Cap Women: The Legend Continues ......

Okay, real quick before I head to work I have a question for every single zodiac male who has ever had relations with caprison women. WHY ON EARTH DO YOU MEN HAVE SO MANY ISSUES AND COMPLAINS ABOUT US?

COME ON, YOU CAN BE HONEST WITH ME, I CAN TAKE IT 😉 JUST TELL ME WHAT'S UP——

JEEZZ WE CAN'T BE THE WORST OUT OF THE ZODIAC -- NO WAY!!!!

SO COME ON, SPILL IT!!!

"WHY ON EARTH DO YOU MEN HAVE SO MANY ISSUES AND COMPLAINS ABOUT US? "

I saw some other Capricorn women whom I don't know closely to be very egoistic. That's the only problem come to my mind.

men do seem to have issues with us. i'm a cap, and all the cap women i know can't seem to get connected with a man, myself included. it's a painful thing, because we're full of love and desire for a great connection, and we're pretty fond of sex too, with the right person. what's is so bad about that? we are reliable, almost to a fault. we're discriminating, logical, funny, and get better and younger looking as we get older. are men intimidated by us—? i'd like to hear from cap women who have connnected into a good relationship and what signs they are connected to, and how they maintain that connection.

"Unreliability, flakeness, ego, and lying tends to be a major turn-off Cappysweetie"

"...other Capricorn women whom I don't know closely to be very egoistic."

WHAT! Flakenss, ego problems, lying—?? Okay, once again where have you men met these capricorn women—?? Okay, let me ask this question: "Were these women you all actually dated or tried to have a long-term relationship with? OR "Were these just some random chicks (these women range from those that hang out at bars to those that work in the boardroom ... random chicks come from ALL walks of life) you all decided to screw around with? If that's the case, then you should expect to end up with "any old thing" Hahahahaha, honently the depiction of cappy women is terrible.

Most people born under a certain zodiac sign or cusp are not the same but they do have many similar personality traits and attributes ... even the nonbelievers would have to agree. So to hear this stuff about the females of my own sign just seems to be odd because I don't view US this way. I think cappy women get a bad rap and the men on here probably just get together with the "ding-bats" LOL!

Ha! I really wnat to play devils advocate right now but I prefer no to. (credited to Barteby 🙂

Well Good morning Brahn , how are you today🙂 Hey, if you want to see somthing cute, go and see what I wrote on the taurus board, it's under "capricorns -- not a good match"

🙂

Okay, wait a minute. The "hot shit" comment can be taken either way. Many men go into relationships thinking they'e "gods gift". That's why so many of them have commitment problems. The only time they start to think about settle down is when their "stuff" doesn't work properly anymore -- I'm not male bashing, I'm just stating my opinion 🙂

brandon,
obviously you want a woman who has no self esteem. i think you're more full of yourself then anyone else on here. i think you're more bossy then anyone else on here, and that people have to believe your way or hit the highway. that's pretty demanding to me.
much more then i will ever be.

Branh...he is such a dashing character. *rolls eyes*

Brahn:Capricorn women have been the easiest women to get in bed for me.

WHOA! No way ... I can't be true 😢 When you say "easy" do you mean they would just "spread eagle"? The cappies I know (along with myself) cannot give ourselves that easily. My aunt is a perfect example, she wasn't willing to except the BS my other aunts put up with just to have some dude in her headquarters. Out of all my aunts, she is the most level-minded and adapable one. Yes, the others constantly tell her that she needs a man in her life BUT while they're dealing with their many "dramatic" problems; she is in the process of starting another degree program 😉

Like my aunt, I have to actually mean something to the man before I'm willing to have my "legs up in the air" LOL!!!!!!!

I'm still not convinced by all I've heard about cappy women ... I just think the men are dealing with "ding-bats" and those come in all shapes,shades, sizes, and zodiac signs 😉

brandon...i'm not bustin' a blood vessel over you and your opinions.

Easiest to get into bed— all the guys i have known have told me they cant imagine me let my guard down and that im a "long term girl", "not a party animal" & "marriage material".

I 'apparently' scare them though, i dont see it myself but my friends (male & female) tell me all the time. "smile for god sakes, your scaring them away, he's looking at you just smile!!!!" lol

Its true that i have the 'its my way or the highway' attitude, but only when it concerns my fragile heart.

Really?
Man, I would feel an overwhelming amount of guilt if I did that to someone!

About being impenetrable, its true, we do put on the 'facade', I think its because we don?t want to appear needy, thus putting a man off as that nasty Cosmo magazine would make us believe (hate that thing).

So many times have I missed the boat with this stupid technique, finally I took the plunge just recently with a Virgo I know. However, he has not replied after a couple of days, guess I might have misinterpreted the "you know I love you" speech he gave me.

Ill always love him until the day I die I suspect, I just wish him happiness.

Hehe, I think I would have made a productive pair with a Virgo, one being for the same reason you give branh0913, of not doing anything I wouldent not do.

branh0913...why do you find it a necessary evil with cap women?, to manipulate us I mean. What do we do for you to resort to such means?

thats nice!, very complementing i must say. ill admit that the insecure part rings true, especially when your other half is rather attractive i find.... but its silly, they wouldent be there with us if they didnt want us!.

we all need to get over out quirks i guess, i know if trying to

correction: 'if' meant ot me 'im'

yes! your right Capgirlinlustwithleo. that rings very true...

Do you think that stems from fear of loosing your partners interest unless you become sexually involved?

primegen: "I think Cappysweetie wanted them too. I still have stuff to do tomorrow so I will have two pairs anyway."

AHAHAHAHA!!! Primegen! How the Heck are you my friend 🙂 Sorry I missed you, I was out.

What kind of undies do you have for me ... are they the kind you consume 😉

As far as having a "my way or the highway" attitude ... yes this can be true at times --well for me, it depends on a certain time of the month (the ladies understand what I mean 😉) but other then that I can be pretty nonchalant, haha it's one of my flaws. My mood swings can be quite extreme:

a) I can be the most emotional person EVER ... my goodness if someone hurts or slights me ... I'll "Cry Me A River" >>love that song.

b) I can be the most unemotional person EVER, I can totally detach myself and feel indifferent -- although I will admit that I can still "feel" even when I don't want to ...

As far as sex goes, I see nothing wrong with creativity and I think with the RIGHT partner (someone who doesn't play with our emotions) would definately see that side ... they just have to be true to us.

Hahaha, I'm thinking of "All I Ask of You"From Phantom of the Opera:

CHRISTINE
Say you love me
every
waking moment,
turn my head
with talk of summertime . . .

Say you need me
with you,
now and always . . .
promise me that all
you say is true -
that?s all I ask
of you . . .

RAOUL
Let me be
your shelter,
let me
be your light.
You?re safe:
No-one will find you
your fears are
far behind you . . .

CHRISTINE
All I want
is freedom,
a world with
no more night . . .
and you
always beside me
to hold me
and to hide me . . .

RAOUL
Then say you?ll share with
me one
love, one lifetime . . .
Iet me lead you
from your solitude . . .

Say you need me
with you
here, beside you . . .
anywhere you go,
let me go too -
Christine,
that?s all I ask
of you . . .

HAHAHAHA I love that musical!!!!!

OMG Brahn, if you can get a capricorn into bed within a month you must be one seductive man ... uh oh maybe cappie women are your prey 😉 No Brahn, we are not meant to be prey, we are meant for long-term relationships, that's all we want darn it! (MUCH PUN INTENDED HERE ... No flames please 🙂) I've involved with one virgo, two capricorns, one scorpio, and one cancer. True, the scorpio almost went all the way but I wouldn't let it happen (there were very good reasons why I said NO!) BUT!!! The man that grabbed my emotions -- along with everything else-- was that crabby cancer.

They only reason I stopped him was because we just didn't know each other long enough --it had only been a month and he wanted to have sex :O NO-Sir!!!, my God I didn't know him that well enough and he didn't even declare me his girlfriend, jeezzz he could have had a disease for crying out loud! He told me he wasn't use to women acting the way I do ... whatever, I still didn't do it. Whether it was for the best or not I just didn't feel confortable.

Sorry, I'm not a freebie -- just have too many emotions for that kind of stuff (my mom's a pisces so maybe that's where I get all my emotions)

My moto is "You can't sample the milk with puting a down payment on the cow" 😉 LOL!!!
A subtle "down payment" that is -- NOT a financial one! ... ewwwwwwwww SICKENING!! I refused to get started on that subject 😉

insecurity and sex with cap women... i think stems from that when we give ourselves sexually, it means a whole lot more then most would believe. we become insecure because we know that the one we give ourselves to, in a way has the upper hand. we want it to be something deep and meaningful, what sex is supposed to mean to two people really, but understand in this day and age, that it can mean absolutely nothing. which is very painful to a cap who feels so deeply.

brandon,
i can say i finally feel your intelligence on some issues, but i never in my life was i, being a cap, a shallow thinker. not since the day i was born. i knew and understood on such a deep level, that life was and has been difficult trying to explain what i knew and how i knew it. also, if you felt that you were the giver in your cap relationship, i can only say there was something that was not quite right inside her about you that kept her guard up. that's when we pull back.

Capgirlinlust: "Caps do give what they get. Sometimes they give too much (because they are a very giving sign) and then they realise they are wasting their time on someone who does not deserve it. If you ever do want this truly productive relationship with a cap woman then you need to stop seeing the front as a sign of war and start to see it as the defence mechanism against pain that it is....All the doors get locked and the defences go up when she realises she can't trust you not to hurt her. You just prove she was right by finishing it."

I couln't have said it better myself. I do have a serious dispostion about myself because I've been hurt in the past but I do know that being hurt is part of emotional growth. Trying to avoid pain just makes you more likely to endure it. So although I have my own defenses, I do still keep the door open -- I feel it's unfair to alignate all men because of my history with just a few. I'm just more careful now because most men who are scorn by other women don't mine ripping your heart and leaving you alone in the dark.

"You don't seem to me to be a very happy man in your relationships. You appear to feel the need to punish women for having any sorts of feelings for you. Maybe you need to examine the inner reasons for this before you start blaming the actions of others. My guess is that you were hurt by this pisces and now you have to prove no other woman will ever hurt you again by hurting them first. It's something a lot of men go through when they have been hurt badly."

Brahn, I don't know you personally so I will not make assumptions. I really hope this isn't true. You seem too witty of a man and your personality is too engaging for you to behave this way but people who are hurt behave in ways to later regret -- including myself so we are the same in that fashion. My cancer buddy is just like what capgirlinlust described, although I won't have known if I didn't do my own research. This is why I had to take a back emotionally because going through his own personal turmoil and I cannot help him with it ... he has to help himself (advice credited to Brahn).

All of the above that has been described as personality traits by capricorn are traits I sincerely don't see in myself. The only two traits I have are the defenses issues and the whole "my way or the highway" attitude but that only comes out when I feel I've been USED!

"Sometimes they give too much (because they are a very giving sign) and then they realise they are wasting their time on someone who does not deserve it."

This has happen to me on two occasions and in the end I felt weak because the men just seem to want to take-take-take. So I've learned to wait before fully exposing my emotion because people are too rethless for my blood. The only time I've ever given cold vibes is when I know I've been toyed with.

Brahn:"The bottomline, Capricorns don't take Virgos seriously, and I can't for the life of me figure out why."

Sorry but in my experience that's totally unfounded. My first b/f was a virgo and I took our relationship very personally -- I fell hard for him. There were reasons why we had to put but if things were different I would probably still be with him (the rapport was just that strong along with the connection). I have two male friends who are virgos and I seek much advice from them and vise versa -- more on social issues instead of personal. Out of all my friends, a certain virgo friend of mine is who I enjoy conversating with the most because we have good chemistry.

My verdict still stands that most of these men have met up with "ding-bats" and since they happen to be caprisorn women ALL cappy females are labled the seem just because we may show similar personality trait.

What a load of crap ....

I took a huge leap of faith for a cappy, two days ago at dyrstr8z encouragement I told a Virgo friend that I loved him, he told me the same thing a week ago and I didnt say it back (wasn?t sure how he meant it).

I sympathise with you branh, I am tired of playing games? I have lost so many chances in the past, because of my aloofness and cold attitude toward those I cared about most.

Even if this Virgo doesn?t return the feelings the way i hope, im proud of myself for not letting my fears control me, for taking a risk on love...

pdragon,

I admire you for the risk that you took! And you told a virgo man this !!!!! Wow, you are more gutsy than I! I remember telling this taurus guy that I cared about him but he did return the feelings (I think I was a little too "earthy" for him -- and my chest wasn't big enough (yes he was very vain)😢 So, as a result I will wait until I'm told the big "IOV", I'm too afraid to open myself up like that again. Maybe I'll get brave again ...

Lol its so weird because everyone tells me how gutsy i am for telling a virgo man this!, but he did say it to me first, im just not sure how he meant it 😛 .

strange, im not afraid if he never contacts me again... ill always love him no matter what hehe.. call me crazy but ah well, you only live once i guess...dont get me wrong, i would be the happies girl on the planet if he does.

Now that is vain of him!!!!! you deserve better!!!! big chests are soooo overated! and i dont blame you for wanting to hear those words first at all.

"Now that is vain of him!!!!! you deserve better!!!! big chests are soooo overated! and i dont blame you for wanting to hear those words first at all."

Thank you for the support 🙂 Yes that bull was rough, that's why I had to dismiss my feelings for him quickly -- NO BREAST IMPLANTS FOR ME. I let my chest -- they are small and humble hahahahaha.

Anyway, there's just something about those darn virgos! I adore my b/f who was a virgo ... even when they are being jerks at least they are honest about it. In my experience, probably out of all the earth signs, a virgo and a capricorn are the best match. They just need to oevercome petty personality conflicts -- virgos can be cynical and capricorns can be nonchalant. I think they can the most productive coupling out of the earth signs too.

Hey Cappy women, I found this website last month and thought it was cute. Since we have trouble with male compatiblity, check this website out:

http://www.pattygreenall.com/compat.html

Some of it is questionable, but it does make sense 😉

Thanks Cappysweetie.. 🙂 It looks like I've met all the wrong guys. I have never met a pisces or a cancer guy in a romantic way. One taurus guy was too flingy so maybe I don't wanna have more of that.

OH YOU ALL ARE WELCOME 🙂 Hahahahaha, I have another one, this one is very detailed (THERE'S ALOT OF GOODIES ON THIS WEBSITE 😉 )

http://www.live-astro.com/love_romance/index.php

ENJOY 🙂

"I think only a Scorpio man, can deal with a capricorn woman, as we can bring the hidden beauty out of them (Which is almost impossible to the other signs)."

jackdoniel, you may have a point there. OMG, that's what I am afraid of ... that fate will lead me to be with a scorpio. My goodness some one have mercy on my soul :p Honestly, I think virgos and cancers may have that same power but here's the difference. A virgo man may expect the cappy female to be his perfect little doll and that will cause conflict. The cancer man may play too many mind games in order for the cappy female to prove her loyalty and that will cause conflict. If the virgo and the cancer would just cut that stuff out! ... they would be good 😉

The best thing about a scorpio male is that he already knows what he wants and will not try to change something he likes and will be honest (yes, I know that is a shocker but true) if the female has gained his trust.

Hahaha, it the same for me with scorpios. I get so much out of them that others wouldn't. Why ... I don't know but the connection is pretty intense.

Wait Brahn, I wasn't talking about ALL virgos -- no generalizations here. Only a few, my virgo friend doesn't want a perfect doll either but my virgo brother seem to want one ... that's why he is still single.

Just in my experience (like your experience with cappie women) tauarus and virgo men want perfection. Especially, this taurus man I know. Jeez he wanted me to improve on everything ... and he thought his advice would benefit me in some way. At the time a virgo friend (different guy) told me I looked fine and I should listen to him ... hahaha he became my b/f 🙂 So not all virgo men are created equal ... I had to learn like you did about cappie women.

"No. But it also isn't a matc that functions on cruise control, that pairing can be just as fucked up as any other one.b"

This is true ... but there is an undeniable connection there. The scorpio I became involved with came out of no where when I became his "target" (I though I knew him for five years). Everything just seem to flow in a certain way and no matter what I did I couldn't get away from him. This may sound stupid but I do mean this quite literally. At first, I had to be with him and around him at all times. Jeezz if I walked outside with shorts on and a tank top ... all hell would break loose!

No match is ever perfect Branh.

Forever a lonely man. How sad.

Hey virgo101, what's up?

No I think Brahn just took what I said the wrong ...

way*

Nothing. I really should be getting to bed right now. But...

How are you?

My allerges are kicking my butt hahaha, but good.

I've started my Summer semester already and I have an exam next week ... yikes!

My relationship with the scorpio started off good but then it ended terribly ... he was a little physical (not abusive but it almost got to that point) with me but I was able to get out of the situation.

We all know by now all cappies are not the same ... NO WAY (especailly the ones that were described on here ... ewww). I wouldn't mind a man opening me up emotionally, but I just got to trust him because my emotions are fagile ... hopefully that will improve with age.

Wow, you ar right Brahn.

My God, where were you when I was with this scorpio guy, I needed to hear that bit of advice. He would definately force himself on me but he had me convinced that it was my fault for being "me" —?

"People get hurt, but just suck it up, its apart of life."

I was just about to argue that point but I can't ... you are right again. I have to stop letting my emotions rule me so much. I'm a cap and I need to really start acting like it. It's going to take me come time, but I'll get stronger 😉 Thank you Brahn, you are the best.

You have work in the morning you should get some sleep 🙂 Gnight

Jack,

It's funny, you and Brahn have oppsoing views but I'm very neutral. It's my libra risng, it balances me way too much.

You raised some very good points tonight, and you support cappie women ***cool beans***

I'll talk to you later, I have work (both jobs) and school in the morning.

Bye Bye for now

"They often start a lot of things that they can't finish as well. For example Capricorns are good at stating what they want, but they have no idea how to actually go about getting what they want."

Not really Brahn, I'm a much slower starter but a much faster finisher. I'm like a turtle when I begin something, then I finish like a hare.

"Capricorns are good at stating what they want, but they have no idea how to actually go about getting what they want. They close up, because they often times get themselves stuck."

Darn it, I cannot debate this. It's very true ...BUT more true when I was younger. I have improved within the years. Knowing what I want and how to get it has is more apparant -- which has increased my self esteem. Wondering aimlessly just doesn't work, I know what I am doing or else I'm unsatisfied and I cannot focus.

Brahn: "I'm also a Libra rising."

Really— No Kidding 🙂 Uh oh, no wonder you can attract so many women LOL!!! Libra rising people can be great charmers, but we are not fake about it. If we see a good quality in a person, we will indeed voice it and mean it from the heart. We also have great tact and can talk ourselves out of anything (well ... most of the time anyway hahaha)

OMG, this is interesting, what's your moon? My moon is in Aquarius 🙂

my prob with cap girls are they got this whole 'tough' thing going on
easily approachable but i just want to shake them
but hey real prob comes from not being able to talk about feelings - they obv. sensitive people but they just 'tight' sorry i mean up tight and they just inpenitrable

gee-kron,

What's so wrong with a woman being tough? Do you want a weak woman? You cannot expect a woman to just openly speak about her feelings if she doesn't feel confortable. It's just not what we do -- especially cappie woman.

Brahn,

Hey, that's really interesting. Both our sun signs (virgo/capricorn), rising signs (libra/libra)and moon signs (gemini/aquarius) match up! Uh oh! ... we have an astrological connection 😉 Hahahaha, this is too funny! You said you haven't been able to connect with cappie women ... oh Brahn what a dishonest man you are my dear LOL!

Hehehehe, I dare you to reveal your venus to me. I'll tell you mine if you tell me yours 😉 In the event that we match, YOU have been a very dishonest man in terms of your connection with cappie females.

So come on ... tell me 😉 You can do it ... I DOUBLE, TRIPLE, QUADUPLE dog dare you to reveal your venus sign ..... Hey it's all in good FUN!!!!


I'll be waiting 😉

Hey cappies, I've already posted two compatiblity websites already ... but I can resist posting one more. Here's my last one:

http://www.fatewatch.com/

Enjoy 🙂

Ohhhh NO YOU DON'T MISTER! Actually you are very wrong Brahn. Aquarius and virgo can get along because it's a mental connection.

So that means sun
(virgo/capricorn -- excellent),

rising (libra/libra -- good),

moon (gemini/aquarius -- very good)

and venus (virgo/ aquarius -- yes they are compatible -- in a friendship mannner)

YEAH!!!!, I GOT YOU!!! LOL. Why— Because I'm good like that 🙂 I never said what sort of compatiblity, so friendship counts!

All four of them match up smarty ... so I was right 😉 This is one cappie female that you do connect with (astrologically anyway) ... so you were wrong 😉

Come on Brahn, you are a fellow libra rising you should already know that I'm tricky LOL

Oh JOY!!! I was able to proved Brahn wrong, now I can sleep well tonight LOL!!!

Ohhhhhhhhhhhhh I FEEL GOOD ALL OVER 🙂🙂🙂