Why are scorpios hateful ?

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LunarLady720
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You know, what's funny is that I was just thinking today how every Scorpio I have ever met has been almost exactly the same. Other signs vary, but not Scorpio (in my experience anyway). I just moved to Dallas, TX from South Carolina. I had a female Scorpio as a coworker in SC and she drove me nuts, now at my new job I have a male Scorpio and they act like the same damn person LOL. Very controlling, outspoken, pushy, "what I say and think is the absolute example for the world" type of attitude. I understand the attitude, and I have a similar attitude, but I don't push it on people. I could care less if people agree with me but they always try to force you into their way of thinking.

GRR!
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I'm not going to try and defend anything you guys have said but I was reading through this and wondering what starsign I dislike no matter who the individual was and then I thought...Are you guys paying more attention to the people that piss you off than you do on the people who treat you and others well?

Like....when someone pushes their opinions on you or insists they know everything...is it at that point that you ask (or try to find out) what their star sign is?

Or is it a thing from past experiences that cause your attention to focus in on the negative traits of people once you find out what their star sign is...therefore maybe shadowing out their good qualities?

I only ask this because I feel the same about Geminis (not for the same reasons as stated in here) and I was wondering why I felt that way....so I figured it would be interesting to understand a bit more why you guys haven't met many (if any) 'good' scorpios.
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Posted by TypicalScorpio
I'm not going to try and defend anything you guys have said but I was reading through this and wondering what starsign I dislike no matter who the individual was and then I thought...Are you guys paying more attention to the people that piss you off than you do on the people who treat you and others well?

Like....when someone pushes their opinions on you or insists they know everything...is it at that point that you ask (or try to find out) what their star sign is?

Or is it a thing from past experiences that cause your attention to focus in on the negative traits of people once you find out what their star sign is...therefore maybe shadowing out their good qualities?

I only ask this because I feel the same about Geminis (not for the same reasons as stated in here) and I was wondering why I felt that way....so I figured it would be interesting to understand a bit more why you guys haven't met many (if any) 'good' scorpios.



When I meet someone I've always been able to pick up on the good and the bad of ppl pretty quickly. Scorpios have a lot of good qualities, for instance as a sometimes timid Cancer a Scorpio is a perfect person to have in your corner in a bad situation. I mostly just answered on the negatives because of the topic lol. I think it's probably just a draw of the hand that I haven't met many Scorpios that don't have those traits on their sleeve. I usually ask everyone their birthday shortly after meeting them, I like to know who is in my company 🙂
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Posted by LunarLady720
You know, what's funny is that I was just thinking today how every Scorpio I have ever met has been almost exactly the same. Other signs vary, but not Scorpio (in my experience anyway). I just moved to Dallas, TX from South Carolina. I had a female Scorpio as a coworker in SC and she drove me nuts, now at my new job I have a male Scorpio and they act like the same damn person LOL. Very controlling, outspoken, pushy, "what I say and think is the absolute example for the world" type of attitude. I understand the attitude, and I have a similar attitude, but I don't push it on people. I could care less if people agree with me but they always try to force you into their way of thinking.

GRR!



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Thanks! 🙂
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LunarLady - I do the same when I meet people. I like to know so that I can get a grasp on some of their traits and do what I can to get along (not in the scorpio manipulation sense). I wonder if that's because we're astro freaks or because I have a cancer moon which shows up a lot in my personality...might be a cancer thing 😛


That's one thing I try to remember as well, that the chart as a whole tells you about a person not just their sun sign. I'll meet a Gemini and instantly prepare myself for the worst but always forget they may have a beautiful moon or rising.

Anyway, thank you for explaining it to me, I appreciate it 🙂
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and they are hard workers




Very loyal, hard working employees, sometimes to a fault. Their routines are so set in stone, that if they have a 9 to 5 job, they will always be at the office at 9am sharp, and will leave at exactly 5pm, rarely deviating. I do admire their ability to change gears and drop all problems until the next day. Sometimes I have to finish things before I can relax, they don't seem to have that weakness.
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i think its because they take every slight, hurt and pain ever experienced and store it up. kinda like food in a hamsters cheeks. then once they're ready to unleash, BLAM!!! hate just spews out. i do think all that ego masks huge insecurity, though. all the scorps i know are so emotional, etc but you'd never really guess first off. it takes dedication to craft that bravado!!

i always get along with scorps on a friend level, but i have vowed not to go near one romantically. better the devil you know than the one that makes a home in your heart...

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In my experiences with Scorps, they aren't "hateful," revengeful or any other negative extremity UNTIL/UNLESS they've been done wrong 1st.

I do agree though that Scorps can't handle it when others don't buy the "mysterious" crap. Some people can actually see straight through Scorps, & for some reason this seems to bother Scorps; almost as if Scorps purposely seek out friendships/relationships where others don't understand them completely, which is odd considering most of us merely WISH we could find friends/companions that could!