yup, I think you are right on the money with the lion being the cancer......he was a cowardly lion who was afraid of his own shadow.....sounds like a cancer I know lol
Yes perhaps tough on the outside but gushy and sensitive on the inside.....they put on that tough exterior hoping that no one will figure it out......again if they could only get the courage....and believe in the positive instead of the negative all the time....they might actually get somewhere with love
I will agree whole heartedly with the cowardly lion being the cancer - because, though I don't recall the exact way he put it, the wizard told the lion that he always had the courage.... he just didn't have the confidance in himself to show it. That sounds exactly like a cancer to me.....
yes.....so consense is that the lion is a cancer.....though.. have to love the cancer for trying to put on such a tough show....he pushes people away because he is afraid that if he lets them near they will hurt him.....funny thing is he is only hurting himself and perhaps the one who could love him.....how ironic.....it really is quite sad....you just can't help but love the paradox of the whole thing....
and in the end because of the lack of confidence and not wanting to be hurt makes the wrong choices in love because they are the easy choices and winds up with a love he can't respect or last with......
"he pushes people away because he is afraid that if he lets them near they will hurt him....funny thing is he is only hurting himself and perhaps the one the one who could him....how ironic...."
"and in the end because of the lack of confidence and not wanting to be hurt makes the wrong choices in love because they are the easy choices"
I just thought Id get some input bc the "characters" are so diverse, and u can really see that expressed in the movie...Not only in their characters, but in the real life actors...
The lion being a cancer is really cool though bc in the end he does find the courage after all and yes i agree we do push people away to protect our feelings, bc we so badly really want to show our true selves...🙂 Growth of character and "feeling" around is what can bring the lil crabbies out of those raw hide shells...😛...
"and yes I agree we do push people away to protect our feelings, bc we so badly really want to show our true selves..."
well then.... you boys need to learn how to let someone love you....and not push away the people who really love the "true" you.....FOR who you are, moods and all, and NOT in spite of it.....
Cheeky, yes I do answer messages, short and sweet*, however, I feel like cans push them away bc they really want to see if the other person is truely worthy of our time. If u keep coming back to us even when we push you away we have a "gauge" of what u will potentially be like on a "hooked up" level. Not all situations are like this but for the relationship side of it, it really goes to show what the other perosn is really about. It's a crab's survival instict. How far can we push you before you run off, and that's our way of seeing how much you can handle. It kind of gives us a challenge and security to boot, the best of both worlds... U are such an inquisitive little ram.🙂 U seem to want to know what's truely hiding behind those shells, but then again most all women do😛. I swear as a male can, I kind of feel like I can say that most cans have a bit of Gemimini in them bc we wont show u what we really want and say that we dont really want it..Confusing yes, but in the end it's all about the love bebe... HAPPY EASTER TO ALL 🙂
CanMan this is just a thought and from the opposite view point......if I showed interest and you showed me none.....then perhaps I would think you may not be worthy of my time and not worth the challenge....
Heck I might think wow is this guy dense or into playing games? just from the other perspective.....lol
How do you really break through that especially when both parties are stuborn....or shall I say willful....it sounds so much more positive...
Oh and just from my perspective again.....I don't know about most people....but I don't like being disrespected or dealt in a less than courteous manner....if a cancer keeps pushing away and the person keeps coming back like a puppy dog what does that really say about that persons character.....that they are into taking abuse?
and then if you stand up for yourself.....do you not frighten said crab away?
there must be some sort of classes one can take for this or some sort of medication.....lol
desperately trying to figure you out.....just when we zig you zag.....
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