Cap speak - translation required

This topic was created in the Capricorn forum by worrier on Wednesday, February 22, 2012 and has 9 replies.

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@worrier
14 Years

What does he mean by the following:

I asked if he liked me
He said I don't not like you—

I asked why he was helping me (try to be less anxious)
He said I don't not want to help you—

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@truecap
14 Years10,000+ Posts

He likes you, but either doesn't like you "like that" or he doesn't know yet if he likes you "like that".

Sounds like just friends for now. Who knows at this point...

Best answer I've got with the information I've got.

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@worrier
14 Years

Not pointless or self pity - just want to understand where he is coming from as he always seems to be deliberately vague. Just want some honesty not BS.

His actions are totally contradictory.

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@truecap
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Posted by worrier
Not pointless or self pity - just want to understand where he is coming from as he always seems to be deliberately vague. Just want some honesty not BS.

His actions are totally contradictory.

Your answers are pretty vague, as well. You haven't provided any examples for us to go on. Sorry to say this, but without more information, I can't help you. I apologize if that sounds rude.

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@worrier
14 Years

Yes, I admit I am being vague but at the moment it isn't possible to go into details

Maybe I will come back here when I can be more open.

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@lildol
16 Years5,000+ Posts

What was the context in which he was helping you— Was it a favor for someone? Maybe an obligation of some sort? These are the sorts of details that would help us (not to mention how long you've known each other and your prior relationship, if any - sorry if I missed a post elsewhere on the matter).

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@Sarah00
14 Years

Posted by worrier
What does he mean by the following:

I asked if he liked me
He said I don't not like you—

I asked why he was helping me (try to be less anxious)
He said I don't not want to help you—

Miss Worrier,

I also involved with cappy guy. My advise is, just be friend with him first. Slowly.. very slowly he will open up with you
if he likes you. They will not say I like you, but you will notice the way he treats you. He'll be very caring. However, sometimes cappy man can be sooo mean. They will ignore you for few days, then come back again to you. Just don't let his behavior effect you emotionally. Be happy and follow the flow (if you also like him). PATIENCE is the key. Don't rush and support his ambitions and dreams.