Capricorns=Avengers?

I was reading this book and it said Capricorns can be successful only then, when they avenge themselves from people.

Do you relate to that?

"Avenge themselves from people? In what sense?"

In sense that they damage people.

The weakness of Capricorns is comes out when they forgive people.

Why no?

From my personal experience, I can understand why this has to be this way.

"haffo have you had a bad experience with a cap recently?"

Yes. My Cap cousin. The one who got along great with me. You will say "why she got bad with you when she was great with you". I hope I could know. She says some stupid things and I do not agree with it. Maybe she's just young...but I think this is not because of this. This is her character.

"How is that avenging haffo?"

She refused to greet me when I went to them. Mind you, it was my first time I saw her in my life, and she refused to even greet me. As if I'm unwelcome person there. The reason she says is this: "I like people who deal with rock music. Whatever they say they are right. You are not one of them, so anything you say you are wrong." I did disagree with this, and taking rock people as granted for everything is way too shallow for a person. She refused to take a step back. It's stupid what she did, but I'm not in power of changing her mind. She also has family problems, not just me. I think she avenges me because I didn't reply to her sms messages for quite too long. She was coming to strong on me and sending about 20 messages per day. Sorry, but I cannot afford so much time and money for this all. I have told that to her when this problem has become serious for the first time, and she agreed. But then, she suddenly took it as irresponsibility, which I corrected as wrong. She still continued to think the same way.

That's what my logic says too..She's too young (she's 16). But my intuition says the otherwise, it's her character. In time, the appearence will be replaced by far more acceptable one, but her shallowness will not.

Capgirlinlustwithleo:
I have to agree with some of what haffo is saying, and yes I have been having a horrible time with an Cap and wonder if it will ever end, because i have 2 children with him. Cap men and I can only speak for my ex can be their own worst enemy, but like to take others down with them, even if it's their so called family, my ex is very immature and he's 30 years old. He told me 2 days ago that because I broke up with him and wouldn't marry him I destroyed his life (we've been broke up for over 8 months now), I'm trying to destroy his life, now mind you this is someone I've dealt with almost 10 years thats done horrible things to me, that I could never do too him in any way or good conscience, I have always been there for him, even when we broke up, even when he's been very spiteful, very vindictive, I wonder if some ever grow out of it. My ex is so sensitive, when it comes to his feelings, wants, or needs, but when it comes to others he just doesn't seem to get it, and worst of all since we broke up, he takes his issues and anger out on our kids, playing games always, I just wish I could get away from this man totally, never have to deal with him, because the more I try to be civil, work together or have peace for our children, it seems he becomes more more angry, childish, spiteful and yes he has been violent. It's like he takes all his frustration of hisself out on me and our children, he does very cruel and cold things, he lies, and than wonder why I don't choose to even care for him anymore, I've been beyond loyal to this man, I was always there for him when no else was, not even his own family, but since we broke up he treats me and our children like we're his enemy, I could go into full detail but it's so much and I never knew all of this could come from him, Cap men (my ex) can be very unforgiving of others, but think everyone should forgive them, he believes in Karma when he's giving it but not receiving it.

Question to Caps;

Do you find yourself ignoring what people say even if they try to fix something between you?

Do you find yourself ignoring what people say even if they try to fix something between you?

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YES I will IGNORE this post!

"YES I will IGNORE this post!"

Are you offended?

"YES I will IGNORE this post!"

Are you offended?

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If I say Yes, what will you do to make me happy/please? I am not that easy to please!

If I say No, will that make change any thing?

Why you are offended?

Caps never start out to hurt we live and let live, unless we are attacked or crossed. Then you must put them out of the picture, take them down, make sure they can not get back in the game and make sure they never pose a threat again.

OLD JAKE

I understand you. But as you see, Capricorns sometimes can be "too demanding" from people. Some people may not get what they are being expected to do. That why I said "maybe Capricorns will do good if they not forgive people". By this, I just tried to say "Capricorns should move on from such people".

"Why do you say that you want Caps to "not forgive"?"

Forgiveness slows them down. Slows them down to fulfil their purpose. Their purpose is high status.

"What does it mean to forgive anyway?? Just curious what everyone thinks..."

I'm not a forgiving person at all. Very few people are staying with me, but then they are the only ones who are worthfull.

Typical capricorns never let personal feelings get in the way of their goals. The last thing they would do is self-sabotage, because they're too smart and cunning for that. Most of them would just endure and say nothing if attakced. But if they smell opportunity to advance their ambition, they are truly ruthless and cold-haearted. if you are looking for an avenger, go look for a scorpio.

Most statements I have just read are true to a point. We caps are for the most part the type of people who you will never see sweat. We keep our feelings inside if you hurt us you will never know it. I disagree with Red-aries I can let personal feelings get in my way. I will not move forward on a goal if it might hurt someone I care about. True I care for very few people and as I Get older the number becomes less and less.

Haffo

As for being demanding of people we do exspect a lot from those that we hold close. If they fail us then we tend to drift apart from them. but its like my father once told me every one you care about will let you down and will fail you in someway. The old man spoke the truth even he let me down before it was over for died.

OLD JAKE,

I experience the same thing as your father has said. I guess the reason why we get unhappy when our close ones let us down, is because we expect too much from them. If we wont place too much expectations on them, we wouldn't get unhappy when they fail. Just my thought...I don't sure about its practical use. Probably not possible...

Still, if we know what we exactly want, probably we can shield ourselves from disappointments. But then, there are probably better people around to depend on.

"You mean materialistically?"

What else status is identified with?

"power? selfcontrol? maturity?"

All those.


"haffo - looks like you are highly disappointed with some capricorn(s)?"

Only one. Read the story on the first page of this topic.

Capricorns dont do well with emotions SimplyMe. And they waste their time when they do try to understand it. Going down with emotions is a trap for Capricorn. That why they appear like avengers. Because their powers are more effective when they deal with situation itself than how people perceive it.

I'm explaining what book says. Not what I see.