Bonding with a Capricorn.

Profile picture of Dreamy-Eyez
Dreamy-Eyez
@Dreamy-Eyez
20 Years

Comments: 0 · Posts: 460 · Topics: 67
Hey Ya'll,
Even though, I've bonded with a Sagittarius. I've recently given him space because a job position has been a bit of a downer for him.He gave me a heads up to let me know that he was going to get a little weird. Sure enough, he did and I'm backing off so that my sensitivity won't take it the wrong way. Just as I backed off, I'm now developing a friendship with a Capricorn guy. He's pretty tall and as I'm horse playing at work, he's usually right along with me or chasing after me. I don't know, this just came along right before I came to realize what was happening. I feel like he's there for me because he invited me over to his house numerous times and whenever something is bothering me, it's like he knows, then he'll encourage me to talk about it. Of course, I usually seek gentle understanding from friends, but I wasn't really looking for it. At work, he's cool, confident and comes of as a know it all, but outside of work, he's more sensitive and understanding than I may have realized. Last night, he called me just as I was driving home from work, and he told me to come on over and hangout. I was very close to home and changed my clothes, then went over to his house. All of this just happened way before I even realized that I'm bonding. I'm terribly concerned because I'm gay and I really don't want to tell him that. Mentally, we connect and now we're really starting to bond. I just want to run away now. (Sigh.)
Profile picture of cappysweetie
cappysweetie
@cappysweetie
19 Years10,000+ Posts

Comments: 2 · Posts: 23862 · Topics: 499
"At work, he's cool, confident and comes of as a know it all, but outside of work, he's more sensitive and understanding than I may have realized."

Yep, thats very capricorn -- especially when it comes to the males. LOL

I think you are worried that if he found out you were gay, then he wouldn't want to hangout anymore and you seem to enjoy his company. This is my advice -- he doesn't have to know anything. Just continue to form a friendship with him and then poke his brain alittle to see whether or not he has some prejudice inside him -- being a capricorn, lets hope not!

Hey, theres a guy at work that I simply adore, but well I tell him? Oh heavens no! Why? Because I don't feel the time is right and I feel that things will become really strange if I were to put myself out there.

I'm not saying that you like the guy (I was just using myself as an example. But if you want to be friends, you don't have to tell him everything about yourself IF you are uncomfortable revealing it.
Profile picture of Dreamy-Eyez
Dreamy-Eyez
@Dreamy-Eyez
20 Years

Comments: 0 · Posts: 460 · Topics: 67
Cappiesweetie,
Thanks. I guess I don't have to tell him everything, because i'm not comfortable telling him about my sexuality. We're friends and I enjoy his company, but I don't necessarily want him as a love interest, neither do I want him getting any ideas in thinking that was a possible motive if he knew, you know? It's just that he's been pretty awesome this past week. With my Sagittarius friend (Jesse) being kind of spaced out from a new job position, I've basically had the Capricorn to turn to.I never expected to begin bonding like that and I definitely don't want to open up too much. -Dreamy-