What trait is your weakest point, crabs ?

Let me explain....
Crabs have traits like: shell-time;shyness;mood swings,etc.
But some traits work against you, like for example your shyness turns people off. To be able to connect or so.
Or your mood really scares the wrong people....................!!
What is yours ?

My shyness gets in my way a lot, I blush a lot and I really really hate it. Usually when I'm the center of attention my face turns beet red. I try to overcome it by trusting in my knowledge, especially at work, and reminding myself that I have no reason to be unsure of myself.

Posted by LunarLady720
My shyness gets in my way a lot, I blush a lot and I really really hate it. Usually when I'm the center of attention my face turns beet red. I try to overcome it by trusting in my knowledge, especially at work, and reminding myself that I have no reason to be unsure of myself.

So this blushing of urs is it having affect on other people in ur life too ?

My nack for wanting to feed everyone 😢

Posted by CancerianGoddess
My nack for wanting to feed everyone 😢

How so ?

We cancers tend to be emotional manipulators. Sometimes I don't even realize I'm doing it. I can make people feel guilty about the littlest things they have either said or done. I have seriously been trying to work on it.

Posted by Stormn

Posted by CancerianGoddess
My nack for wanting to feed everyone 😢

How so ?

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I went back to school to be a Chef so i can open my own bar & grill. I always offer to lend an ear or a hot meal ..sometimes hearing other peoples pain causes me distress because i feel bad for them. Or bringing food down to the homeless people that hang out on the corner a mile from my home. They expect me to come now and are aways ready to talk and see what i made... Now i am becoming a chef, i just like to take care of others.

shyness and mood swings

shyness and mood swings

the sideways motions is a huge drawback, when relationships take too long to get started because a crab is not sure. Or if a crab is too unsure to take a business risk.

Posted by CanceritaBonita
We cancers tend to be emotional manipulators. Sometimes I don't even realize I'm doing it. I can make people feel guilty about the littlest things they have either said or done. I have seriously been trying to work on it.

lolz..me too but it's like breathing for me, so it's that bad !hahha

Posted by Cancerflower5808
shyness and mood swings

Yeah, I know that my shyness and mood swings turn people off..........and I missed a whole lot, I really need help !

Posted by rabidtalker
the sideways motions is a huge drawback, when relationships take too long to get started because a crab is not sure. Or if a crab is too unsure to take a business risk.

I understand what ur saying !

Posted by wineaux

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Posted by Stormn

Posted by CancerianGoddess
My nack for wanting to feed everyone 😢

How so ?

I went back to school to be a Chef so i can open my own bar & grill. I always offer to lend an ear or a hot meal ..sometimes hearing other peoples pain causes me distress because i feel bad for them. Or bringing food down to the homeless people that hang out on the corner a mile from my home. They expect me to come now and are aways ready to talk and see what i made... Now i am becoming a chef, i just like to take care of others.

I'm really stoked for you about this. my ex scorp went to the CIA and I graduated with a hotel & restaurant management degree...I am here for you to bounce any questions, ideas, you name it. it has been my life for 21 years 🙂

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Right on Wineaux! Message me, so we can actually talk about it,and i will tell you all of what i am bouncing around, i graduate next year

my shyness ugh i hate being so shy

Posted by lovelivelife11
my shyness ugh i hate being so shy

Wow ....................you look like an artist, you look like Toni Braxton. Uhm yeah me too I'm shy sometimes too much and it pushes people away 😢

My insecurity and fear of getting hurt...sometimes I think I hurt others before they can hurt me 😢

My insecurity and fear of getting hurt...sometimes I think I hurt others before they can hurt me 😢

Posted by iwin32
My shyness and insecurity. I used to work for a retailer company and many times girls (customers) would give me hints and many of them would go to my department very often just to see me, but my shyness got on the way and I really never talked to them. It's very frustrating and just the thought of being rejected by these girls would have been horrible. If you're a cancer, then you know what I'm talking about.

I completely understand you I am going through the same stuff..........I'm scared of being rejected because it happened in the past so I'm more in my shell then I was before......If you can handle my shyness you'll get me out of it !!
Goodluck

Posted by SillyCrab
My insecurity and fear of getting hurt...sometimes I think I hurt others before they can hurt me 😢

Really, how come —