Strange Cancer guy, guess they're all different.

This topic was created in the Cancer forum by AquaSun on Tuesday, July 1, 2008 and has 13 replies.

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@AquaSun
18 Years

So, there is this Cancer guy who lives in my area who is a great guy. REALLY great guy.

Right off the bat, he likes being in relationships and wants to get married young (he said he wants to find a wife while he's in college). He's never been the player type (said he's never had a one night stand, I strongly believe him). He's just overall great. If he wasn't always in relationships and if I was attracted to him, I'd chase him for sure.

Out of curiosity, I did his birth chart. This is what it read:

Sun Cancer 19.44
Moon Gemini 25.57
Mercury Gemini 29.26
Venus Gemini 14.54
Mars Pisces 29.05

I was pretty much speechless. You'd think with all that gemini in his chart he'd be a bit "off". I was honestly dumbfounded.

I just thought I'd share.

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@scorpio978
20 YearsScorpio

oh, i see, that'a tricky one....How well do you know him anyway.....if you don't mind me asking? you know, sometimes there is more to it than we can actually see!!!!and if he has so much gemini in his sign...i wouldn't generalize, try and find out more...

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@AquaSun
18 Years

No GreatBull, we aren't dating. He's just a friend that I've known for almost two years (he lives in the neighborhood and we share the same friends from H.S.).

That's the thing, it's fairly easy to generalize (there's so many other factors other than a birth chart) but the natal chart isn't the ENTIRE picture, just a part of it.

meh, I don't know. He says he's emotionally dependent and always ends up being the one getting dumped. He's turning twenty this month and the longest time he's been single from the age of 16 till now has only been just a few months. He's always been in relationships.

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@Thetis
18 Years1,000+ Posts

Gemini moon here, it's a scatty placement if it's not balanced out with other aspects in the natal chart (praise the lord for my Taurus ascendent) so I'd be wary too.

Emotionally dependent is not something I'd associate typically with a Gemini moon! Venus in Gemini too, I'd say emotionally detached sounds more like it!

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@AnnoyedCancer
19 YearsCancer

Hm, I would say he says all that to BE in relationships.
If your telling me he is always in relationships, then that could be the case.
From what I know, Gemini's are pretty flaky, bouncing from one to the next.
O' course, I could be wrong haha.

I have an aqua moon and a sag rising, I am prettyyy detached. More detached then my aqua.

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@AnnoyedCancer
19 YearsCancer

Hm, I would say he says all that to BE in relationships.
If your telling me he is always in relationships, then that could be the case.
From what I know, Gemini's are pretty flaky, bouncing from one to the next.
O' course, I could be wrong haha.

I have an aqua moon and a sag rising, I am prettyyy detached. More detached then my aqua.

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@Lady_M
20 Years10,000+ Posts

Often times than not your sun sign out ways other placements.

I have a cancer male friend who is in a love/hate relationship with a scorp....its been going on for a few years. He complains EVERYDAY, but will never leave her and in fact is currently planning a wedding. They enjoy being in relationships out of duty...

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@AquaSun
18 Years

"Often times than not your sun sign out ways other placements."

Really? I always wondered this because the cap I know and another cap who lives in the neighborhood are completely different and yet they share the same birthday (same date and year).

My cap is reserved and a bit introverted and the other cap is a womanizing party animal(at least that's the impression he leaves on his myspace page lol). It's bizarre.

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@scorpio978
20 YearsScorpio

AquaSun, no, it is not bizzare, all you need to do is look at his chart.....i sense a lot of air in it by the way you say that he is a party animal....

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@AquaSun
18 Years

They both have IDENTICAL charts (not including the houses/rising).

Sun Cap, Moon Leo, Merc Cap, Venus Aqua, Mars Sag. Yet they both seem different.

I guess I would need their birth time to see the full picture.