Cap Men Work vS. Love

I Been with my Cappie now a few months. Hes a homebodie and 90% of the time he works. He's a certified semi-truck mechanic. He works late hours,and than passes out after he goes home sometimes before showering. We dont go out,but he texts me about 50x a day.. In fact, he will text me untill i respond, i could be sleeping and wake up to 9 text messages. All with "Morning beautiful" to the last one being "Babe! You ok?" Than i respond "just woke up" and he wil say "Miss you sleepy ass" LOL.. Anyways, we see each other now MAYBE once a week, but its always at my house for long hours of sex and cuddling,.. thats it. He never wants to go out... My question is... Are alot of Capricorns homebodies? I hate that when we see each other its late after he gets off work,and he comes over showers and BAM sex time.. And yea the sex is literally the BEST i ever had EVER! but i wish we hung out more,or Go on a date rather than just sex all the time. *sigh* I dont know how to tell him without sounding pushy.. Or worse, him think i dont wanna be with him intimately anymore.. Soooo how should i talk to him about it. I have a Cap sister and 2 Male cap cousins and they are very sensitive with their partners,and they pretend to never be upset but when their partners aint around they rant to me about "How could they think that" like they have some wall between them and their partners... so i was curious, i would never ever wanna hurt my Cappie mans feelings...

Were officialy dating

My cappy and I do spend quite a bit of time at home...he works a LOT and I think he enjoys unwinding at home with music and wine. Now on his days off, its a different story. He is always ready to do something either enjoying the outdoors or planning a special evening at a nice restaurant or concert or movie (rarely bars, he seems to dislike that scene). I think you should be honest with him and let him know you would like to go out more. My cappy has always said that he likes that I am direct when I tell him things, of course tact is important.

@Quiet...hey girl, things are pretty awesome for cappy and me right now! 😉 I liked your post about the "moment", I could totally relate.

My Cap guy is definitely a homebody mostly due to his work habits. However, he loves for us to have our "adventures" and we venture out almost equal to the time we spend at home. I'm a homebody too so for us it works most of the time. I agree with the other ladies that you need to let your Cap know that you won't to balance out your quality time by doing other things as well as spending time home alone. If he doesn't know he can't solve the "problem" and make adjustments to make you happy if, as QS said, he truly is into and cares about you. I will say that since you are dating and you didn't state that you and he were officially boyfriend and girlfriend that he might not be on the same level as you in regard to how you spend your time together. Not to say he doesn't genuinely care about and want to be with you but in my experience Cap men act according to how you fit into their lives by definition and level of seriousness. If he has made it clear that you are his one and only then making adjustments to please you will be no trouble at all. Good luck.

@ Cancerian Goddess -- don't feel bad because Cap's are workaholics. I guess it's their nature! My Cap is now hospitalized because of exhaustion due to overwork.
Due to our busy schedules sometimes I only meet him for lunch date or movies at a theater or mall nearby.