Is this sign known to be competitive? Wow. I do not know what it is. I have two Cappy friends and it seems like they are always having something to prove. Yes, they are my friends, I love them but it is just this one thing. Both of them seem like they are always trying to compete with me, to the point where I do not know what I'm going to do.
Are capricorns competitve?

I don't know any sexy beast(capricorns)that are like that beyond the intentional games and sports.Are you competitive with them also?They don't mind it if they know your game to play along.Kind of to test themselves and the people they know(what thier capable of doing ,how they handle thing,etc).They are inquizzitive like that as much as scorpios.
No I'm not competitive. What for? None of them are competition to me in any sort of way. I just sit back and I'm me. But it does seem like they feel that I am, or like I'm some type of threat. I don't understand that.

I don't know what to tell ya.The mass of the ones I know are very down to earth and nonegotistical,but there are always the exception to the astrology rule,it should just be seen as they were born during this time of the year.There is an artical in a magizine I just recieved that has an artical on this,that I thought I wouldn't have any use for it,guess it does apperantly.When thier bragging.It says to complement them and tell them your glad thier on your team in a work situation.If they still seem to single you out it says to have a one on one chat with them and tell them while it's great their so driven,thier competitive spirit contrast with your syle.The underline root to unnecessery competetiveness is insecureties so bottem line make sure you complement them and don't get competetive back that would give in to thier game of who's better.

Or it will at the least let them know thier being an ass.
One word for the anwser very over the top.

And what is that Old Jake,I can handle it I promise.

I should say one sentance( Death before defeat.)

Theres an idea whip out some rapiers,challenge her and duel to the death.Swords are cool.
your epee my lov
I see Tiatmet. But giving them complements here and there for nothing...that is just not me. I give credit when credit is due, and that is rarely when it comes to the people I'm dealing with.

I understand that depending on the day and the patiences level I'm willing to have for that person.Other than that I guess just being direct and talking about it might work.Questioning them if it turns out to be what your guts telling you,letting them know they have nothing to worry about being threatened by and that it gets under your skin might work.If not They might have issues that your probaly not qualified(mental issues) to help with or thier vindictive and jealous and not worth the effort.

I understand that,depending on the day and whether im willing to have patience for that particular person.Direct questioning them,if it is correct to what your guts telling you,letting them know theres no reason for it,also im sure it makes you uncertain of thier intentions and whether or not you can trust them,making that clear to them.Or telling whatever you are feeling about it could get them to fess up and back off.If not they might have problems(mentally)that you may not qualified to help with.Or thier really not friends and are just vindictive and jealous=not worth the effort.

I understand that,depends on the day and whether that person is worth my patience and time.Direct questioning without starting a fight(if you want it to work out)if your guts correct,tell them how it makes you feel(uncomfortably most likely) and that there's no reason for it,would most likely be the only way to get it done.If conversation doesn't work,there's really not much more to do then and not worth the time and effort.Vindictiveness,iealousy and insecurities are something that needs mental assistance and emotional support which you may not be schooled and degree qualified to help with.It's not your problem in other words,so after talikng and you find out whats going on,you will have to make a choice whether or not you want to stick around with them or not.

Oh poop,stupid computer it keep doing the error refresh screen thing,then wouldn't show those posts until now that it finally went through.
I have a Capricorn friend who is also trying to outsmart everyone, and if she gets all A's it's like how "HA HA I out-smarted all of you dumb bitches, so there!" 🙂 Okay, she doesn't exactly say that, but it gets to the point where it can be really annoying.
Other than that, every other cap, and Earth sign for that matter are cool, and just down to earth. Until they have something to prove lol...
Other than that, every other cap, and Earth sign for that matter are cool, and just down to earth. Until they have something to prove lol...
hey, that wasn't supposed to be dumb cookie monters! Now I sound retarded. But anyway, you get what I mean. 🙂

you were going for b--ch right
yep, but when I posted that, the moderator fixed that.
Yes, Beautiful. I am a Cap woman and I am extremely competitive -- but never in a mean way. However, I have a hard time even with a Monopoly board game.
LOLOL @ Crimson -- OMG that is SO me -- I just finished a post-undergrad program and I just had to get all As. I don't know what the h-double-hockey-sticks I was trying to prove...I just knew the drive to prove it was unstoppable. I drove my other friends in the program crazy. I sincerely didn't compete with them, but I just had to graduate with all As. And I did. I freely admit I'm a basket case that way. 😉
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