After the love ends

I'm just curious, is cappy man totally move on once the relationship ends? Does Cappy man misses their ex gf?
I mean, I saw my friend (he is cappricorn man) he totally deleted his ex-gf from his FB.
If his ex-gf try to rebuild the relationship again, will she succeeded?

I'm asking those question bc I don't want to start any relationship with a cappy man if he still miss his ex-gf. I hv a bad experienced b4 (with taurus man), he used me to forget his ex-gf. Once his ex comes back to him, that Taurus man find a lot of excuses to get away from me. Such terrible experience and I dont want to go thru the same pain again.

Hope to receive feedback from all cappies out there. TQ in advance :-)

I would say it depends on their relationship and what happened to end it. Can go either way.

Be careful. You don't want to be the rebound girl.

I read somewhere that if you've hurt a capricorn, or broken their trust, their will pretty much cut you off.

Personally, I can hate someone as much as I used to love them.

I usually end up as friends with most of my ex'es, but I probably wasn't deeply in love with them to start with. If I didn't stay friends with them and if I did miss any of them, it was the friendship and fun I missed.

Someone I was deeply in love with that betrayed me and really hurt me by abusing my trust (such as my ex-husband)-- well, there's no way they will ever be my friend; maybe a pseudo-friendly acquaintance at the most. But, they will NEVER be part of my inner circle again.

Thank you guys..

He's being nice to me and he even started to open up, sharing his thought and life.
But yeah, due to his ex issue, I'm being reserved until I get clear picture. Being a rebound girl once
has taught me a lot.

If I being reserved like this, will he loss his interest on me? Too many question in my head. It just that I
like this cappy guy..

Im not a cap but I will offer some advice based on what Ive noticed from some of my female cap friends and a cap that I was involved with for the past few months:

For my female cap friends, I noticed that if they invested alot of emotions, feelings and trust into a relationship, then it is VERY hard for them to move on. One of my friends still compares many of the guys she dates to her first love, who expressed that he was no longer interested. She has told me in confidence that she still thinks about him and hopes for the day that they can resolve things yet would never admit this to anyone else face to face in fear of being judged for her feelings (i can totally relate with a cap moon). I can understand this mostly because I know the feeling of being secure or comfortable with someone (it usually takes me a while) and then losing it. I imagine that only finding someone who can offer her more than her first love, will finally get her to move on.

Now with the cap guy I was involved with - he had broke up with his ex last year after an on and off relationship of seven years. I asked him if he wanted to get back with her again and he would always tell me "no - never again". Yet I did notice that he maintained contact with her all of the time and even spent her birthday weekend with her after much persuasion on her part (he had warned me prior that he MAY end up hooking up with her, because SHE most likely wanted it - whatever that means, but then again my cap is super confusing anyway- and when he told me that he did actually hook up, it made me wonder if he was playing a passive role to her expectations or was actually still dealing with feelings for her). I figured caps would be more clean cut with cutting off ties if they were no longer interested but I imagine there was significance to his relationship that allows him to continue being friends with her.

The best thing I can say is just be observant of his actions, his words and of course the subtle messages that he may send about what his intentions are and what he feels about her. Anything that may come up that he doesnt want to readily disclose should be a warning sign on top of the fact that he continues to talk about her and their relationship and even comparing you. The more you get to know him and the more comfortable is, the more these things will pop up (if he is in fact still not over her) Good luck with your situation I know it must feel great! And keep us posted. 🙂

Thnks Racante.. I'll remember your advise. Somehow I relieved after reading your comments. Thnaks again.
Btw, me and the cappy guy will meet again next Tuesday. :-)

I'm not a Cap but I am a sag cusper and I also have venus in Cap.

I like to have a clean break when breaking up. It's either stay strictly as friends or no contact at all. I don't talk or keep in contact with any of my ex's, because I felt at the time it would get messy down the line (wanting to get back together etc) so I ceased contact with them.

I could see me and my aqua bf remaining friends though if we were to break up.

JUST REMEMBER AFTER THE LOVE ENDS THE SEX BEGIANS

OH I AM NOT A CAP BUT WE DON'T GIVE A FUCK WHAT.