Cap man disappearing??!

Hi guys,

I have read many posts on this topic ...but since it's been just 2 days I guess I am searching for answers I can't find :/
Right after saying a LOT (even admitting to Loving me)and opening and all that (even night before) ...I made a stupid small jealous "mistake" asking why an ex contacted him...and that was the Reason to say "this is not going, it will not work" and than well "let's cool off" - and than he is gone...It's been 2 days - I am silent as I can't figure out if he needs space, or he is really gone and because I can't run after someone nor will i ever...
I get all my close friend saying "he'll cool off and come back"... well I am not so sure, i think he just broke it all down...

So ... any advice? Grateful for any 🙂

I had something similar happen when my cappy and I started seeing one another. He told me that my questioning about his ex was like questioning his integrity. He was really bothered by that. Ignored me for like a week!

I even posted about it on this forum and got some pretty good advice. Not sure how much is left, since many folks have left since then.

And why should you ask yourself this question? You did what you needed to do and what felt right for you. He did not like it so its his problem, leave him to deal with it and go on with your life. Did he ask you why you did it? Did he try to understand your feelings? No, he backed off.

Not a good start for you I would say: you are questioning your behaviour and giving him control over the relationship.

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Wow, caps have such a different perspective on exes.



Not sure this is the case. It is more like some Caps want too much things their way. Well, reality strikes sooner or later.

He might be embarrassed by baring the emotion. He might have felt he said too much. Then backed off because he's not so sure you felt the same. ?? If I say too much, I back off and wait.

my dear that is what am going through right now.my cappy man has been silent for 2 days after we had an argument.he thinks am stalking him,and i asked him if he is cheating on me he just got mad.and that was it.he doesnt answer my calls,his phone is off.he just doesnt talk to me.i dont know if it is over or wat?