My Scorpian

Hello, i need some input on what my Scorpio is feeling.

We have been casually "dating" on and off for the last year & half. She has disappeared onb me twice and then return and we pick up where we left off. When we were first dating I would ask if she was seeing anyone else and she would say I have 1 or to friends but you are the only one I am intimate with or spend quality time with. And one time she very seriously told me after not seeing each other for 3 months that she wanted me to know that I get the "real her" when we are together, she feels safe and does not put on and act that it's just natural with us.

Here is where the I get confused, I Know she cares about me and loves me. I lost my job a few months ago, when I had trouble with paying rent she called her parents and they gave me a loan.

She is planning on having a baby via IVF (we are both women). When I asked if she would consider having a baby with me she said "why wouldn't I? But there are pros and cons 1. I know the baby would have a good heart, but I don't like how if feels when we have a disagreement.

She does want me in the baby's life and wants me to be there when she is pregnant. I recently told her I wanted to be in a relationship with her, she replaied that she is not ready for that yet and she wants to feel what it's like to be on her own for a while ( she moved out of a home she shared with her ex in October, they have not been a couple for 2 years)and that I have had time to do that. But she cannot stop me from chosing to see other people if I was really ready to settle down.

She feels that if we committed it would be no different that when we do now, only seeing eaching other, spending weekends at each others places, going on vacation, etc.

Does this mean that see can see us together just not yet, or is this letting me know where I stand and that this is as much as I am going to get?

Thanks for all your input

Our charts are below , this is with both birth times unknown.

I am Taurus

Sun Taurus 4.07
Moon Virgo 16.37
Mercury Aries 7.40
Venus Gemini 18.44
Mars Gemini 18.12
Jupiter Capricorn 8.19
Saturn Gemini 5.17
Uranus Libra 15.31 R
Neptune Sagittarius 4.40 R
Pluto Virgo 29.51 R
Lilith Scorpio 6.42
Asc node Aquarius 0.29

AND HER'S IS ...

Sun Libra 29.36
Moon Virgo 23.35
Mercury Scorpio 23.36
Venus Sagittarius 15.28
Mars Taurus 2.14 R
Jupiter Aquarius 3.16
Saturn Cancer 4.43 R
Uranus Libra 23.49
Neptune Sagittarius 5.50
Pluto Libra 5.16
Lilith Capricorn 7.38
Asc node Capricorn 0.19

I believe she is on the Libra / Scorpio cusp October 23rd...

@Quietst0rm, lol. She can be quite mean when she feels pushed.

I can say she has been very honest with me and I never feel like I'm in the dark concerning anyone in her life.

i am going to try my best to keep moving forward, I strongly believe if it will be it will be.

Yes she is nothing like the other Scorpios's I ahve had relationships with. Usually I knew excatly where I stood with her, it's a guessing game everyday.

Posted by jules4242
Hello, i need some input on what my Scorpio is feeling.

We have been casually "dating" on and off for the last year & half. She has disappeared onb me twice and then return and we pick up where we left off. When we were first dating I would ask if she was seeing anyone else and she would say I have 1 or to friends but you are the only one I am intimate with or spend quality time with. And one time she very seriously told me after not seeing each other for 3 months that she wanted me to know that I get the "real her" when we are together, she feels safe and does not put on and act that it's just natural with us.

Here is where the I get confused, I Know she cares about me and loves me. I lost my job a few months ago, when I had trouble with paying rent she called her parents and they gave me a loan.

She is planning on having a baby via IVF (we are both women). When I asked if she would consider having a baby with me she said "why wouldn't I? But there are pros and cons 1. I know the baby would have a good heart, but I don't like how if feels when we have a disagreement.

She does want me in the baby's life and wants me to be there when she is pregnant. I recently told her I wanted to be in a relationship with her, she replaied that she is not ready for that yet and she wants to feel what it's like to be on her own for a while ( she moved out of a home she shared with her ex in October, they have not been a couple for 2 years)and that I have had time to do that. But she cannot stop me from chosing to see other people if I was really ready to settle down.

She feels that if we committed it would be no different that when we do now, only seeing eaching other, spending weekends at each others places, going on vacation, etc.

Does this mean that see can see us together just not yet, or is this letting me know where I stand and that this is as much as I am going to get?

Thanks for all your input

What you need to tell ( not "suggest to" - but TELL ) this woman is:

"I know you are a smart, capable, independent woman.
But PLANNING to have a child as a single parent is not only FOOLISH but is SHORT-SIGHTED and SELFISH.
There is a REASON that it takes TWO persons to make a child;
- the event one dies prematurely or is rendered disabled and unable to provide.

You are going to make a child who will have your genetic traits
AND

the traits of someone you don't even know - whose IQ and tendency to calmness or ire,
logic and reason or incurable recklessness is unknown to you.

Baby - are you thinking clearly?"

) fuck I hate this forum - I sear Ima kyl sumun if they don't fix the character thing )

@ Scorpiopics,

There are lots of single parents in this world, wheather by choice or other circumstances. And they do a great job.

In case something happens to her she does have a plan she does have help. Ask before you judge,