i add i am on day 5 of not smoking, i am out of sorts.......but worth it I keep telling myself... I apreciate everybodies wisedom/knowledge and it's sharing. Bless you, no insult meant. I am new here, just learning the post it thing for help/insight

"i showed this to my friend, he agrees to none of this"

what, these aren't the reasons he loves cancer men?

it's kind of quaint how a thread dedicated to why scorp women love cancer men is partly a bash/"if only you'd do this better..." thread

"No thanks. Speak for yourselves."

so share your thoughts

there's no such thing as a positive thread dedicated to cancer men on this site

Fiddlesticks...

I didn't mean to come off as bashing Cancers. I said *one* thing that could be construed as criticism, and *seven* things that were very flattering and complimentary. Are you being an ultra-sensitive crab?

I like your moniker, by the way...it is very unusual.

Mine2U...congrats on the smoking quitting! And always happy to offer insight, if my words seemed to have any...

no, i'm just being facetious

"he doesnt agree with what all of you are saying about him, but i wouldnt either if i were a cancer, ya'll make them seem weak."

Society is weird about men's roles. If a man isn't banging his chest, acting like a gorilla, or constantly oggling women, then he is considered weak. Heaven forbid that he express an emotion! I can't speak for the other posters, but I was saying that I liked that the cancer men I know or have known BECAUSE they did not act like that.

I for one find someone who doesn't act ultra macho very appealing and definately not weak. Someone who can be themselves regardless of stereotypes takes courage (not weakness).

Fiddlestix,

Ah feel like whuppin' your shell.