cap boyfriend aloof and selfish?....

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Kikikako
@Kikikako
13 Years

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I haven't seen my cap bf(he has alot of cap in his chart,venus in cap,sun in cap) in 5 months he seemed like he was happy to see me but the next morning he was so aloof,as if he didn't want to be around and was rushing to see his best male friend and didn't even tell me that he was happy to see me and he loved me and just didn't show emotion and that really hurt me and idk what i did wrong.He also wasn't feeling too well cause he has a cold and he kept telling me the night before that he's a mess. But he could've at least showed me he cared for me ,if he actually does:-/I haven't seen him for months and he's visiting Cali(that's where i live,we're in a long distance relationship) for 2 weeks,says it's to see his family and hedidn't even say that he came to visit to see me 😢 he's staying over his best friends place not his family's place.He's been here for 3 days now and I've only seen him once.He's not even asking me to hangout with him.He's been spending the past 2 days with his best friend that he hasn't seen for months and not me and I just feel awful and don't understand.If he truly loved me he'd be willing to spend time with me and not his best friend.what should I do guys?does his behavior prove that he doesn't love me?I've been crying for the past 2 days. what to think guys?is he not into me anymore?or is this how caps are 😢 ?
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truecap
@truecap
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He's got a lot of people to see while he's there. I'm sensing he probably was glad to see you, but sometime during the course of the visit with you, he realized the long term relationship just isn't going to work. Maybe he wasn't feeling the same connection anymore. I'm sorry to say this as well, but its time to move on. Besides, wouldn't it be more fun to be with someone who is in your town every day?