At an impass

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You all know I'm seeing a Fish (well, many have picked up on that anyway 🙂 ).

Sweet as sweet can be... for the most part.

He had to head to his place tonight due to a water leak issue (started tackling it last night), so he can't see me again tonight (I never expect it, he's just usually with me). It's almost as if he feels guilty *rolls eyes* I told him no big deal, not a problem, do what you have to do, I understand, I have my granddaughter anyway. He responds with "I lust you baby, appreciate you, I promise I'll see you tomorrow"... ummmm, oooookkkkkkk, a little weird.

Fish have a way - but, this? "I lust you"? IDK! Just awkward! Maybe it's his Merc in Aqua speaking out of turn?

Sorta makes my gut turn.
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Posted by PVandJellay
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So its the lust thing everyones up in arms about? It doesnt mean he doesnt love her, it means he desires her, who doesnt want to be desired by their partner?! Damn! Lol

It just sounds unromantic the way he put it. I lust you? Um...
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I think its adorable! Whats wrong with lusting after your partner? Would it be preferable for him to be indifferent? At least hes tying to express how he feels versus being one of these mute men 😄
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So its the lust thing everyones up in arms about? It doesnt mean he doesnt love her, it means he desires her, who doesnt want to be desired by their partner?! Damn! Lol

It just sounds unromantic the way he put it. I lust you? Um...



Yes it does,,,,a man can lust after any woman, love goes much deeper...I would not be happy with that oommenf if I was in a r.ship with a man
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I always respect what you say but in this case does it denote he doesnt love her?
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@Kitten: Yes, I do have him almost every night in my bed or I'm in his (not typically sexual though - he does insist we kiss before lights out though LOL).

@LOR: His merc is in Aqua NOT Aries (Venus is in Aries though). And, no, it was verbal not texted.

@PVJ: Yeah, right? Weird! (not the first time he's used it either! Last time was when we had a spat - well he was irritated at me anyway, I made a wrong turn on the way to pick him up and was late - and he said he lusted me and wasn't breaking up with me over it - more like "I lust you, I lust you, I lust you, I'm not going to break up with you") :/ Oh, and hell no on the Libra Moon, I'm a Gem Mooner and only water I have is Mars in Scorp.

@Sam: erm, maybe, or maybe not. I'm sure the shiny has worn off by now LOL

@star: Hey old friend! No! I'd die!! We've only been together for a month and a half. I teased him one night that he did though - just to get his goat (his Moon is in Cap so pun absolutely intended LOL)
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I'm just so jelly. WHAT I WOULD HAVE GIVEN to spend every night with my pisces, my gosh you are so lucky. ughhh

Lucky— Oh, trust me, took a little getting used to - I was feeling a bit overwhelmed in the beginning with him wanting to spend time with me on a daily basis, then we started staying the night together EVERY night. I do love having a warm body next to me and the security I feel with him beside me, but, I certainly don't mind when he goes home on occasion either LOL (doesn't mean I care any less for him).
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Posted by cowpuncher

For the water leak problem - you never wanna transport them in the cheapo wal mart tanks. They're poorly sealed chinese made junk. For transport use a good sized rubbermaid tub, and at either location have a properly well made aquarium, well sealed, made of tempered glass or really good acrylic. Proper transport and housing of a fish is not something you can really cheap out on in the long run.



I think the tank is holding thus far... or maybe it's the line I have him on, it's of the highest quality with good strong staying power 😉
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I'm just so jelly. WHAT I WOULD HAVE GIVEN to spend every night with my pisces, my gosh you are so lucky. ughhh

Lucky— Oh, trust me, took a little getting used to - I was feeling a bit overwhelmed in the beginning with him wanting to spend time with me on a daily basis, then we started staying the night together EVERY night. I do love having a warm body next to me and the security I feel with him beside me, but, I certainly don't mind when he goes home on occasion either LOL (doesn't mean I care any less for him).
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yes lucky because i wanted that with one and couldn't have it 😢 anywho, i love to cuddle all night but i need my space in the day 🙂 you are a dec 23 cappy like creepy and i right?
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@Kitten: Yes, I do have him almost every night in my bed or I'm in his (not typically sexual though - he does insist we kiss before lights out though LOL).

@LOR: His merc is in Aqua NOT Aries (Venus is in Aries though). And, no, it was verbal not texted.

@PVJ: Yeah, right? Weird! (not the first time he's used it either! Last time was when we had a spat - well he was irritated at me anyway, I made a wrong turn on the way to pick him up and was late - and he said he lusted me and wasn't breaking up with me over it - more like "I lust you, I lust you, I lust you, I'm not going to break up with you") :/ Oh, and hell no on the Libra Moon, I'm a Gem Mooner and only water I have is Mars in Scorp.

@Sam: erm, maybe, or maybe not. I'm sure the shiny has worn off by now LOL

@star: Hey old friend! No! I'd die!! We've only been together for a month and a half. I teased him one night that he did though - just to get his goat (his Moon is in Cap so pun absolutely intended LOL)



Hahhaha! LOL! Im Venus in Aries too!!! I TOLD YOU WHAT HE SAID IS SO TYPICAL ME!!! Im sooo rolling on the flooors right now!
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Well, well... half way home (he's about 45 min from me) he get's a phone call about a friend in the hosp so he headed back to visit. I live near the hospital, so guess who surprised me! (no, I don't mind) He's too tired to head all the way back home now I guess 🙂 (poor me, having to suffer with a hot, sexy body in bed next to me *sigh*)

So, he gets here and looks around and asks "Is your boyfriend here?" In all seriousness I said "Yup, he just got here" LOL We somehow got on some convo along the same lines a bit later and I said "Oh, you'd never catch me" Him: "Yes I would" Me: "Not with a man" His eyes widened and said "With a woman?" I laughed and gave him a mischievous look - nothing like keeping a man on his toes LMAO
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Well, well... half way home (he's about 45 min from me) he get's a phone call about a friend in the hosp so he headed back to visit. I live near the hospital, so guess who surprised me! (no, I don't mind) He's too tired to head all the way back home now I guess 🙂 (poor me, having to suffer with a hot, sexy body in bed next to me *sigh*)

So, he gets here and looks around and asks "Is your boyfriend here?" In all seriousness I said "Yup, he just got here" LOL We somehow got on some convo along the same lines a bit later and I said "Oh, you'd never catch me" Him: "Yes I would" Me: "Not with a man" His eyes widened and said "With a woman?" I laughed and gave him a mischievous look - nothing like keeping a man on his toes LMAO



Omg! I love the chemistry! Thumbs up!!
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Confirmation of the water leak? You're right, maybe it is non-existent... and maybe he didn't go to the DMV yesterday, maybe he didn't go see his lawyer, maybe his mother didn't call him earlier in the day, maybe he really didn't go to the hospital, maybe his friend (actually the mother of his friend) doesn't only have 6 mo - a year to live, maybe he's not really going to build a ramp for said friend this weekend at the mother's house at the beach, maybe he really didn't have to be at work early this morning, maybe he doesn't mean it when he tells his friends and family he's smitten and I'm not going anywhere anytime soon (until I'm 45 at least LOL) - maybe, just maybe...

As for the BF comment, I would be remiss if I said "No" when he's standing right in front of me 😉
My gut tells me anything other than an affirmative response would get me "I'll see you later then"
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Haha Shaks!

Right, LS? I was waiting for it, it was inevitable someone would go there and thanks he seems to like my humor!! I find that Pisces tend to be a little suspicious in relationships, so there probably was some sort of something behind the BF comment (not the first time he's made such references). Or, maybe it is simply that he wanted validation. Like I said, if I had responded with anything other than an affirmative answer he would have probably felt a little slighted.
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Went and rescued him - he ran out of gas a few blocks shy of the station right around the corner from my house (his gauge isn't working) - in the car I got another "I lust you babe, thank you" I laughed at him and threw it back saying "I lust you too" - maybe it registered how tacky and awkward that sounds. He texted me after and said "thank you love" Hopefully the "lust you" comments simply become running joke now...
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Hmmmm... rather than starting a new thread... something came up today about him hitting on me back in like Mar or Apr, I reminded him he had a woman I wasn't going there. I also told him it worried me a little, given the fact he hit on me while he was in a relationship and what's to say he wouldn't do the same to me. He responded with she was pushing him away and that I don't therefore I have nothing to worry about.

(Dare I ask) Your thoughts?
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Hmmmm... rather than starting a new thread... something came up today about him hitting on me back in like Mar or Apr, I reminded him he had a woman I wasn't going there. I also told him it worried me a little, given the fact he hit on me while he was in a relationship and what's to say he wouldn't do the same to me. He responded with she was pushing him away and that I don't therefore I have nothing to worry about.

(Dare I ask) Your thoughts?



I am going to ring your neck lildoll!!! Do not capricorn self sabatoge this relationship do not put stuff thats not there!! Ughhhhb
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Nah, not sabotaging... we joked about it, about me being the opposite trying to pull him closer and he trying to pull away (he said it keeps things interesting :/).

AND please, not a complaint! Didn't even come across as such!

Don't think I have too much to worry about anyway with a guy who checks in with me all the time (well, the other night he didn't, I didn't really say anything when he got home other than get your clothes off I've been waiting for you so I can do laundry - since then he's even more so about letting me know what's up LOL)

As for my post, I was just throwing it out there to see what people thought (simply wasn't worthy of a new thread)...