@Striking
14 Years
Do some Cap men only want control in the Bedroom..
In my situation, Cappy wants to be dominant in ALL areas, but he says that I can be the boss.
I DO ENJOY him being dominant in the bedroom though 😛
Uh Oh maybe he just make me thinks I am in control..lol Ive never had a man that took total control in the bedroom..Its nice...Nothing could be more loving for a Pisces woman..I can let go of any contol that I have, but I do posses some leadership skills due to some Aqua planets I have..And my Mars in Aries likes to take leadership too..
Yep, outside the bedroom, we are at odds over who is in control. Always comes to ME letting him take the lead. It's just more peaceful to exist that way. Besides, if he takes care of everything, I can take care of myself 🙂
Cute!!! Ive heard the song but never saw the video..My favorite one off his new album is "Nothing on you" such a sweet and surreal video..
Maaaaaaaaaan! That's the weirdest thing to me. My guy is a reserved Cap gentleman ALL the time - He's most comfortable controlling EVERYTHING, I MEAN EVERYTHING we do outside the bedroom, but IN the bedroom, totally different! NEVER acts like a boss! I'm the kinky, loud, touchy feely one LOL - him, sensuous and laid back - a master at foreplay. I guess every man is different.
Good theory.. but the trick for a woman is to LET him THINK he's always in control when SHE'S really pulling all the strings! LOL LOL - just kidding!
Posted by Chance11
don't let that calm outer shell fool ya..there's gold in them thar hills 😛
I feel ya! LOL
@Chance..BINGO!!! He always says I want you to be happy baby..do what makes you happy..he definetly one for pleasing his woman...Thats why he controls in the bedroom.I was just asking I dont need control at all really and especially in the bedroom..lol
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Ive noticed something and was just curious. My Cap man will let me take the drivers seat whenever I want to in our realationship. Whatever I ask for he never,ever says no. I love him for that. Its almost like he likes a woman that can
lead and be dominant. But in the bedroom he is a total leader everything is done his way. I am not complaning because he does well. And the women reading this that have been with a Cap man knows the truth to this. Is this a Cap man trait or an individual thing?