How to catch a cancer

This topic was created in the Cancer forum by Unregistered on Tuesday, April 30, 2002 and has 8 replies.

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I'm a Libra man and i'm interested in a Cancer woman. I don't know what it is about her but she's mysteriously different from everybody else, which makes her attractive to me. And well i wanted to know how do i get her attention? I really do like her and want to have a relationship with her, but i don't know how to go about approaching her. Please Cancer ladies help me with this one!

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Sorry I wish I could help you. Taurus woman here. The best I can do is speak from woman in general. We like to be pursued. But not overly pursued. Show her some interest. And let her take the bate. She's a cancer woman. I will tell you from dating a few cancer men, be prepared for cancer's indicisivness, and mysterious ways. And be sure she's what you want, because once you have her, she will never let you go......
What's your situation , how do you know her, work?, school? through friends? If you want woman advice I can give you that just let me know.

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Act a little bit hard to get. Relish her "greatness" just a couple inches away. Get involved with PETA, (but) you have to sincerely be passionate about it. Be thoughtful and considerate. Show her how you feel through your gaze. Don't give it all away so fast. REEL her in. slowly and sweetly. Take time and effort to let her know that HER thoughts are important to you. Smile alot and show her the playful side to you. I love to see guys that are optimistic and intelligent. But you can't adapt yourself to something JUST For her. Be yourself but be genuine about it.

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hey im a cancer girl and i can relate to being seen as 'mysterious' anyway to get her attention, you should probably give her intense stares, and DO NOT flirt with other girls in front of her ok. and make an effort to talk to her, be nice and genuine. and then after a while, shyly ask her if shed like to go out with you. a nice place under the stars...

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from 205-
Smile and say hi. And then that it's! Now you've got her attention.
keeping it, give her a glance in her direction until she looks. Then
look away as if you just got caught looking. And the rest will
all fall into place. The right time to ask her out will come.

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I am a cancer woman and if you wanted my attention...I would hope that you would talk to me and show interest, maybe ask if I am seeing anyone...this will let me know you are interested in making more than small talk, then maybe ask me out for a cup of coffee or milkshake (if your not a coffee goer). It is true not to over purse a cancer woman. Think of catching a crab on the beach...if you run up to it...it either runs like hell or quickly retreats to its shell. This is what a cancer woman will do if you come on to strong. How do you approach a crab?...you ease up and let it know you are not going to hurt it....be patient! And what ever you do....do not flirt with anyother female in front of her!!!

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Do NOT flirt with another, yes! I am a cancer male and feel the same way. That is sure way to question "trust" - which is utmost important to a cancer. They won't be able to truly open up - if they don't trust. Good luck!