Hi all, I posted this question on the Taurus board a while back but I thought I'd ask all you Cap ladies out there -- what's your luck been with Taurus men? I'm six months in to a relationship with one that I adore. We have an amazing spark and connection but the dynamic is completely different than with anyone I've dated before. He's just so... male. In the "men are from mars" sense. All action, no talk. We've never said "you're my boy/girlfriend" but he walks the walk, spends what free time he has with me, plans things, is talking about taking me to meet his family (far away). And -- this is priceless -- he does what he says he'll do. If we make plans one week out to meet at a certain place, I don't bother to confirm because I know he'll be there. Anyhow, has anybody seen this combination work long-term? I'm not sure exactly what my question is, I'm just looking to learn from other experiences. FWIW I'm cap/aqua cusp, he's taurus. Thanks all! C
On the "all action no talk" Really, a big complaint on Cap men and sometimes women is that we are not verbal enough. With Taurus also being an earth sign, I can see how there's similarities in not being huge on a lot of talk, so I dont think its something to take too personal or to consider too different since you probably can relate.
However, maybe a way to get him to communicate more is if you be a bit more open and expressive. Dont do this with intentions or hopes of getting anything in return, but just talk so a comfortable enviroment to share is made.
I actually think Taurus are better with expressing and comunicating feelings than we are, honestly.
Thanks Creepy and Inana! Just what I wanted to hear. 😉 I'm not much of a communicator myself so it's strange to be "the chatty one" of the two in a relationship -- but I'm learning.
I posted this question on the Taurus board a while back but I thought I'd ask all you Cap ladies out there -- what's your luck been with Taurus men?
I'm six months in to a relationship with one that I adore. We have an amazing spark and connection but the dynamic is completely different than with anyone I've dated before. He's just so... male. In the "men are from mars" sense. All action, no talk. We've never said "you're my boy/girlfriend" but he walks the walk, spends what free time he has with me, plans things, is talking about taking me to meet his family (far away). And -- this is priceless -- he does what he says he'll do. If we make plans one week out to meet at a certain place, I don't bother to confirm because I know he'll be there.
Anyhow, has anybody seen this combination work long-term? I'm not sure exactly what my question is, I'm just looking to learn from other experiences.
FWIW I'm cap/aqua cusp, he's taurus.
Thanks all!
C