Younger Cancer older Leo

Well I have a friend who is a cancer born July 3 and I am a leo female born Aug 8 and I am 6 years older than him I have 3 kids he has none and still lives with is mom but works. Anyway we are currently just sex buddies (which was my suggestion) I feel so stupid for suggesting this because I know that I really do like him. We have been friends since january. We fell out last year around valentines day I guess because I was being too clingly and it scared him off. Well now that we are back friends we have been hanging out again and having the most phenominal sex known to mankind and I have never had sex like that. (maybe because we were stoned idk lol ) anyway, it's very frustrating dealing with him because he can be cold, rude, mean, sweet, caring, and distant all at the same damn time!! I'm tired of this I haven't texted him for two days because I'm trying to see what type of response I'm going to get from him. I don't want to text him or beg him for sex everyday. he knows that I want it and the last couple of times we attempted to get it on it was complications due to communication and him leaving to go smoke weed with another friend who he said was a male friend but I think he was lying because he does still sex his ex and I think he is still in love with her. anyway what should I do I do like him and I want him to know but I just dont think he's ready for the homelife (kids and setling down etc.) I mean he is just 21 and Im 27. Then there are times where he is like I'm lonely or hungry and when I offer to cook for him or him to come chill with me he is reluctant or says things like "we'll see" and "we can't predict the future" I'm guessing because part of it depends on him using his moms car at night or him being too tired after his shifts at work. I really enjoy the sex we have sex all night long (literally) and he wants to do things like put passion marks on my ass and do 69 and I don't think we need to be doing all of that because we aren't in a relationship. so whooooooooo! I got all that out TELL ME WHAT Y'ALL THINK! I don't wanna make a fool of myself because I like him I think it could work but he makes it so damn complicated!

Not certain of the question.

no i can't see a question either but for what it's worth, he's just using you and you set yourself up to be used. the scene has been set and you can't change it now cos you 'like' him. it seems to be all about sex with you and if you're giving off that vibe on a forum, you're probably seeping with the scent from every pore in real. that to a man (boy) who doesn't want commitment is the PERFECT set up.

be realistic though. why would a 21 year old kid want a relationship with a 27 year old young woman who already has 3 kids!?!? to him you represent the cheap alternative to a hooker. sorry to be blunt, but it's true and that's not cos he's a shit who has a bad attitude towards women, it's cos you gave yourself to him on those terms.

Not sure if serious...

crabmoon: well, personally i had a younger man phase for a while and it was definitely my female mid-life crisis, lol. after a time it gets kinda boring though? she'll realise that actually, it's not that flattering to be considered nothing more than a great shag, lol! in fact, you could be anyone to the younger guy most of the time.

we all go through it in some form or another. we need validation of different types at different times in our lives i guess.

i'm so glad i'm uber discrete however, cos it's kinda embarrassing? makes women look desperate.

oh yeah i know age gaps can work out fine...like you say, it's all about maturity.

fact is though irrespective of age difference, you can't just change the terms of a relationship that's purely physical cos you decide you like the other person as the OP is saying. now THAT is immature.

i agree that most women behave differently during the attraction phase than they will when the relationship is established but if it's all about sex and nothing else from the get-go i don't know how you ever get to the essential 'getting to know you' part of building a relationship. specially when most conversations are gonna be post-coital, lol....you damn well say anything then!!

i had a much younger taurus fwb for a bit. he was soooo lovely but i only liked him when we were together and that's cos we had a mutual understanding that it was just 'un diversion'...a bit of fun in other words. when i didn't see him, i didn't even think about him. that was never gonna be a relationship in the making but we still like eachother even though now it's just a fond memory.

his name was salvador which means saviour. i was 3 years out of my marriage when i met him and by GOD, did he save me in the nicest possible way!!! 😛

yeah but jynja, you're actually WITH a younger guy so it's a different situation to the OP's 🙂

yeah, salva was spanish. he was only pocket sized but perfectly in proportion. i was still in the aftermath of a bad marriage breakup to an aries and so salva was just what i needed at that time.

i'm not into FWB at all any more cos i'm ready for luuuurve again 🙂

no i am ready for love but it has to be real and not just infatuation.

i could be able to help you with this coz i m a july 3 born too currently in a sex buddy kinda relationship with a leo girl..(they are so easy). well... b happy with being sex buddies coz like him even i m still hung up n my ex and i will never give up on her in my mind..he just loves your body and u feed his ego...as he must have been dumped by his former gf or no1 really around him to care for rite now like u r. i m not saying he will never love u but he may not mostly coz we love the chase and u seem easy... give up on it if u gt enuf sense rite now... coz we like sex and we like to use people!

krebbsman: what is it with men and their superiority complex over women who they term 'easy'?? i don't personally sleep around and i wouldn't advise another woman to do so either but what gives you the right to make out you're somehow 'better' than your fuck buddy cos she's easy and you're just using her. i suppose she's madly in love with you too cos you're so fucking great. she must be sooooo grateful to you.

KNOB!!

you need to grow the fuck up and learn how to type in something other than text language.

Posted by Crabmoon
^^^^ hahaha you're tricking this board, from your last updates I doubt it but well like Incandescent said in the other thread there is to much to come on this one.
Good luck with that 🙂

Scorp is playing a beautiful control game...I really want to see how this goes. Will the scorp establish her iron control or will the crab wise up and prevail. Watch this space for more drama....😉

Posted by R1g0rM0rT1s
krebbsman: what is it with men and their superiority complex over women who they term 'easy'?? i don't personally sleep around and i wouldn't advise another woman to do so either but what gives you the right to make out you're somehow 'better' than your fuck buddy cos she's easy and you're just using her. i suppose she's madly in love with you too cos you're so fucking great. she must be sooooo grateful to you.

KNOB!!

you need to grow the fuck up and learn how to type in something other than text language.

+ 1 billion. Finer words have never been said...

rigormortis: u need specs— where have i mentioned that i m 'better' than anyone?? maybe u dont sleep around but there are a few women in my experience who do that too..get real! by easy i meant they easily fall for people and are generally multiple dating(atleast in my experience)... cant say that for all leo girls..but whichever i have met have been really easy and that could be a very big turnoff! i m just advising her , you dont like my opinion its fine, but please dont stuff some words in other people mouth which they havent even said! cheers!