Capricorn and Pisces good match or not?

This topic was created in the Capricorn forum by Justcap66 on Thursday, November 6, 2014 and has 11 replies.

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@Justcap66
12 YearsCapricorn

Me and my boyfriend,we are very long time together.But we also have in our relationship fights...like almost every day.I don't like fighting,when i say something he says that oh you'r lying.
But i'm not.why he judge me like this? why he thinks that he's perfect? cuz nobody's perfect

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@CapTenn
12 Years1,000+ PostsCapricorn

It could just be communication issues.

I've uttered to a few mates over the years, "You are a liar."

Generally, when I was being mischaracterized by them, or they were putting words in my mouth.

The chasm that exists between male communication, and female communication, never ceases to amaze me.

What is said, and what is heard, is rarely ever the same thing (males to females and vice versa)

I would estimate that at least 80% of my arguments with women in my lifetime have been total misunderstandings due to style of communication.

Man: I want a beer. (translation: he wants a beer)

Woman thinking: Damn, do I bore him so much that he needs to get drunk to be around me? Is it over between us? OMG, how did this happen?

πŸ™‚

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@lisabethur8
14 Years50,000+ Posts

Posted by Curiousram

Posted by truecap
I think it's a defense mechanism.

Or projection of his misdeeds onto you.

No trust = no relationship.

EXACTLY, my cap step father would tell my mom all the time that shes lying or cheating on him. Turns out he was cheating on her. def 100% spot on

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Amen.

if no trust, no relationship. Can't even get past the door.

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@aquapiscescusp
14 Years10,000+ Posts

Posted by Justcap66
Me and my boyfriend,we are very long time together.But we also have in our relationship fights...like almost every day.I don't like fighting,when i say something he says that oh you'r lying.
But i'm not.why he judge me like this? why he thinks that he's perfect? cuz nobody's perfect

Did you ever stop to think he is lying?

Dig, you might find some interesting things.

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@truecap
14 Years10,000+ Posts

Posted by CapTenn
Man: I want a beer. (translation: he wants a beer)

Woman thinking: Damn, do I bore him so much that he needs to get drunk to be around me? Is it over between us? OMG, how did this happen?

πŸ™‚

You guys need a redneck girl! Not only would we go get you the beer, we'd also fetch some pork rinds and sit down and drink one with you!

πŸ˜„

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@truecap
14 Years10,000+ Posts

Posted by NotYourAverageAquarius
^^ Yeah man so many silly misunderstandings...

I think it's almost more beneficial to say as little as possible around a female because you never know how they are gonna take what you say.

Because women over think it and read too much into it. If women would only learn to take things literally, like a man does, the world would be a much happier place.

I'm trying. It's hard not to overthink, but I'm trying.

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@LunarMaiden
14 Years5,000+ Posts

Cap and Pis does work but not without some thinking before you act and speak involved.
The Fish can pick at their partner. The Goat lets it roll off until it builds up.

Speak your mind and be very sincere and in control of your thoughts when you do it.

But there are some things that just need to be ignored.

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12 Years1,000+ Posts

Posted by CapTenn
It could just be communication issues.

I've uttered to a few mates over the years, "You are a liar."

Generally, when I was being mischaracterized by them, or they were putting words in my mouth.

The chasm that exists between male communication, and female communication, never ceases to amaze me.

What is said, and what is heard, is rarely ever the same thing (males to females and vice versa)

I would estimate that at least 80% of my arguments with women in my lifetime have been total misunderstandings due to style of communication.

Man: I want a beer. (translation: he wants a beer)

Woman thinking: Damn, do I bore him so much that he needs to get drunk to be around me? Is it over between us? OMG, how did this happen?

πŸ™‚

OMG, you mean I've misinterpreted, "I want a beer" all this time?!!!!

I just can't believe it!

Thanks for seeing me straight CT. πŸ˜‰

LOL.