Being Faithful

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capricorn man and woman, mostly nen seem to have a problem being faithful. I have dated several capricorn men in the past only two seriously, one he was a major flirt which use to pissed me off and I am not sure if he ever cheated we just broke up because I think he was cheating and i started cheating on him and I then just broke it off, the other I know he cheated on his girlfriend with me ofcourse i found out later, then he tried to date both of us (don't think so) now all this occur in my 20's with those guys so maybe it is a maturity thing. I am still friends with both and they still try to pull that I still love you stuff capricorn men are so persistent. now i have a friend who i attended grade school with we are friends on facebook i know he is engaged and has children, but why is he constantly flirting with me and trying to take me out and he also says nasty comments, it just seen like they are unfaithful people in a relationship.
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well, i for one have never cheated on my partner and am not promiscuous at all - i save it for a committed relationship....so please don't lump us all into the category of unfaithful or whores, etc.

i personally think that if a capricorn cheats on you (i know many cappy men) it is because they are so very insecure and if they cheat on you in the beginning of the relationship it's because they could be scared that they are more invested in you than visa versa and are scared of getting hurt....if they cheat on you during the relationship, it's due to them constantly seeking reassurance because of their insecurity. not justifying it at all....just my take on some behavior but i'm sure that could be said of any sign, yes?

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yes I have a girl cousin who is a cappy, I love her to deaf but she is very loose. she was married and had 3 kids with her husband we thought, it all came out that two of the three might not be his, and we thought she was so like suzy homemaker she obviously was getting it on and cheating on her husband they are now divorce and she is back to her wild ways. We went out last night she just met a guy a week ago and she telling us all about their wild sex I am like slow down she moves entirely too fast with too many men. I am not judging all cappy just mostly the ones I know are just downright unfaithful and loose.
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As a cap male I must say...


Wouldnt do it nowadays, but I feel like cheating when my other fails to see reason, cant take constructive criticism even if its laid down softly, turns her head alot when we're in the mall or out, casually makes her way over to a nice looking male in retail and pretend to be interested in a rack of clothing thats not her style , just to, lift her head up and take glances of her interest,is an obvious flirt, lets male colleagues or friends keep their hand or arm around the small of her back and doesnt check it, doesnt let me apologize even for simple little things like not putting a dishrag to the left of the sink instead of the right, start some shit over it, every argument she starts is skillfully set up for her to have an excuse to go out to club with friends even when shes already allowed too anyway, is loud and obnoxious in public places so everybody can hear EVERYTHING we talk about, accuse you of stuff bc shes the one doing it but shes trying to find out if her feelings were right to begin with, cant tell her nothin, dont remember any details of MOST arguments, calls every man she knows baby and sweetie, the one-way street is classic and 2nd-hand nature to her, she'll argue you down for 5 hours until she has no other legs to stand on, only to, in the end admit she f*&^% $ up and then cry to get guilt-trip going, then use that as an excuse not to be together bc she wants to go galavantin, cant handle her alcohol, and theres more.....but the SEX is off-the wall spectacular.

All this and more really put me in a funk where I just didnt give a hell what they did. It was all just highly emotional, extreme, dramatized with theatrics, unreasonable, unstable, stressful, doing too much bc of their insecurities, to which, I swear to you they all admitted to me. Honestly now I simply dont give a damn. As a cap its harrowing to go through this. Its to the point now that even if I DO have the right answer or advice for her, Ill still let her slip and fall on a wet floor, even if it does hurt another aspect of the relationship bc to say something like you know what youre talking about is taken as SHE doesnt or is inferior. Its just too much. So instead of being damned if I do, I just be damned if I dont, pretend to be not up to speed etc. Only way I could get some peace.

"youre crazy b*&^% but you f*&* so good Im on top of it....."


Not generalizing all women
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This is what really got me.

I would get up to go to work every morning at 6. Work every damn day.

Even started (and still maintain) an internet business. Still going to work every day too.

Wouldnt just cook sometimes, but would always help cook and help clean up afterwards, always

Dont go NOWHERE after work, come straight home and flirt with her till her toes curled.

Slap her on the ass and kissed her as soon as I came in the door or wherever she was at the time.

Chase her around the house often. Wouldnt go anywhere without her unless she wanted like that. And we both understood time to self, that wasnt a problem. But it did get to a point where I couldnt go visit family for more than 2 or three hours bc she'd get needy.

Take her out to eat when I thought she wanted to, not when she asked everytime bc it aint like that and never will be.


This trifling heifer kept LOSING jobs and getting on unemployment, sitten at home all day chiefin trees and drinking beer or wine and playin computer games on the laptop.

Trifling banshee had the nerve to have a Philly hustla over while I was working. Told me about it, said it was nothing. I checked it told her and him not to be over at my damn house unless im there, and I didnt care as long as IM home bc, ya'll are inappropriate on this.

Im still pulling mine and hers ends at this time, and she lets this fake sucka turn on a Plies cd and pretend to cry over religion and pretend to be church-going.

Hook, line, and sinker.....Even though we would read the bible everyday together inside or OUT in the garage, every afternoon, night, whenever, every YEAR. And we'd go to church. And we'd listen to 106.9 The Light....

She comes home one night after convincing her old manager at Fatz to let her work a little. Comes home and gets rid of me.

The stuff that happened afterward, after I just didnt say a word and left, was LEGENDARY. Wont go into that though.

She gets pregnant by this fool. This fool has no job, charges pending, a girlfriend, no whip,. They get an apt. and the sucka leaves her shortly there after. This person was taller than me, and played a Plies cd. BTW the trifling girl had a 10 yr old Id been modeling for since he was six.

She was a Cancer. Funny how we had chemistry to die for in the beginning. She thanked me on occasion during our relationship for NOT letting her run over me, and that every other guy had. I still dont care.

Good guy.......
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@Gotgoatmilk, thankyou for the correction. Super Cap you seem like a good guy and defintely an exception to Cappy being unfaithful, I would like to make it clear that I defintely would not say all Cappy are unfaithful. I just wanted to ask the cappy on here how they view this topic or what were others experience with capricorns and being faithful. I believe every sign has unfaithful people I just seem to encounter this sign a lot when it comes to this subject.
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" thus, when they do what they believe nothing wrong they can appear non-apologetic regardless how others view them"

I think that exactly how it is. We haver our own strong beliefs and we never get carried away. You will not see cap girls cheating coz of any temptation. They would have their own strong reasons to cheat and that reason no body else would know but only them.

So far i have never cheated anyone and i dont think i ever would coz for me what i am inside matters the most and if i cheat i would not like the person inside me. Thats my belief but at the same time i know what could have lead to me do that(in past) ie only being with a wrong person who doesnt give me the place i want. It would be like punishing the other for not treating me right. The thing with cap girls is that we are very sensitive inside(which is not very evident) and our emotions come out in the form of anger and anger sometimes leads to revenge for some. I dont think the reason some cap girls cheat would be getting carried aways coz most of us are very much in control of our emotions and beside its very difficult to tempt us.

As for cap guys i dont know their reasons but even i have noticed that they lack the strength of character(may be not all but the cap guys i have come across). Their reason could be the amount of attention these guys get. They dont even have to try much to make girls fall for them. Its quite evident from posts on cap board. They get girls so easily.
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Posted by LadyScorpioNov
capricorn man and woman, mostly nen seem to have a problem being faithful. I have dated several capricorn men in the past only two seriously, one he was a major flirt which use to pissed me off and I am not sure if he ever cheated we just broke up because I think he was cheating and i started cheating on him and I then just broke it off, the other I know he cheated on his girlfriend with me ofcourse i found out later, then he tried to date both of us (don't think so) now all this occur in my 20's with those guys so maybe it is a maturity thing. I am still friends with both and they still try to pull that I still love you stuff capricorn men are so persistent. now i have a friend who i attended grade school with we are friends on facebook i know he is engaged and has children, but why is he constantly flirting with me and trying to take me out and he also says nasty comments, it just seen like they are unfaithful people in a relationship.



Not true, not true, not true! Please don't like the Tiger Woods saga be the determining factor for cap guys either ^_^.

As a capricorn woman, I am faithful to the core. However, I have a very airy persona, so I do believe its important to know your options as well. Only because every relationship you enter is not meant to last forever.
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Posted by buttercupSG
it's not about being rightous. it's about how you value and perceive yourself. if i find certain behavior low life i would not do it in any circustances especially when i was pissed off because i am not a low life lol. i'd just leave the low life with other low lives and go my merry way lol. in a way i'm arrogant i only want to be surrounded by ppl i respect and respect me.



I tend to be that way, I'll admit that. I like to be surrounded by those I respect and those that respect me in return. Also, once I'm done with someone, until I can get over whatever deal I have with them.
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Posted by SuperCap
As a cap male I must say...


Wouldnt do it nowadays, but I feel like cheating when my other fails to see reason, cant take constructive criticism even if its laid down softly, turns her head alot when we're in the mall or out, casually makes her way over to a nice looking male in retail and pretend to be interested in a rack of clothing thats not her style , just to, lift her head up and take glances of her interest,is an obvious flirt, lets male colleagues or friends keep their hand or arm around the small of her back and doesnt check it, doesnt let me apologize even for simple little things like not putting a dishrag to the left of the sink instead of the right, start some shit over it, every argument she starts is skillfully set up for her to have an excuse to go out to club with friends even when shes already allowed too anyway, is loud and obnoxious in public places so everybody can hear EVERYTHING we talk about, accuse you of stuff bc shes the one doing it but shes trying to find out if her feelings were right to begin with, cant tell her nothin, dont remember any details of MOST arguments, calls every man she knows baby and sweetie, the one-way street is classic and 2nd-hand nature to her, she'll argue you down for 5 hours until she has no other legs to stand on, only to, in the end admit she f*&^% $ up and then cry to get guilt-trip going, then use that as an excuse not to be together bc she wants to go galavantin, cant handle her alcohol, and theres more.....but the SEX is off-the wall spectacular.

All this and more really put me in a funk where I just didnt give a hell what they did. It was all just highly emotional, extreme, dramatized with theatrics, unreasonable, unstable, stressful, doing too much bc of their insecurities, to which, I swear to you they all admitted to me. Honestly now I simply dont give a damn. As a cap its harrowing to go through this. Its to the point now that even if I DO have the right answer or advice for her, Ill still let her slip and fall on a wet floor, even if it does hurt another aspect of the relationship bc to say something like you know what youre talking about is taken as SHE doesnt or is inferior. Its just too much. So instead of being damned if I do, I just be damned if I dont, pretend to be not up to speed etc. Only way I could get some peace.

"youre crazy b*&^% but you f*&* so good Im on top of
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Posted by LadyScorpioNov
capricorn man and woman, mostly nen seem to have a problem being faithful. -snip-



-shrug- In my experience, all the Cappys I know are weird about sex... they don't like to talk about it, don't like to joke about it... My Cappy brother has been happily married to his HS sweetheart for like... 20 years and has never strayed. My Cappy friend has told me he did some wild things as a young man.. but didn't go into details like most male friends would. I highly doubt he has been messing around on his wife... tho he has ample chance to... she never checks up on him and he can come and go as he pleases... but then, all she thinks about is horses, lol. The Cappy women I've known have been... not very sexy... or I've just had bad luck with the three I've dated. The first two took so long to make up their minds about sex, that we broke up because of it... like two months and still don't know if they're ready— The third made up her mind after three weeks... but was a dud in bed. I bet your problem is more related to the age of the Cappys in question, and has less to do with their signs. Everyone in their teens and early twenties are experimenting and trying to find out who they are, as well as dealing with those raging hormones of youth...
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The Cappy women I've known have been... not very sexy... or I've just had bad luck with the three I've dated. The first two took so long to make up their minds about sex, that we broke up because of it... like two months and still don't know if they're ready— The third made up her mind after three weeks... but was a dud in bed.

Yeah, it was TOTALLY the cap women you dated.

Yep, I will help you second that ^_^.
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Posted by scorpio_chic
LOL Tiger Woods is a capricorn.. that blew my mind. -snip-



Well, anyone in Tigers position could have been as easily corrupted. Like the old saying goes "Power corrupts and absolute power corrupts absolutely". He is SO rich, and SO famous, ... that kind of thing happens to guys like him all the time. If he was an average dude.. making under $ 50k a year, working an average job... I doubt he have been flying all over without his wife and kids, away for days at a time just hanging with highroller friends... you know?
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I can think of four Caps I know off the top of my head, and every single one of them cheats when they feel like it, including the two females. Not in a "OMG I was just so tempted by this hottie I couldn't help myself!" sort of way. More of a, "Well, my partner has failed me somehow, but I don't think it's time to end it yet, too messy right now. So I don't feel guilty for cheating; my partner knows we're having troubles anyway. My partner still gets 90% of me, and I can't see leaving until I have something practical worked out for it."

Do I think EVERY Cap is a cheater? No, I still think it's on the individual morals and standards, NOT their Sun Sign. But I agree with the one who presented the scenario that if the Cap feels it was a sound, careful decision to cheat (and justified in some way), they aren't guilty or remorseful for it.
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Posted by SuperCap
.....almost turned bad guy..



Wow...SuperCap...you sound like the real deal. So sorry!

You know I know a couple..friends of mine....Cancer girl and Cap guy and she is CRAZY....officially bipolar and manipulative. He also sticks around for the sex and their kid. What could possibly attract you to a Cancer? All the Cancers I know are sweet but they are so whiny and manipulative. Downright depressing? Caps I know are sweet but can't handle drama......but seem to attract these kinds of relationships. Just curious cause you seem like such a smart guy; too smart for that shit.
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Posted by SuperCap
This is what really got me.

I would get up to go to work every morning at 6. Work every damn day.

Even started (and still maintain) an internet business. Still going to work every day too.

Wouldnt just cook sometimes, but would always help cook and help clean up afterwards, always

Dont go NOWHERE after work, come straight home and flirt with her till her toes curled.

Slap her on the ass and kissed her as soon as I came in the door or wherever she was at the time.

Chase her around the house often. Wouldnt go anywhere without her unless she wanted like that. And we both understood time to self, that wasnt a problem. But it did get to a point where I couldnt go visit family for more than 2 or three hours bc she'd get needy.

Take her out to eat when I thought she wanted to, not when she asked everytime bc it aint like that and never will be.


This trifling heifer kept LOSING jobs and getting on unemployment, sitten at home all day chiefin trees and drinking beer or wine and playin computer games on the laptop.

Trifling banshee had the nerve to have a Philly hustla over while I was working. Told me about it, said it was nothing. I checked it told her and him not to be over at my damn house unless im there, and I didnt care as long as IM home bc, ya'll are inappropriate on this.

Im still pulling mine and hers ends at this time, and she lets this fake sucka turn on a Plies cd and pretend to cry over religion and pretend to be church-going.

Hook, line, and sinker.....Even though we would read the bible everyday together inside or OUT in the garage, every afternoon, night, whenever, every YEAR. And we'd go to church. And we'd listen to 106.9 The Light....

She comes home one night after convincing her old manager at Fatz to let her work a little. Comes home and gets rid of me.

The stuff that happened afterward, after I just didnt say a word and left, was LEGENDARY. Wont go into that though.

She gets pregnant by this fool. This fool has no job, charges pending, a girlfriend, no whip,. They get an apt. and the sucka leaves her shortly there after. This person was taller than me, and played a Plies cd. BTW the trifling girl had a 10 yr old Id been modeling for since he was six.

She was a Cancer. Funny how we had chemistry to die for in the beginning. She thanked me on occasion during our relationship for NOT letting
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Didnt know this thread was bumpin like this in here!!

She taught me a thing or two. Opened me up too. She was cool at first Astro, but lost it somewhere along the way or either she resurfaced and was tired of pretending to be something else. She lead me to Christ in several ways. She took up for me when I wouldnt at restaurantes when the food was cold. She loved to take care of me. Loved her son to no end. I learned how to be a Cancer from her too bad she was crazy. I feel as if I owe her the positive things about herself on this board. She was exactly my opposite and it was heaven and hell at the same time. Quite an experience. Thanks for the compliments Astro🙂

I'll bet those eyes are pretty pretty when they roll .sb.🙂

To CancerCarmen......salud
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I can think of four Caps I know off the top of my head, and every single one of them cheats when they feel like it, including the two females. Not in a "OMG I was just so tempted by this hottie I couldn't help myself!" sort of way. More of a, "Well, my partner has failed me somehow, but I don't think it's time to end it yet, too messy right now. So I don't feel guilty for cheating; my partner knows we're having troubles anyway. My partner still gets 90% of me, and I can't see leaving until I have something practical worked out for it."

Do I think EVERY Cap is a cheater? No, I still think it's on the individual morals and standards, NOT their Sun Sign. But I agree with the one who presented the scenario that if the Cap feels it was a sound, careful decision to cheat (and justified in some way), they aren't guilty or remorseful for it.



See, this here shows that caps are different -- like with other signs. If I want somebody else, I don't stay with the person I'm with. I haven't done it in the past and I don't see myself doing this in the future.


But you know what?

It seems as if .. when you are the one breaking up with someone, for all the right reasons -- like losing interesting, wanting someone else, seeing that the relationships isn't going anywhere -- those kind of reasons, it seems as if people still look at you in a negative light.

Its almost like people make it seem as if cheating is the right thing to do because if you break up with someone to prevent the whole cheating thing from happening, you are still viewed as an ass lol. Although you didn't cheat on them ... you just broke up with them.



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Posted by SuperCap
Didnt know this thread was bumpin like this in here!!

She taught me a thing or two. Opened me up too. She was cool at first Astro, but lost it somewhere along the way or either she resurfaced and was tired of pretending to be something else. She lead me to Christ in several ways. She took up for me when I wouldnt at restaurantes when the food was cold. She loved to take care of me. Loved her son to no end. I learned how to be a Cancer from her too bad she was crazy. I feel as if I owe her the positive things about herself on this board. She was exactly my opposite and it was heaven and hell at the same time. Quite an experience. Thanks for the compliments Astro🙂

I'll bet those eyes are pretty pretty when they roll .sb.🙂

To CancerCarmen......salud




I've had experience with two cancer guys -- one was better than the other one. So yeah, I know what you mean. One was a gemini-cancer cuspy, my Exact opposite. I will say, that if I had met him the way he is now, things could work, but I didn't, the history I have with him is before he matured. The other was a third decan cancer, he had anger issues and he pushed too hard but all in all I think he still a cool guy -- the demise of that relationship was completely my fault, yes that was all my fault.
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Posted by cappysweetie
But I don't care 🙂

I rather be an ass and break up with someone because I know its the right thing to do, than be in a relationship that I don't to be in ... with the possibility of cheating.

Yep, I'm sticking to my guns on this one.



Sweetie you took the words right out of my mouth. It really is the right thing to do. Cheating is something I really don't understand.