What's the difference between cancer Mand F?

Yeah What's the difference between them? I hear the women know how to cope with their feelings better then the men and that the men over react more violently. What do you guys think?

thats right cancer female like myself for example we keep our emo inside until the time is right and when we trust someone and not scared to say how we feel...cancer man is o0o0oo sooo emotionals a little bit too much..its like they are the grl in the relationship..lol...cancer grls coould handle our emotion...BUT cancer guys players sometime dont make the emotions trick you cuz thats the one things cancer boy or grl know how to do well use our emo to get wha we want

I would have to concur....I have read statements in the past that said Cancer women are overly emotional and clingy....I laugh when I read those post because I know speaking for myself, I am emotional to a certain degree but most people never see that side of me, even the guys I like or fall in love with??_.I feel too vulnerable showing that side??_...As far as clingy, I can say that I am not (maybe I have other stuff going on in my chart)....

I have been told by guys interested in me that I am cold and sometimes seem disinterested in them??_..Its not that though, I just like my space and personal time??_..I respect and give others that too??_..I am not the type to call you everyday or wanna see you everyday when we are dating because I like my peace and quiet.......

Or maybe thats just me "shelling"....lol

lol..yes we are clingy but only with people we realllly care about...i dont show my emotional side eitther jus like hotgal said..people do say im very mean at times cuz i got dat look...lol..dont fuck wit me look...wish is true but im a very nice nice grl..cancer man show there shit das why grls dont like dem...lol..shit i dont like dem either

Cancer women tend to want to 'merge' with people they care about. They want to kiss your wounds and make all your worries disappear.

They make excellent nurses.

This has been my personal experience so don't jump me.
The guys are quite whiney. I have a few male Cancer friends and though I like them I'd never consider dating them. They are emotional and I can relate being a water sign but damn! They do NOT know how to handle it well. They completely let their emotions take over and rule them.

The one Cancer girl I knew USE to be a good friend. I related to her in alot of ways and we supported each other.Her true colors came out when I started dating my Aries fiance. She was close friends with him and being that her and I was so close I thought she'd be really happy that we got together. WRONG. She was plainly jealous even though she was in a relationship with another guy well before Aries and I got together. When Aries and I hit it off and started getting serious she out of the blue "confessed" to him that she'd always had feelings for him (she had a serious BF) and started bad mouthing me to him. She tried to pour on the sob story that she wasn't happy in her relationship and even went as far as to appeal to my Aries knight in shining armor complex that her BF was abusive (SO not true I know the guy well and he wasn't). She tried so hard to break us up and when it was clear she wasn't getting anywhere she had an emotional meltdown at a party we were all attending. I was pissed at her for the things she said about me but still she went so overboard I actually felt sorry for her. She made such an ass out of herself in front of a large amount of people and it embarrassed the crap outta me because the spotlight was on the 3 of us.

I really keep my eyes open around Cancer women. I find you never know when they are suddenly going to create a drama filled situation according to whatever mood strikes them. The men... they run and sulk.
Sorry Cancers but the Cancers in my RL aren't very good examples of the sign. I really don't trust Cancer women.

haaa wow she must be a realll jealous chik....unlike me im not jealous over no chik no matter who you wit..yea i might keep it movin and not be ya friend if we was close and something happen but i dont needa show jealousy AT ALL...too good for that..she must have a a weird rising sign cuz that can have a lot to do with how she acted...my risin is taures and libra so im upfront and dont care about NO FEMALES feelings that are friends...i dont trust grld regardless of anything...i dont like to be close to girls i only have 3 close friends that are girls the rest hell no...im quick to tell somebody off cuz i dont care...so if you dont trust her then dont...but bein a cancer dont got nothing to do with it..alll girls are like that mostly...and to the one who says cancers women are whining...im FARRRRRR from it...if you not on my level i keep it movin..i fall in quick and get out quicker...cuz i do not care...

o0o cancer and scorpio are very perfect for eachother im dealing with one now..and had one in da past who is still in love wit me from this day there is always sparks when i see him

If you step on her new shoes, it gets worse. 🙂

these were great. i just gotta chime in. cancer females are drama queens, needy and whiney. yep. ok, those are the less attractive traits, and if you find an insecure one (which will be most of them) you'll run into that over and over. a happy, secure, confident female apparently is a joy to behold. i've never met one.........

the males. sigh. married to one. at best he's attentive, affectionate, helps with the housework, is cuddly, loving and goes to great lengths to amuse me. at worst, he's distant, pouty, easily offended, seeks drama, has a slight vindictive streak (man, have i had to retrain this one on how to fight fair.) is pompous and witholds sex as a weapon. i never withold sex, even when i 'm pissed. that one irritates me since sex is as important. he's a great guy most of the time and we're smooth. when jealous or threatened, he drapes himself on me like a sweater tho. he's just all over me. like marking me as his. he needs a high degree of attention and security or he gets neurotic and clingy. he's been known to call me 5 times in an hour if he's wigging out about it. esp if he thinks i'm mad or our relationship is in any danger of instability. if he's in a mood and is ignoring me and i just shut off and am suddenly unavailable to him, again, he suddenly is all over me, needing reassurance. reassurance he himself is not always inclined to give in return. so, at best, they're uber loving and devoted, at worst they're self-centered and bossy. they like a very bubbly and confident, funny woman. that's me 95% of the time. if you get neurotic yourself because they almost seem to be trying to make you that way, they will turn off like a burned out lightbulb. quick! if he turns cold and distant, trust me, become unavailable. it's amazing how they change.

GingerScorp sorry but thats funny, If u knew them so well then u should of known. She didn't want to tell u because she thought she would of hurt u, i cared about ur feelings. If u were the friend u r u would picked up on this.

She didn't care about my feelings when she was talking smack about me for no reason to my guy. I did nothing to deserve that and to top it off the things she told him were very untrue and very vicious. Eh... she didnt accomplish her goal. I'm still with the guy she tried to manipulate away from me. Silly girl should have known better 😛

Tattoos?! I love em. I have two myself. Girly and small? Mine aren't girly but I wanted to be sure they were in a place I could cover them up for jobs. I have a Scorpion on my lower hip and a symbol on my left lower back. NOT a tramp stamp. The scorpion is on my right hip and to balance me out I put the symbol on my left lower back. They are both really small and cute I must say 🙂 Im trying to decide on a spot to put my last tat. I'm getting a 13 with green cat eyes somewhere. I can't decide!!

Nov 13th is my bday 🙂 Everybody always says how unlucky 13 is so I thought I throw in the green cat eyes (my eyes are green) to represent a black cat.

I'll put a pic of my tat on my hip in my profile for ya. Unless I have really low riding pants on you can't see anything but the tail of the scorpion.

Would just like to say a word or two in defence of cancer women.
My best friend (for coming up to 11 years now) refuses to talk smack about anyone at all. Whenever I try to get her into a little bitch-fest she just says that it goes against her principles and just plain won't do it.
However, if she is annoyed at me or someone else she is very, very, very angry indeed. She just doesn't show it. Passive-aggressive is the watch-word here. I just have to keep asking what is wrong and coax it out of her and then apologise and then she is all too eager to be BFFs again.

When we are having good times (which is the majority of the time), she is very loyal and kind-hearted. Can never do enough to help me and is always there to chat when I need her. Listens to all my angsty rubbish about the Cancer boy I like (hahaha, yep, I still like him) and never tells me to shut up.
She can be insecure though. If I've not seen her for a while or have been spending lots of time with my other close friends I make sure to tell her how much I've missed her and want to see her soon so that she doesn't feel like I am abandoning her.
She can be hard work, emotionally, but it's well worth the effort. I couldn't ask for a better best friend. :-)

I think it's funny when people get all worked up about the number 13. It's just a number but it's my bday so I think it's special 🙂

It's true about Scorps and having devotion towards our sign. LOL I know a couple of male scorps that have scorpion tattoos also. It kinda annoyed me though when a Virgo friend of mine saw my tat and had never read a thing about astrology and asked me what her sign was (she didn't even know!) and her and her Cancer hubby went and got their signs tattoo on them. It's their choice I guess but they had no idea what it even meant. They just did it for a "fad" thing.
I like my avatar too 🙂 I thought it was sexy and I have red hair so... eh. I guess some might find it's not for them but I'm a little "dark" at times. I have 5 planets in Scorpio so I guess I would lean more towards the "dark" side. LOL

I'm not really trying to harp on Cancers. My guy Cancer friends mean the world to me. I even was strongly attracted to one of them but honestly I'm glad we didn't go there. We wouldn't have worked out and I cherish his friendship.The girl I was talking about use to be one of my closest friends. I was totally thrown when she did what she did. It came from no where. It hurt me more then anything because I thought we were closer then that. When she threw her little tantrum at that party I was so shocked and I felt so sorry for her. It was SO over the top and really desperate looking. To be fair she tried to apologize some years later but nah. The friendship had been ruined and I don't think I'd ever trust her again knowing she was after my guy. I told her thanks but no thanks that we should go our seperate ways.
I was just speaking from my own personal experience.

You'll have to read Starsky and Cox for the information but according to them Cancer males are not aligned with the feminine polarity of this sign, basically that is what it is.

"quick! if he turns cold and distant, trust me, become unavailable. it's amazing how they change." - redhedgurl

I applaud you! that is in fact, the best tactic to deal with cancers!!woohooo!! LOL! speaking as a cancerian here....