whats the deal with cancer women

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who likes too argue— sometimes it is better to just let it be. i am not a cancer sun but cancer mars! i feel like peace and compromise is the best way to go? i know that sometimes you have to stand your groung and confront the situation but to argue just for thesake of arguing
in the home is not worth it!!! when things calm down then you can talk later on!
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...as far as remembering only the bad things and not the good, I always remember the good!!! I only keep the past alive if it hasn't been resolved. Once it is resolved and there is honesty, then they will have my trust again!

PS maybe you should ask them their feelings instead of thinking you know what they are feeling! You may get a very different perspective. Try this and see what happens!

Hope this helps!
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...as far as remembering only the bad things and not the good, I always remember the good!!! I only keep the past alive if it hasn't been resolved. Once it is resolved and there is honesty, then they will have my trust again!

PS maybe you should ask them their feelings instead of thinking you know what they are feeling! You may get a very different perspective. Try this and see what happens!

Hope this helps!

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...as far as remembering only the bad things and not the good, I always remember the good!!! I only keep the past alive if it hasn't been resolved. Once it is resolved and there is honesty, then they will have my trust again!

PS maybe you should ask them their feelings instead of thinking you know what they are feeling! You may get a very different perspective. Try this and see what happens!

Hope this helps!

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There is a song by Simon & Garfunkel(both Scorpios)title-
'Bridge Over Troubled Waters'
Listen to the version done by Aretha Franklin
she sings the opening..."don't trouble the waters; leave it alone; why don't you just let it be; still waters run deep, yes it do!"

Maybe you can work it out some other time, like when you are in bed! Scorps and Cancers can really communicate there!

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205 I have a love interest (also Cancerian) that displays all of what you have just descibed about your girlfriend.
I wonder...does your girlfriend have moon in Libra as well?

Basically what you need to remember here is that Cancer has a very big heart and they run on emotion. They are either high in the clouds or down in the dumps...they are extreamly passionate people.
One thing you can never give enough of to a Cancerian is support, reassurance and love...remember that!!!

The problem with that is they don't like to show they need it...the crab will pop out of it's shell and show you it's true colours and that's the person you no doubt fell in love with but...

When their heart aches it aches twice as much as yours or any other sign for that matter and they will retract back into that shell leaving you bewildered at their reactions. This is why she dwells on the bad aspects of life...it's because they can't let go...well not without you love and support...I agree the task is a daunting one and often leaves you wondering why you stick around...

Thats simple...when they're out of that shell and up in those clouds...they're the absolute best you can imagine.

It's tough I know but if you want her...you take her for what she is...good luck to you.

Hang in there....
Durrie

P.S The reason I asked her moon sign is that Libra moon adds a constant feeling of uncertainty to the person and this heightens those feeling you speak of even more...the answer....

Show more love...give more support and wait for the highs...it's worth it and you know it...