Worry Warts!

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AnnoyedCancer
@AnnoyedCancer
18 YearsCancer

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Whooo knowss?
See, I have no clue.
Haha, what attracts you to the attached crabby types?
😄
And my step grandmother (cancer) was with my stepgrandfather (aqua) till he died a short while ago.
She, of course, got tierd of him. But he lived for her.
My aqua says he likes it that I don't back down, he says he doesnt like someone he can walk all over.
Whooo knowwsss GB?
Onlyy the manatees know, but they are always sleeping. So you can't ask.
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AnnoyedCancer
@AnnoyedCancer
18 YearsCancer

Comments: 0 · Posts: 327 · Topics: 40
Whooo knowss?
See, I have no clue.
Haha, what attracts you to the attached crabby types?
😄
And my step grandmother (cancer) was with my stepgrandfather (aqua) till he died a short while ago.
She, of course, got tierd of him. But he lived for her.
My aqua says he likes it that I don't back down, he says he doesnt like someone he can walk all over.
Whooo knowwsss GB?
Onlyy the manatees know, but they are always sleeping. So you can't ask.
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Hotgal78
@Hotgal78
18 Years

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"Yeah, whatsup with that, how come cancer(attached) are attracted to aquas(detached), its like setting yourself up to fail."

GB - The reason there is an attraction is because we are opposites and usually opposites attract. Not from an astrology standpoint - Leo is the opposite of Aqua, but we are opposites in that Cancer (attached) can teach/show Aqua about feelings they never knew they could have or even thought of expressing and Aqua (detached) can teach Cancer how to be more logical in their approach to situations/love rather than react initially off of pure emotion.

I dated an Aqua before for 5 years and I can say that I learned so much about him and myself in that relationship. I think that a Cancer/Aqua relationship can work, there just has to be a lot of understanding and maturity on both sides and they have to both respect each other.

While dating him I learned how to be more direct and open with my wants/needs instead of holding them in. Cancers have a tendency to approach issues sideways instead of head on but with him when we would get into debates/discussions/misunderstandings he would want to talk about them rationally even if I was emotional. He was always caring and emotional in his own way so to speak, he just didn't handle emotional reactions well.

In fact Aquas feel very deeply, I just think they often times do not know how to rationalize the feelings.

To them a feeling is not a mathematical equation, solid or something that you can see/touch. I would say that my ex thought in simple terms (like 2+2 ALWAYS equals 4) however when you think of "LOVE" or feelings and the many layers that entail that equation is almost never simple (usually only in fairy tale endings).....The love equation calculated by an Aqua is more like 2+2=5. That would then leave them thinking wtf—??..never, that can't be, not possible, how the hell did that happen??.

Just my thoughts?..Proceed.....